<\/a><\/noindex><\/p>\nG\u0259lin Pareto prinsipi il\u0259 xat\u0131rlayaq: 80\/20. 80% t\u0259l\u0259b yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 20% s\u0259y s\u0259rf olunur, qalan 20% i\u015f \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 80% s\u0259y t\u0259l\u0259b olunur.<\/p>\n
M\u0259n, \u0259slind\u0259, h\u0259r hans\u0131 qanunlar\u0131 \u00e7ox sevmir\u0259m, amma Pareto formulunun t\u0259sdiqini daim g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u0259m. Bir d\u0259f\u0259 m\u0259mnuniyy\u0259t analiz hesabat\u0131 haz\u0131rlay\u0131rd\u0131m - v\u0259 d\u0259qiq, ay Allah, s\u0259ks\u0259n faiz q\u00fcsurun s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri d\u0259qiq, ay Allah, iyirmi faiz s\u0259b\u0259b il\u0259 izah olunurdu. \u00dcst\u0259lik, q\u00fcsurlar\u0131n 80%-i h\u0259m detal say\u0131na, h\u0259m d\u0259 onlar\u0131n d\u0259y\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259.<\/p>\n
Bel\u0259c\u0259, eyni m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259llikl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Bir insan\u0131n bir v\u0259 ya bir ne\u00e7\u0259 a\u00e7ar bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131, qabiliyy\u0259ti v\u0259 ya istedad\u0131 var. \u018fg\u0259r o, bu bacar\u0131qlar\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn istifad\u0259 edirs\u0259, bu bacar\u0131q toplusu ona h\u0259yatda 80% u\u011fur g\u0259tirir. Y\u0259ni, m\u00fcvafiq istedadlar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn insan 20% s\u0259y s\u0259rf edir. N\u0259 bildiyiniz i\u015fl\u0259ri g\u00f6rm\u0259k asand\u0131r, el\u0259 deyilmi? O, nec\u0259 is\u0259 ba\u015f verir.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan\u0131n g\u00fccl\u00fc t\u0259r\u0259fi olmayan dig\u0259r hiss\u0259si is\u0259 daha \u00e7\u0259tin ba\u015fa g\u0259lir. M\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259llik aura\u0131n\u0131 saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qalan 80% s\u0259y s\u0259rf olunur. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn - d\u00f6rd d\u0259f\u0259 daha \u00e7ox.<\/p>\n
Bel\u0259likl\u0259, \u0259g\u0259r insan m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olmaq ist\u0259yirs\u0259, buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fa bil\u0259r. \u00d6z ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259y s\u0259rf etsin. Amma m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l obraz n\u0259 apar\u0131r?<\/p>\n
Y\u00fcks\u0259lmi\u015f g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259r\u0259, ba\u015fqa n\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r s\u0259n m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259ls\u0259ns\u0259, s\u0259nd\u0259n ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 n\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259nilmir. H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l olmal\u0131san. He\u00e7 vaxt s\u0259hv etm\u0259y\u0259 haqq\u0131n yoxdur.<\/p>\n
\"Adi\" olan\u0131n s\u0259n\u0259 icaz\u0259 verilmir, n\u0259 il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olursan ol. Dediyin kimi, ad\u0131n\u0131 qoymusansa, o da\u015f\u0131yacaqsan. S\u0259n \u2013 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l proqram\u00e7\u0131san? Xahi\u015f edir\u0259m, he\u00e7 vaxt keyfiyy\u0259ti a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olan kod yazma. M\u0259qal\u0259l\u0259r yaz\u0131rsan? Yax\u015f\u0131, oxucular\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rin\u0259 uy\u011fun olmal\u0131san. \u0130ddia edirs\u0259n ki, m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l b\u0259d\u0259n\u0259 sahibs\u0259n? Unut birlikd\u0259 i\u00e7m\u0259k v\u0259 t\u00fcst\u00fcl\u00fc kabablar. Sa\u011flam ya\u015fam ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259? Yax\u015f\u0131, macdonaldsda g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u0259n, Allah saxlas\u0131n.<\/p>\n
Bu, oynanan bir oyun \u2013 ham\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, b\u0259xtsiz olanlardan ba\u015fqa. \u018ftrafdak\u0131lara bu a\u00e7\u0131qd\u0131r, ona is\u0259 yox. \u0130nsan m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsa, o q\u0259d\u0259r daha \u00e7ox hiss edir ki, \u0259traf\u0131nda h\u0259r k\u0259s onun u\u011furlar\u0131n\u0131 izl\u0259yir v\u0259, \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131, u\u011fursuzluqlar\u0131n\u0131.<\/p>\n
V\u0259 burada haql\u0131d\u0131r. Ham\u0131 onun u\u011fursuzluqlar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n u\u011fursuzluqlar\u0131ndan daha yax\u0131ndan izl\u0259yir. V\u0259 onun u\u011furlar\u0131ndan daha yax\u0131nd\u0131r. Ya\u015f\u0131l goblinin dediyi kimi, insanlar\u0131n q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131n u\u011fursuzluqlar\u0131, onun d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259si v\u0259 m\u0259hv olmas\u0131 daha \u00e7ox maraq do\u011furur.<\/p>\n
H\u0259r k\u0259sin, q\u0131sacas\u0131, kims\u0259nin m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259lliyin\u0259 fikir vermir. He\u00e7 kim ondan heyr\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, yaln\u0131z \u00f6z q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131. V\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l bir imic yaratmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259rf olunan b\u00fct\u00fcn z\u0259hm\u0259tl\u0259r bo\u015fa \u00e7\u0131xacaq.<\/p>\n
Bir m\u00fc\u0259llif bir kitabda m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l imicin saxlanmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bel\u0259 bir metafora t\u0259klif etmi\u015fdi. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin ki, daim \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 bir donuz g\u0259tirm\u0259lisiniz. O, qa\u00e7\u0131r, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131r v\u0259 siz onu saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259h\u0259ng s\u0259yl\u0259r s\u0259rf edirsiniz. K\u0259nardan h\u0259r k\u0259s a\u00e7\u0131qca g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, siz bo\u015f yer\u0259 bununla m\u0259\u015f\u011fulsunuz v\u0259 onu da\u015f\u0131ma\u011f\u0131n real s\u0259b\u0259bi yoxdur. Sad\u0259c\u0259, buna ehtiyac var.<\/p>\n
Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, idealizasiya meyli var. \u018fg\u0259r bir \u015feyd\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131zsa, \u0259traf\u0131n\u0131zdak\u0131 insanlar ba\u015flay\u0131rlar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 sonra dem\u0259y\u0259 ki, siz \u2013 ideal olan. Sizd\u0259 olmayan \u015feyi axtarma\u011fa. \u00d6zl\u0259ri sizinl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 h\u0259min donuzu yaradaraq siz\u0259 da\u015f\u0131d\u0131r\u0131rlar. H\u0259tta siz bunu planla\u015fd\u0131rmam\u0131\u015f olsan\u0131z bel\u0259.<\/p>\n
Burada insan art\u0131q \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn yarad\u0131lm\u0131\u015f obraz\u0131na uy\u011funla\u015fma\u011fa q\u0259rar verir, ya da etm\u0259z. \u00c7oxlar\u0131 raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131r - bu el\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259ldir, \u00e7\u00fcnki s\u0259ni, yum\u015faq des\u0259k, ir\u0259lil\u0259dirl\u0259r. Vay, m\u0259n bel\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcrd\u00fcm. Do\u011frudan, siz do\u011frudan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz ki, m\u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 kod yaz\u0131ram? H\u0259? \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, b\u0259li. M\u0259n d\u0259 \u00f6z kodumun kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r yax\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funu ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m. Kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r. H\u0259tta dey\u0259rdim ki, o \u0259la!<\/p>\n
Sonra d\u0259st\u0259k dayand\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r - obraz\u0131 siz\u0259 yaratd\u0131lar, bundan sonrak\u0131n\u0131 is\u0259 t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na da\u015f\u0131mal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. \u018fg\u0259r siz qubernatorsan\u0131z, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 - onlar\u0131n b\u00fcdc\u0259sind\u0259 \"qubernatorun imicini saxlamaq\" kimi ayr\u0131ca bir madd\u0259 var. \u0130nsan obraz\u0131 il\u0259 t\u0259k qal\u0131r v\u0259 onu d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcbariz\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Problemi daha da \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fdirir ki, geriy\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259k, sanki utancverici olur, \u00e7\u00fcnki bu da\u011flara \u00f6z\u00fc \u00e7\u0131xmam\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Sizi yuxar\u0131 it\u0259l\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda utand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hiss edirsiniz. Onlar\u0131n siz\u0259 etdikl\u0259ri investisiyalar it\u0259c\u0259k, \u0259g\u0259r siz geri \u00e7\u0259kils\u0259niz. H\u0259m d\u0259 bir daha sizinl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmayacaqlar.<\/p>\n
B\u0259zi hallarda h\u0259yat\u0131mdan m\u0259nim ir\u0259lil\u0259diyim ya da m\u0259n\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir obraz uyduruldu\u011fu v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 rast g\u0259ldim. Lakin iki s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n ideal olmad\u0131m: t\u0259nb\u0259llik v\u0259 uydurulmu\u015f prinsipl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
T\u0259nb\u0259llik h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 xilas edirdi, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n ba\u015flayaraq. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, m\u0259n bir yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q v\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tli idim. O q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tliydim ki, bir d\u0259f\u0259 bir ili iki sinfi bitir\u0259r\u0259k ba\u015fa vurmu\u015fdum. M\u0259ni n\u00fcmun\u0259 kimi g\u00f6st\u0259rirdil\u0259r, olimpiadalara v\u0259 m\u00fcsabiq\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6nd\u0259rirdil\u0259r, mahn\u0131 oxuma\u011fa v\u0259 r\u0259qs etm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edirdil\u0259r. Ancaq m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259nb\u0259llik vard\u0131.<\/p>\n
M\u0259n olimpiadaya haz\u0131rl\u0131qdan qa\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131m, \u00e7\u00fcnki o, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n sonra idi. Arada d\u00f6rd, \u00fc\u00e7 v\u0259 iki al\u0131rd\u0131m. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlikd\u0259n, valideynl\u0259rim bununla \u00e7ox da maraqlanm\u0131rd\u0131 - g\u00fcnd\u0259liy\u0259 ild\u0259 iki d\u0259f\u0259 bax\u0131rd\u0131lar. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 is\u0259 normal, i\u015f\u0259 yarayan bir medal\u0131 ald\u0131m - g\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f. \u00c7\u00fcnki 10-cu sinifd\u0259 bir d\u0259rs \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn iki iki ald\u0131m, \u00e7\u00fcnki d\u0259ft\u0259rin k\u0259narlar\u0131nda almalar\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kmi\u015fdim.<\/p>\n
Eyni \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259nb\u0259llik i\u015fd\u0259 d\u0259 xilas edirdi. N\u0259 is\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259t \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m, v\u0259 sanki m\u0259ntiq v\u0259 h\u0259rbi elm bildirir ki, m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259t\u0259 nail olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ancaq m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259nb\u0259llikdir. Q\u0259l\u0259b\u0259d\u0259n sonra istirah\u0259t etm\u0259k, televizora baxmaq v\u0259 \u00e7ipsl\u0259ri x\u0131rtlatmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m, h\u0259m m\u00fcdrik, h\u0259m d\u0259 dolay\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259. Yeni haz\u0131rlanan ideal obraz g\u00f6z qaba\u011f\u0131nda \u0259ridir, bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259.<\/p>\n
Amma sad\u0259c\u0259 t\u0259nb\u0259lliyin yet\u0259rli deyil. \u0130ll\u0259r \u00f6td\u00fckc\u0259 b\u0259zi bacar\u0131qlar v\u0259 qabiliyy\u0259tl\u0259r artd\u0131, v\u0259 onlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259rin bir hiss\u0259si dem\u0259k olar ki, g\u00f6zl\u0259rimi yumub edilir, x\u00fcsusi bir \u0259zm olmadan. Ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck z\u0259hm\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259r\u0259k eyni s\u0259viyy\u0259ni saxlamaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr, lakin indi bu \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r azal\u0131b. V\u0259 t\u0259nb\u0259llik art\u0131q m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l bir obraz yaratma\u011f\u0131na c\u0259hd ed\u0259nl\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaqda k\u00f6m\u0259k etmir.<\/p>\n
Burada sad\u0259 bir prinsip k\u00f6m\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259ldi: balans yaratmaq. Y\u0259ni, bir q\u0131sa s\u00f6zl\u0259, qeyri-m\u00fcsb\u0259t \u015feyl\u0259r etm\u0259k. \u015e\u00fcurlu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259, arada bir, h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l obraz\u0131 da\u011f\u0131tan \u015feyl\u0259r etm\u0259k.<\/p>\n
M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, m\u0259qal\u0259l\u0259r yazmaq. Eyni m\u00f6vzuda bir ne\u00e7\u0259 m\u0259qal\u0259 yazanda, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n oxucular g\u0259lir. G\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259r yarad\u0131rlar v\u0259 onlar\u0131 m\u0259nim \u00fcst\u00fcm\u0259 y\u00fckl\u0259yirl\u0259r. T\u0259nb\u0259lliyin he\u00e7 bir k\u00f6m\u0259yi yoxdur - \u00e7ox s\u00fcr\u0259tli yaz\u0131ram. V\u0259 oxucular bir \u015feyl\u0259r t\u0259l\u0259b edirl\u0259r - h\u0259r yerd\u0259n, \u015f\u0259xsi mesajlarla, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n, b\u0259zil\u0259ri is\u0259 ayaqla g\u0259lib. 'Ver,' deyirl\u0259r, 'biz\u0259 sevdiyimiz m\u00f6vzuda m\u0259qal\u0259l\u0259r laz\u0131m.'<\/p>\n
Amma m\u0259n bunu ist\u0259mir\u0259m. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 \u015f\u00fcurlu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 bu pisliyi edir\u0259m - ba\u015fqa bir m\u00f6vzuda yaz\u0131ram. Siz \u0259d\u0259biyyat\u0131 sevirsiniz? Buyurun, burada d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259ri idar\u0259 etm\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 bir m\u0259qal\u0259. Proqram\u00e7\u0131larla ba\u011fl\u0131 bir \u015fey sevirsiniz? Budur, menecerl\u0259r haqq\u0131nda. Layih\u0259l\u0259ri idar\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yirsiniz? Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131n, m\u0259n h\u0259kiml\u0259r haqq\u0131nda yazmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m.<\/p>\n
B\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 onu balansla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131ram ki, he\u00e7 kim inciy\u0259sin. A priori ziyanl\u0131 olacaq bir m\u0259qal\u0259 yaz\u0131ram. Sad\u0259c\u0259 oxucular\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rini azaltmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn.<\/p>\n
Bunu etm\u0259s\u0259n, 'm\u0259suliyy\u0259t' y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc hiss etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131qda, birba\u015fa fiziki olaraq. Bir m\u00f6vzuda yazmaq ist\u0259yirs\u0259n, amma dig\u0259rini etm\u0259k laz\u0131m olur. \u00c7\u00fcnki oxucular bunu ist\u0259yir. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar m\u0259ni \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fc kimi ist\u0259yirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Eynil\u0259 ba\u015fqa f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u0259 balansla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131ram. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u015f\u00fcurlu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 plan\u0131m\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetirmir\u0259m. \u00dc\u00e7 ay yerin\u0259 yetirir\u0259m, bir ay - atlay\u0131ram. H\u0259tta yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn imkan olsa bel\u0259.<\/p>\n
B\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 pis kod yaz\u0131ram. \u015e\u00fcurlu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259. \u0130nan\u0131lmaz \u015f\u0259rhl\u0259r, m\u0259nas\u0131z metadata adlar\u0131, a\u011flas\u0131\u011fmaz x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin v\u0259 metodlar\u0131n adlar\u0131.<\/p>\n
Daha sad\u0259 des\u0259k, g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rin quluna \u00e7evrilm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00f6zl\u0259nilm\u0259z olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bunu t\u0259nb\u0259llikl\u0259 v\u0259 ya \u015f\u00fcurlu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
G\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259ri da\u011f\u0131tmaq - asan v\u0259 sad\u0259dir. Yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259ri s\u00fcrd\u00fcrm\u0259kd\u0259n daha asand\u0131r. Onda 80% s\u0259yl\u0259ri s\u0259rf etm\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyac qalm\u0131r, n\u0259hay\u0259t, i\u015f\u0259 ba\u015flamaq olar. Azad olunan s\u0259yl\u0259ri is\u0259 bildiyiniz sah\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 y\u00f6n\u0259lm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn istifad\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
An unpleasant thing alone is not enough \u2013 the image is still formed again. New people come who haven't seen the conscious misdeeds, and the old ones forget. They think \u2013 well, the person slipped (they don\u2019t know I did this intentionally. Though, now they'll read and find out). And again they start to create something that isn\u2019t there and shouldn\u2019t be.<\/p>\n
Therefore, the practice of conscious misdeeds has to be repeated periodically. As soon as I feel the pressure of expectations rising, I immediately \u2013 throw a piece of excrement into the cake. They immediately make a sour face, 'Oh, so that's how you are', and back off. That's it, now I can work normally.<\/p>\n
I apply the same principle as much as I can to my subordinates. Most of them are young and thus infused with the modern culture of guaranteed success in everything. As soon as something starts to work out \u2013 immediately the chin goes up, and they start to mold themselves into someone inexplicable.<\/p>\n
No, that won't do. The remedy is simple: an unpleasant thing. In this case, it needs to either be found or created. It\u2019s not difficult to find if you look around \u2013 everyone always has some flaw. There\u2019s no need to expose it to public scrutiny \u2013 just mentioning it in a private conversation is enough.<\/p>\n
Creating an unpleasant thing is a bit more challenging \u2013 you need to set a task that the person will inevitably fail to complete within the established timeframe. Not in a way that they suffer a severe blow to their significance, but just to humble them and bring them back to the ground. To direct their efforts towards work and skill development rather than creating and maintaining an image that serves only themselves.<\/p>\n
Balance is needed here too. Not to humiliate, not to dunk their heads in shit, not to crush the desire to do something useful and necessary, but simply to help them stop wasting 80% of their efforts maintaining an image that no one really needs.<\/p>\n
The fewer expectations there are, the closer reality becomes. The closer reality is, the more adequate the perception. The more adequate the perception, the more correct the actions. The more correct the actions, the better the result.<\/p>\n
Although, most likely, I am wrong. And you will tell me about it right now. I destroyed the expectations of myself and created expectations of you.habr.com<\/a><\/p>","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u0411\u043e\u043b\u044c\u0448\u0438\u043d\u0441\u0442\u0432\u043e \u043b\u044e\u0434\u0435\u0439 \u0441\u0442\u0440\u0435\u043c\u044f\u0442\u0441\u044f \u0431\u044b\u0442\u044c \u0438\u0434\u0435\u0430\u043b\u044c\u043d\u044b\u043c\u0438. \u041d\u0435\u0442, \u043d\u0435 \u0431\u044b\u0442\u044c, \u0430 \u043a\u0430\u0437\u0430\u0442\u044c\u0441\u044f. \u041f\u0440\u044f\u043c \u043a\u0440\u0430\u0441\u043e\u0442\u0430 \u0432\u043e\u043a\u0440\u0443\u0433, \u0430 \u043d\u0435 \u043c\u0438\u0440. \u041e\u0441\u043e\u0431\u0435\u043d\u043d\u043e \u0441\u0435\u0439\u0447\u0430\u0441, \u043a\u043e\u0433\u0434\u0430 \u0435\u0441\u0442\u044c \u0441\u043e\u0446.\u0441\u0435\u0442\u0438. \u0418 \u0441\u0430\u043c \u043a\u0440\u0430\u0441\u0430\u0432\u0447\u0438\u043a, \u0438 \u0440\u0430\u0431\u043e\u0442\u0430\u0435\u0442 \u043e\u0442\u043b\u0438\u0447\u043d\u043e, \u0438 \u0441 \u043b\u044e\u0434\u044c\u043c\u0438 \u043b\u0430\u0434\u0438\u0442, \u0438 \u0440\u0430\u0437\u0432\u0438\u0432\u0430\u0435\u0442\u0441\u044f \u043f\u043e\u0441\u0442\u043e\u044f\u043d\u043d\u043e, \u0438 \u043a\u043d\u0438\u0436\u043a\u0438 \u0443\u043c\u043d\u044b\u0435 \u0447\u0438\u0442\u0430\u0435\u0442, \u0438 \u043d\u0430 \u043c\u043e\u0440\u044f\u0445 \u043e\u0442\u0434\u044b\u0445\u0430\u0435\u0442, \u0438 \u0437\u0430\u0434\u0430\u0447\u0438 \u0440\u0435\u0448\u0430\u0435\u0442 \u0432 \u0441\u0440\u043e\u043a, \u0438 \u043f\u0435\u0440\u0441\u043f\u0435\u043a\u0442\u0438\u0432\u043d\u044b\u0439, \u0438 \u0444\u0438\u043b\u044c\u043c\u044b \u043f\u0440\u0430\u0432\u0438\u043b\u044c\u043d\u044b\u0435 \u0441\u043c\u043e\u0442\u0440\u0438\u0442 (\u0447\u0442\u043e\u0431 \u0440\u0435\u0439\u0442\u0438\u043d\u0433 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[702],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-56368","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t