Ma alati arvasin, et olen loll. TÀpsemalt, et olen aeglane mÔtleja.
See avaldus lihtsalt: koosolekutel ja aruteludel ei suutnud ma kiiresti lahendusena midagi vĂ€lja mĂ”elda. KĂ”ik rÀÀgivad midagi, mĂ”nikord nutikat, aga mina â istun ja vaikimine. Isegi oli mingil mÀÀral piinlik.
KÔik teised arvasid ka, et ma olen loll. SeetÔttu lÔpetati minu kutsumine koosolekutele. Kutsuti neid, kes suudavad midagi öelda viivitamatult.
Ja kui ma koosolekult lahkusin, jĂ€tkasin ma ĂŒlesande ĂŒle mĂ”tlemist. Nagu öeldakse, hĂ€id mĂ”tteid tuleb hiljem. Leidsin normaalse, mĂ”nikord huvitava, vahel isegi vinge lahenduse. Kuid see ei olnud enam kellelegi vajalik. Nagu öeldakse, pĂ€rast kaklust ei vehitakse rusikatega.
Lihtsalt kultuur, kus ma hakkasin töötama, oli moodsam. Noh, nagu seal ikka on â "koosolek peab lĂ”ppema otsuse vastuvĂ”tmisega". Mida koosolekul vĂ€lja mĂ”eldi, see ka aktsepteeritakse. Isegi kui otsus on tĂ€ielik jama.
Ja siis sattusin tehasesse. Seal ei hoolitud mudelitest. Ăkski kĂŒsimus ei lahendata ĂŒhe koosolekuga. Esiteks koosolek - probleemi mÀÀratlemine, siis koosolek - valikute arutamine, siis koosolek - veel kord valikute arutamine, siis koosolek - otsuse vastuvĂ”tmine, koosolek - vastu vĂ”etud otsuse arutamine jne.
Ja siis hakkas toimuma. Esimesel koosolekul, nagu tavaks, vaikin. Teisele toongi lahenduse. Ja minu lahendusi hakati aktsepteerima! Sealhulgas seetĂ”ttu, et keegi peale minu ei jĂ€tkanud mure ĂŒle mĂ”tlema pĂ€rast koosolekut.
Omandaja mÀrkas mu kÀitumise kummalisust ja andis ametlikult mulle Ôiguse koosolekutel vaikida. Jah, ja ma mÀrkasin, et kuulan paremini, kui mÀngin oma telefonis Bejeweled Classic. Nii me lahendasimegi.
KÔik istuvad, arutavad, vÀljendavad arvamusi, vaidlevad, aga mina mÀngin telefonis. PÀrast koosolekut - tunni, pÀeva vÔi nÀdala pÀrast - saadan lahenduse variandid. Noh, vÔi tulen jalgsi ja rÀÀgin.
MÀrkasime ka, et kui esimesel koosolekul ma ei vaikne, vaid rÀÀgin - osalen arutelus - siis tulemus on kehvem. SeetÔttu sundisin end vaikima.
Kuna lÀhenemine toimis, kasutasin seda lihtsalt. JÀtkates mÔtlemist, et olen loll. Ja teised on targad, lihtsalt ei taha pÀrast koosolekut probleemide lahendamisele mÔelda. See tÀhendab, et kogu vahe on selles, et nad on laisad ja mitteproaktiivsed.
Just for that reason, I don't like talking to clients, especially on the phone. Because in such a conversation I can't help at all â I need to think. In a face-to-face meeting it's more bearable â you can stay silent for a few minutes, saying "let me think for a moment." In a phone or Skype conversation, such a pause would feel strange.
Well, that's how I lived for the last few years. Then I started reading books on brain work. It turned out that I was doing everything right.
Rule number one: the brain cannot perform two complex tasks simultaneously. For example, thinking and speaking. To be precise, it can, but with a drastic loss of quality. If you speak well, then you donât think. If you think, you can't speak normally.
Rule number two: to start thinking properly, the brain needs about 23 minutes to "load" information into itself. This time is spent on building so-called complex intellectual objects â roughly speaking, in the head, a kind of multidimensional model of the problem appears, with all its connections, features, etc.
Only after 23 minutes does the actual "thinking" begin, quality work. Interestingly, it can happen asynchronously. That is, you can, for example, sit and solve another task while the brain continues to search for the solution to the "previously loaded" problem.
You know how it happens â youâre sitting, for example, watching TV, or smoking, or having lunch, and suddenly! â the solution comes. Although at that moment you were actually thinking about what pesto sauce is made of. This is the work of asynchronous "thinking." In programming terms, it's like a background job you started a few days ago has completed, or a very delayed promise has returned.
Rule number three: after solving a problem, the brain remembers the solution in its working memory and can retrieve it quickly. Accordingly, the more problems you have solved, the more quick answers you know.
Well, after that it's simple. For any question or problem, the brain first retrieves a quick solution from the pool it already knows. But this solution might be rough. It seems to fit, but it might not correspond to the task.
Unfortunately, the brain doesnât like to think. Therefore, it tends to respond automatically to avoid thinking.
Iga kiire vastus on automatism, malliline ettevalmistus kogutud kogemuste pĂ”hjal. Kas usaldada sellist vastust vĂ”i mitte â peab otsustama teil endal. Ătleme nii, et kui inimene on kiiresti vastanud, siis ta ei mĂ”elnud teie kĂŒsimuse ĂŒle.
Taaskord, kui te ise nĂ”uate kiiret vastust, siis mÀÀrate endale lihtsalt keskpĂ€rase lahenduse. Justkui ĂŒtleksite: hei, poiss, mĂŒĂŒ mulle midagi jama, mulle sobib, ja ma lahkun.
Kui soovite kvaliteetset vastust, siis Àrge nÔudke seda kohe. Andke kogu vajalik teave ja lahkuge.
Kuid automatismid ei ole kurjad. Mida rohkem neid on, seda parem, need sÀÀstavad aega probleemide lahendamisel. Mida rohkem automatismide ja valmis vastuste olemasolu, seda rohkem ĂŒlesandeid lahendate kiiresti.
Lihtsalt tuleb mĂ”ista ja kasutada mĂ”lemat voogu â nii kiiret kui ka aeglast. Ja mitte segi ajada, valides Ă”igesti konkreetsele ĂŒlesandele â anda automat vĂ”i mĂ”elda.
Nagu Maxim Dorofejev oma raamatus kirjutas, igas ebamugavas olukorras â mĂ”elge. Ebamugav olukord on siis, kui aju ei anna vastuseks mingit automatismi.
Allikas: habr.com
