Pali chidule kumapeto kwa nkhaniyo.
Pogwira ntchito ndi zosintha, ziribe kanthu zomwe zimakhudzidwa kwenikweni - kaya ndi njira yachitukuko ya kampani, machitidwe olimbikitsa, dongosolo la bungwe kapena malamulo opangira ma code - nthawi zonse pamakhala ulalo umodzi wofunikira: malingaliro. Malingaliro amayankha funso lakuti "Kodi tisintha chiyani kwenikweni?"
Malingaliro amasiyana kwambiri mu khalidwe. Pali akavalo ozungulira m'chipinda chopanda kanthu, chomwe, ngakhale chikagwiritsidwa ntchito, sichibweretsa phindu lofotokozera, ndipo pali ma levers, kukanikiza komwe kumatenga masekondi, ndipo zotsatira zake zimawonekera mu ola limodzi.
Komabe, lero sitikulankhula za malingaliro - tiyeni tikambirane za olemba awo. Za olota.
Ndinayesera kupanga mtundu wina wamagulu malinga ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo. Sindimayesa kuulula nkhaniyi, chifukwa ine ndekha ndidakali wamng'ono komanso wobiriwira.
Naive romantics
Awa ndi omwe amapereka mtendere wapadziko lonse lapansi, ma code apadera apadera, kunyalanyaza zinthu ndi ntchito za Microsoft, Google ndi 1C (musakhumudwe kuti ndikuziyika m'chiganizo chimodzi), ndikugawaniza thumba la malipiro, kukambirana momasuka mavuto a kampani mu bwalo lonse, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi pamodzi m'mawa, etc.
Kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa okondana osadziwa: kukhulupirira moona mtima malingaliro awo. N'zoonekeratu kuti kuona mtima sikungatsimikizidwe 100% - pali scoundrels omwe, ngakhale zaka 20, amatha kufotokoza zofunikira m'njira yomwe simungathe kusiyanitsa.
Koma tikhoza kuweruza ndi zizindikiro zosalunjika. Choyamba ndi chachikulu: amakhumudwa kwambiri ngati lingaliro lawo likutsutsidwa. Yachiwiri ikutsatira yoyamba: adzayambitsa nkhondo "yotsutsana ndi dongosolo."
Zowonadi, munthu angatsutse bwanji lingaliro lamtendere wapadziko lonse lapansi kapena code yapadera, yapamwamba kwambiri? Ndani angayerekeze kutsutsa malingaliro oterowo? Ndi mitundu yonse ya ghouls omwe ali ndi chinachake chobisala, omwe amatsatira zofuna zawo zodzikonda ndipo saganizira za ubwino wamba.
Ndisungitsa nthawi nthawi isanathe: ndikulemba zonsezi popanda kuseketsa, chifukwa... iye mwini anali wachikondi wopanda pake. Mwina ndidakali, sindimazindikira ndekha.
Zotsutsana zilizonse zotsutsana ndi malingaliro a okondana osadziwa zidzanyalanyazidwa ndikuphwanyidwa kwa smithereens ndi kulondola koonekeratu kwa utopia wawo. Kodi muli ndi zotsutsana ndi ma code apadera, apamwamba kwambiri? Kodi mukubweretsa ndalama zachitukuko, zomwe, pazifukwa zina, ziyenera kukhala zochepa kuposa ndalama zomwe zimapangidwa ndi mankhwala? Kodi mukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito ma module a anthu ena, zotukuka kapena zonse? Ndiye ndiwe ndani pambuyo pake?
Malingaliro a naive romantics ndi akulu komanso osatheka. Mulingo wawo, komabe, ndi wokhazikika, ndipo chifukwa chake sichibweretsa chisangalalo kapena kusilira kwa wolemba, kapena kufuna kukwaniritsa malingalirowa. Mwachidule, okondana opanda nzeru onse amapereka kuphatikiza/kuchotsa chinthu chomwecho. Malingaliro awo sangakwaniritsidwe pazochitika zinazake - tonse timamvetsetsa kuti palibe chifukwa chowunika kuthekera kwa lingaliro "mwachidziwitso"; izi ziyenera kuchitidwa mogwirizana ndi "malo".
Zoyenera kuchita: musadzudzule poyera, muphatikizireni gulu losintha, nthawi zina (makamaka okonda okhumudwitsa) - muloleni atsogolere.
Owona zenizeni
Mtundu wofala kwambiri wamaloto. Ngakhale, simungathe kuwatcha olota - m'malo mwake, ndi akavalo ogwirira ntchito. Koma, komabe, amapereka malingaliro, kotero iwo anaphatikizidwa mu gulu.
Ikani mphasa kutsogolo kwa msonkhano kuti muteteze kugwa m'nyengo yozizira, sungani matawulo a pepala m'chimbudzi m'malo (kapena pamodzi ndi) chowumitsira pang'onopang'ono, sindikizani ma invoice pa pepala lofiirira kuti dipatimenti yowerengera ndalama ya wogula wamkulu azisamalira kwambiri. iwo, ganyu kampani yoyeretsa kuti iyeretse ofesi ngati ili yotsika mtengo, ndi zina zotero.
Malingaliro osavuta, omveka, osavuta kugwiritsa ntchito omwe amabweretsa nthawi yomweyo, ngakhale ang'onoang'ono, opindulitsa. Palibe mulingo, koma wokwanira wokwanira munkhaniyo, kudera lomwe lingalirolo likupangidwira.
Ndi njira yoyenera yokonzekera zosintha, mutha, makamaka, kumanga unyolo wabwino wa zosintha zotere. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti simudzasiyidwa opanda mathalauza, chifukwa ... Amuna awa samayesa kupanga masinthidwe akuluakulu, motero okwera mtengo.
Nthawi zina realists amagunda jackpot. Amapanga chinthu chaching'ono, m'malingaliro awo, chomwe chimathetsa vuto laling'ono lapafupi, ndipo wina yemwe ali ndi malingaliro ochulukirapo amawona kuti mutuwo ndi weniweni, wokhoza kubweretsa phindu lalikulu. Zowona, lingaliro loyambirira pankhaniyi likufuna kusinthidwa, komwe sikumachitidwanso ndi wowona, ndipo, molingana, kulembedwa kwa lingaliro lomaliza kumayandama kwa munthu wina.
Pali zochitika zenizeni zomwe zimasanduka munthu wokonda mankhwala osokoneza bongo (onani pansipa) ngati malingaliro ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwawo alimbikitsidwa kwambiri ndikutamandidwa.
Zoyenera kuchita: musasokoneze, koma yang'anani pa iye kuti asakhale wokonda mankhwala osokoneza bongo, muphatikizepo mu gulu losintha.
Omwerekera ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo
Uwu ndi mlandu waukulu, koma mwamwayi ndi wosowa. Ngati mukukumbukira filimuyo "Office Romance", ndiye kuti panali Shurochka, yemwe adakwezedwa ntchito yapagulu, ndipo kuyambira pamenepo sanathe kumubweza. Ngati mutasintha "ntchito yachitukuko" ndi "zosintha", mudzakhalanso ndi mankhwala omwewo.
Wokonda mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi munthu amene nthawi zambiri amapatsidwa udindo wokwaniritsa malingaliro ake. Monga momwe Shurochka amamvetsetsa ubwino wa ntchito yothandiza anthu pa ntchito wamba, anthu omwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo amamvetsa kufunika kwa kusintha poyerekezera ndi ntchito zawo zachizolowezi (zilizonse zomwe anali asanakhalepo asanakhale odziletsa).
Tsoka ilo, kudalira kusintha kumakula mwachangu. Nthawi zina zimakhala zokwanira kuti munthu afotokoze, agwiritse ntchito ndi kulandira kutamandidwa kwakukulu kwa malingaliro a 2-3 kuti akhale oledzera.
Mkhalidwe wofunikira ndikutamandidwa, makamaka pamaso pa anthu onse oona mtima. Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pa kutamandidwa kotereku? Inu simungakhoze kumubweza iye. Sizingatheke kutuluka mu miyezi isanu ndi umodzi ndikunena kuti: anyamata, ndinakuuzani pano kuti Shurochka ndi wabwino komanso wachita bwino - kotero, mwachidule, ndinasintha maganizo anga, iye ndi wopusa. Iyi ndi nkhani ya ndale, ndipo kuzindikira koteroko kumangolimbitsa, kumbali imodzi, ulamuliro wa Shurochka, ndipo kumbali inayo, kutembenuza mtsogoleri kukhala satrap, kuwononga matalente achichepere kuti azitumikira zofuna zake. Mulungu aletsa, ngakhale okondana osadziwa angamve izi.
Ogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo ayamba, pepani, kusokoneza kampani yonse. Amathamangira ndi malingaliro awo kuchokera pamwamba mpaka pansi.
Amauza anzawo ndi omwe ali pansi pa malingaliro awo atsopano, amafuna kuzindikiridwa ndi ulemu, "Ndimasamala za inu zitsiru" (kumbukirani momwe Shurochka adakuwa "Ndiponso ndapeza matikiti opita kumisasa ya ana ake!"), Nthawi zina samatero. gwiritsani ntchito bwino, chifukwa amafuna kuima pafupi masana, "kutenga chithunzi," kupeza mipata yatsopano kusintha, etc.
Akuluakulu amangopeputsidwa. Amalemba makalata, kupempha misonkhano, kukugwirani m’makonde ngakhalenso m’chimbudzi, amalankhula pamisonkhano yonse (kuphatikizapo maphwando akampani), ndiponso amalowa m’gulu lililonse losakhala la ntchito.
Anthu omwerekera kwambiri ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo akuyesera kuvomereza kuti ali ndi vuto. Umu ndi momwe owongolera osinthira, madipatimenti apamwamba ndi machitidwe abizinesi, likulu lothandizira kusintha, mabwalo apamwamba ndi madipatimenti ena okhala ndi ntchito zosadziwika bwino amawonekera. Iwo omwe ali odziwa kwathunthu pamapeto pake amazindikira kuti atopa ndi aliyense ngati radish yowawa, ndipo amaphunzitsidwanso ngati ma locomotives (onani pansipa).
Ndipo chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa cha matamando. Ndipo popeza khalidwe lake limachepa, liyenera kulipidwa ndi kuchuluka kwake. Ngati m'mbuyomu lingaliro limodzi lidayamikiridwa kwambiri kotero kuti misozi yachisangalalo idatuluka m'maso, tsopano muyenera kulemba ziganizo khumi ndi ziwiri kuti "Chabwino, zikomo." kupeza ndalama.
Chochita: kutamanda Mlingo, ndi bwino - mwamseri, zindikirani chiyambi cha mankhwala osokoneza bongo mu nthawi, musapereke kwa akuluakulu muzochitika zilizonse, yesetsani kumubwezera ku malo ake akale, mwachizolowezi ntchito, kapena, monga njira yomaliza, kumuthamangitsira kunja.
Ma locomotives a nthunzi
Anthu omwerekera ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi oipa kwambiri. Mumawadziwa bwino monga "mamenejala ogwira mtima."
Ganizirani nokha, kodi sitima yapamtunda ingapite kuti, mwachitsanzo, kuchokera ku siteshoni ya sitima ya Chelyabinsk? Kwenikweni, pali malo ambiri - Moscow, St. Petersburg, Zlatoust, Chebarkul, ndipo ngakhale Vladivostok. Koma sichifika ku eyapoti, kapena ku Washington, Davletbaevo kapena Kuluevo.
Kumasulira m'chinenero cha kusintha. Bambo woyendetsa galimoto amatha kupanga malingaliro ndikugwiritsa ntchito Scrum, Lean, TOC, kusanthula mtengo wogwira ntchito, kugula gulu, DevOps, ISO, CRM system ("monga momwe ndinaliri pantchito yanga yomaliza, ndizabwinobwino, ndaiwala dzina"), KPI (" Ndiziyang'ana kunyumba, panali fayilo yokhala ndi zizindikiro "), ndi zina zotero. Koma locomotive sangathe kuwoloka Scrum ndi TOC ngati wina sanachitepo kale.
Malingaliro a locomotive sangatchulidwe kuti malingaliro, m'lingaliro ili, akufanana ndi chikondi chopanda nzeru, koma choyipa kwambiri. Ndi chikondi, chirichonse chikuwonekera nthawi yomweyo - lingalirolo ndi lokongola, koma utopian, koma apa - zikuwoneka ngati palibe njira, ndipo pali zitsanzo zopambana, ndipo pali mabuku, ndi malangizo, ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, makamu a chidziwitso. ma gypsies omwe amakhala m'masiteshoni akuluakulu onse. Locomotive isanakhale ndi nthawi yochepetsera papulatifomu, idzadzazidwa ndi ai-nane-nane.
Ngati locomotive ilibe mphamvu, ndiye kuti zilibe kanthu. Sizikuthandizira, ndipo sizimasokoneza - aloleni auze anzake omwe ali m'chipinda chosuta momwe zingakhale bwino kugwira ntchito pansi pa SAF. Mumphindi zisanu aliyense adzayiwala tanthauzo lachidulechi.
Koma ngati pali mphamvu, ndiye kuti zonse zatayika. Tsiku lina ndidanyamulidwa ndi mphepo yamkuntho kupita ku chipatala cha ana, ndidawona ndi maso anga momwe chipatala chowonda chilili - nthawi yakwana yolemba zina. . Zikuwonekeratu kuti locomotive yadutsa mu mphamvu zake zonse zokongola, zosalamulirika, zoopsa, koma zopanda nzeru.
Kutheka kwa malingaliro a sitima yapamtunda sikudetsa nkhawa ngati ili ndi mphamvu. Nthawi zambiri samadziwa zomwe zingatheke, zochitika, komanso chilengedwe. Zida - inde, amadziwa. Makamaka ngati pali mwayi wowongolera zinthu izi.
Kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa locomotive nthunzi: sichisamala konse za ubwino wa kusintha. Osati chifukwa iye ndi woipa. Kungoti sanauzidwe kuti zosinthazo zikhale zopindulitsa. Anauzidwa kuti payenera kukhala masinthidwe.
Zoyenera kuchita: perekani / kukulitsa mphamvu pokhapokha mutatsimikizira phindu la kusintha kwanthawi yochepa, musatengere mawu ake pazolosera za kupambana kwa kusintha, musati nthawi yomweyo ganyu ma locomotives ku malo apamwamba, nthawi zonse kuyang'anitsitsa ntchito yake.
Osintha zinthu
Izi ndi zolengedwa zopanda vuto ngati muzichita bwino - mwina ayi, kapena nthabwala.
Kusiyanitsa kwakukulu pakati pa malingaliro awo: nthawi zonse amatsutsana ndi dongosolo, akuluakulu, kayendetsedwe ka kampani, gulu, dziko, ndi zina zotero.
Izi sizosiyana kwambiri, koma cholinga. Amangobwera ndi malingaliro omwe ali madigiri 180 osiyana ndi maphunziro apano.
Amatikumbutsa za okondana osadziwa, nthawi zina ngakhale malingaliro amamveka chimodzimodzi. Koma osintha zinthu nthawi zonse amatsutsana ndi dongosolo.
Uwu ndiye moyo wawo, kusankha kwawo, chofunikira, chosowa. Mu piramidi ya Maslow pali izi - kufunikira kukhala nawo. Anthu ambiri amafuna kukhala m’gulu linalake la anthu, ndipo ambiri amafuna kukhala a anthu ambiri. Anthu oukira boma amafunanso kutero, koma kwa anthu ochepa.
Ndinali ndi mnzanga mmodzi wotero, woukira boma. Mu mphindi iliyonse, ngati mutayang'ana, chirichonse chinkawoneka chomveka komanso chofotokozera - inde, malingalirowo ndi olondola, munthu wachita bwino. Koma, podziwa mbiri ya chitukuko cha malingalirowa, ndizosatheka kuwayang'ana popanda kumwetulira.
Nthawi zonse ankafuna kuti asakhale wa chinachake, koma motsutsa chinachake. Pachifukwa ichi ndinali wokonzeka kuyimira chinachake. Mwachitsanzo, panali nthawi yomwe ndinkakonda kwambiri Navalny, ndikumuganizira kuti ndi wokonda dziko lawo (ndipo ine nthawi yomweyo, ndithudi). Zikuwonekeratu yemwe adamuda.
Kenako ndinawerenga nkhani zina zoti Navalny ndi kazitape waku America. Ndi zimenezotu, chikondi chadutsa, tomato wafota. Koma malo oyera sakhala opanda kanthu; lingaliro latsopano losintha zinthu likufunika. Mnyamatayo sanaganize motalika, adadzisungira nthawi, ndikusankha Putin - tsopano adamuwona ngati wokonda dziko lake.
Ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, kunali koyenera kudana ndi anthu omwewo - akuluakulu, akuluakulu, ndi zina zotero. Nthawi zonse amakhala oipa, onse pansi pa Navalny ndi pansi pa Putin.
Chimodzimodzi ndi mbali zina zonse za moyo. Aliyense amadya pizza ndi soseji, wosinthayo amakonda kudya bwino malinga ndi Shatalova. Aliyense akuyamba kuganiza za kudya bwino - munthu wayamba kunenepa. Aliyense akuyesera kugula magalimoto akunja, wosinthayo amagula dala Chevy Niva (ngakhale ali ndi ndalama zokwanira galimoto yakunja, ndipo amadziwa bwino momwe zida zamoto zapakhomo zilili zotsika kwambiri, popeza tidakhala nthawi yayitali limodzi pagulu. mbewu zowapanga).
Zoyenera kuchita: kumubweretsa m'munda wolimbikitsa pomuphatikiza m'gulu losintha, musamukwiyitse kapena kumulimbikitsa, muloleni asangalatse modekha ndi malingaliro osintha, apite naye kwa psychotherapist.
Makamu
Akhwangwala ndi amene amalira, ndiyeno... Palibe. Amangolira.
Onsewa ndi ndemanga pa nkhani zomwe zimayamba maganizo awo ndi mawu akuti "wolemba ayenera ...", "malangizo anga kwa inu ndi ..." kapena "osati motere, koma motere ...". Onsewa ndi antchito omwe amafuula malingaliro kuchokera pamipando yawo pamisonkhano, ndipo akafunsidwa kuti ayime ndikubwereza, amakhala chete ndikuseka. Awa ndi onse omwe amapangira ena malingaliro osafuna kutenga nawo mbali pakukhazikitsa kapena kutsimikizira ndi zomwe adakumana nazo.
Mwachidule, awa ndi anthu omwe amapereka malingaliro chifukwa chongowapereka, koma samanyamula udindo uliwonse osati pakukhazikitsa, koma ngakhale lingaliro lokha. Amadziwa kuti palibe amene angatenge malingaliro awo mozama, choncho samadandaula za ubwino wawo.
Akhwangwala Akale amapita patsogolo kwambiri - amapanga dala malingaliro awo kuti asavomerezedwe, kapena kuganiziridwanso. Lingaliro silinavomerezedwe, koma kumasulidwa kwake kudziko lapansi kumakhalabe, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti khwangwala wachita bwino.
Khwangwala amalamulira kuthekera ndi kukula kwa malingaliro, koma mwanjira inayake: amayesa kupanga lingalirolo kukhala losatheka komanso lalikulu momwe angathere. Pa mitundu yonse ya olota, khwangwala yekha ndi amene amachita zimenezi.
Cholinga cha khwangwala ndi kulira. Zonse. Ndiye amalira. Mokweza ndi kukhumudwa - izi ndizofunikira. Aliyense ayenera kudziwa kuti khwangwala ndi munthu wamkulu, amapanga malingaliro ambiri, koma palibe amene amafuna kuwaganizira. Chifukwa chake, khwangwala amakwiya ndipo amangolira mokulira. Mpaka, mwatsoka, iye wagwetsedwa pansi ndi legeni - kuti asamalire.
Mukayang'anitsitsa, mudzawona akhwangwala ambiri, makamaka ndale, makamaka pakati pa omwe ali otsutsa (sindikutanthauza aliyense makamaka, mozama).
Zoyenera kuchita: kumuphatikiza mu gulu losintha, kapena kumupatsa mphamvu pamalo ochepa, kapena kumuthamangitsa.
Onyenga
Ndizovuta ndi awa. Malingaliro awo amatha kukhala akuluakulu komanso ang'onoang'ono, koma nthawi zonse amakhala otheka komanso othandiza. Zoona, kwa iwo okha.
Obera amapereka malingaliro okha, kukhazikitsidwa kwake komwe kumawathandiza iwowo kapena magulu awo (timu, dipatimenti, mudzi). Ngakhale zikuwoneka kuti lingalirolo limathandiza wamba, musakayikire - wonyozayo adangogwidwa, ndipo adakwanitsa kuwonetsa zonse m'njira yomwe palibe amene angaganize za zolinga zake zenizeni.
Kunena zowona, sindikudziwa momwe ndingachitire ndi scoundrels. Malingana ngati akupereka malingaliro omwe amamutumikira payekha, palibe mafunso - ayenera kukana. Koma pamene scoundrel atenga kusintha kuti apindule, mwachitsanzo, gulu, palibe yankho lomveka bwino.
Ndizonyansa makamaka pamene lingaliro la munthu wankhanza silisokoneza mwachindunji magulu ena. Sizikusokoneza, koma sizithandizanso. Ndipo timu yake - wow. Matimu ena amakumana ndi zovuta zina - amangoipiraipira pang'ono chifukwa timu ya scoundrel yayamba bwino.
Scoundrels amapanga mpikisano wamkati mukampani. Aliyense amagwira ntchito monga momwe amagwirira ntchito, nthawi zina amanena chinachake pamisonkhano yambiri - kapena kulira, kapena kupereka chinachake chosintha, kapena kupulumutsa dziko lapansi, ndipo wonyansa amazembera m'malingaliro ang'onoang'ono, opanda tanthauzo, monga kugula scrum board, mwayi wosintha ndondomeko yowerengera ndalama. ("Tizisintha pang'ono kuti zikhale zosavuta"), ma ruble masauzande angapo pamwezi kwa woyang'anira ntchito yolipidwa, thumba la bonasi laling'ono la dipatimenti yanu, ndi zina zambiri. Zikuwoneka ngati zazing'ono, koma kwa scoundrel ndi dipatimenti yake.
Mwachete, pang'onopang'ono, mosazindikira, koma wankhanza amachita ntchito yake. Monga hamster, amakokera m'nyumba zonse zomwe ziri zoipa - koma mwa njira yabwino. Iye amawongolera kokha gulu limene ali nalo, kapena kuposa pamenepo, gulu limene amatsogolera.
Zoyenera kuchita: gwiritsani ntchito bwino, onjezerani gulu lomwe limaphatikizapo scoundrel, makamaka pakukula kwa kampani yonse.
Zosatheka
Chabwino, mtundu wozizira kwambiri wa olota ndi wosatheka kuwapeza. Sindikudziwa choti ndiwatchule bwino. Awa ndi anthu omwe amaphatikiza zabwino kwambiri zamagulu ena onse.
Kuchokera ku naive romantics amatengera kukula kwa malingaliro awo. Kuchokera ku zenizeni - kulingalira kwakukulu kothekera kwa nkhani ndi zothandizira. Kuchokera kwa omwerekera ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo pali chikhumbo chokhazikika, osati chongoganizira, koma cha ungwiro weniweni. Kuchokera pama locomotives - kusasinthika pakukwaniritsa zolinga ndikuganizira njira zabwino kwambiri. Kuchokera kwa osintha - kusachita mantha kupita ku gulu lalikulu. Kuchokera ku scoundrels - chikhumbo cha zabwino, osati zochepa chabe, koma za gulu lalikulu kwambiri. Iwo samangotenga kalikonse kwa akhwangwala.
Osafikiridwa akusintha dziko lapansi, ndikupanga zatsopano zomwe zimasilira, kusirira, komanso kutsanzira kwazaka zambiri.
Kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa zomwe sizingatheke: zimapambana. Kunena zowona, iwo anapambana. Zotsatira zabwino zokha, lingaliro lalikulu, lachikondi, nthawi zina lopanda tanthauzo limapangitsa wolotayo kuti asakwaniritsidwe.
Mazana a zikwi, mamiliyoni oyambitsa, opanga solo, oimba a indie, oyang'anira mzere omwe ali ndi moto m'maso mwawo, otsutsa omwe ali ndi malingaliro ozizira sangapezeke. Mpaka atazindikira malingaliro awo.
Kuchokera kunja, kwa amasiku ano, pafupifupi nthawi zonse amawoneka ngati chozizwitsa. Zikuwoneka ngati aliyense akukhala mozungulira kuchita chinthu chomwecho, ndiyeno munthu akuwonekera yemwe akupambana. Msika umasintha, ziribe kanthu, ndipo tsopano palibe amene amagwira ntchito kale. Kwa mibadwo yotsatira, ndithudi, zosatheka sizikuwonekanso choncho - akatswiri ambiri amalemba mazana a nkhani ndi mabuku omwe chinsinsi cha kupambana chimafufuzidwa.
Koma kumvetsetsa kwa kupambana kwa zomwe sizingatheke sikupangitsa kuti zisabwerezedwe, ndipo zosatheka zimakhalabe choncho. Kupambana kulikonse kosatheka kuli kwapadera, kotero palibe chifukwa chowafananitsa. Ngakhale, ambiri akuyesera kuti adziwe "chinsinsi cha kupambana".
Chabwino, ndiyesera, m'nkhani ya nkhaniyo. Chinsinsi chake ndi chophweka, kwenikweni.
Mfundo yoyamba ndi lingaliro lalikulu, monga okondana osadziwa. Mtundu umene umakhudza moyo wako, umakulimbikitsani, umakupangitsani kufuna.
Mfundo yachiwiri ndiyotheka, makamaka, mwa zoyesayesa za wolotayo komanso gulu lofikira la anthu. Lingaliro liyenera kukhala lalikulu komanso lotheka kutheka - ndilo NDI, osati OR kapena XOR. Ndipo kuthekera kumawunikidwa potengera momwe zinthu zilili pano komanso momwe zingakhalire.
Mfundo yachitatu ndi kufunitsitsa kugwiritsa ntchito lingalirolo. Zikuwonekeratu kuti si zonse zomwe zimachitika ndi manja ake, koma udindo waukulu uli ndi wolotayo. Anthu panjira adzawonekera, adzasowa, kudzozedwa ndi kukhumudwitsidwa, ndipo wolotayo ayenera kukhala wosasunthika. Chabwino, nthawi zonse fufuzani zomwe zikuchitika, kupita patsogolo mosinthasintha, kumvetsetsa momwe zinthu zilili panopa komanso zolosera za kusintha kwake.
Chabwino, mfundo yachinayi ndikuganizira zofuna za gulu lomwe likuchitapo kanthu. Monga munthu wankhanza. Sitikunena za zofuna zachuma, zolinga zingakhale zosiyana, koma wolota sayenera kuganizira za iye yekha ndi maloto ake.
Mwina ndizo zonse. Ndikuganiza kuti ine, monga olemba ena a "chinsinsi cha kupambana kwa anthu akuluakulu," ndinadza ndi zopanda pake zomwe sizingatheke. Izi ndi zomwe zili zabwino za "zinsinsi za kupambana" - chirichonse chikuwoneka bwino, koma simudzadziwa choti muchite.
Zoyenera kuchita: palibe, anthu otere samawoneka pafupi ndi ife.
Ndafotokoza mwachidule zomwe ndiyenera kuchita ndi gulu lililonse la olota, koma m'nkhani yotsatira ndikuwuzani mwatsatanetsatane komanso ndi zitsanzo.
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Pogwira ntchito ndi kusintha, gawo loyamba ndikupeza malingaliro - zomwe, kwenikweni, zingatheke komanso ziyenera kuchitika kuti mukwaniritse cholingacho.
Anthu amapereka malingaliro, koma sali ofanana. Ndipereka gulu lalifupi kutengera zomwe ndakumana nazo.
Naive romantics - amapereka malingaliro ngati mtendere wapadziko lonse lapansi. Amakhumudwa ngati malingaliro awo akutsutsidwa. Miyeso ya malingaliro ndi yayikulu. Zotheka - palibe. Zoyenera kuchita: musadzudzule poyera, muphatikizireni gulu losintha, nthawi zina (makamaka okonda okhumudwitsa) - muloleni atsogolere.
Realists eni ake amapanga ndikukhazikitsa malingaliro ang'onoang'ono omwe amagwirizana ndendende ndi zomwe zikuchitika komanso zofunikira. Sikelo ndi yaying'ono, kuthekera ndikokwera. Zoyenera kuchita: musasokoneze, koma yang'anani pa iye kuti asakhale wokonda mankhwala osokoneza bongo, muphatikizepo mu gulu losintha.
Oledzera ndi anthu omwe amakonda kupanga malingaliro. Zowopsa kwambiri. Kukula kwa malingaliro ndi kosiyana kwambiri. Kuthekerako kumasiyananso, koma omwerekera ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo alibe nazo chidwi. Kungopanga lingaliro ndikuyamika. Chochita: kutamanda Mlingo, ndi bwino - mwamseri, zindikirani chiyambi cha mankhwala osokoneza bongo mu nthawi, musapereke kwa akuluakulu muzochitika zilizonse, yesetsani kumubwezera ku malo ake akale, mwachizolowezi ntchito, kapena, monga njira yomaliza, kumuthamangitsira kunja.
Ma locomotives a Steam - amapereka malingaliro okhazikika, monga kuyambitsa njira zodziwika bwino. Kuchuluka kwa malingaliro kungakhale kwakukulu. Kuthekera kungakhale kwachilendo. Koma kawirikawiri palibe phindu. Zoyenera kuchita: perekani / kukulitsa mphamvu pokhapokha mutatsimikizira phindu la kusintha kwanthawi yochepa, musatengere mawu ake pazolosera za kupambana kwa kusintha, musati nthawi yomweyo ganyu ma locomotives ku malo apamwamba, nthawi zonse kuyang'anitsitsa ntchito yake.
Osintha - amapereka malingaliro okha omwe amatsutsana ndi maphunziro "ovomerezeka", zirizonse zomwe zingakhale. Ngati maphunziro "ovomerezeka" amasintha diametrically, malingaliro a osintha kusintha amasinthanso diametrically. Kukula kwa malingaliro kumasiyanasiyana. Kawirikawiri palibe zotheka. Zoyenera kuchita: kumubweretsa m'munda wolimbikitsa pomuphatikiza m'gulu losintha, musamukwiyitse kapena kumulimbikitsa, muloleni asangalatse modekha ndi malingaliro osintha, apite naye kwa psychotherapist.
Akhwangwala ndi anthu omwe amapereka malingaliro omwe palibe amene angawagwiritse ntchito. Ndicho chifukwa chake amapereka. Amapereka mwapadera malingaliro omwe palibe amene angavutike nawo. Zoyenera kuchita: kumuphatikiza mu gulu losintha, kapena kumupatsa mphamvu pamalo ochepa, kapena kumuthamangitsa.
Obera - amangopereka malingaliro omwe amapindulitsa iwo eni kapena gulu lomwe alimo. Sikelo ndi yosiyana, kuthekera ndikokwera. Zoyenera kuchita: gwiritsani ntchito bwino, onjezerani gulu lomwe limaphatikizapo scoundrel, makamaka pakukula kwa kampani yonse.
Osafikirika ndi anthu omwe amasintha dziko. Malingaliro ake ndi akulu komanso otheka, ndipo izi zimadziwikiratu pambuyo pake. Pachiyambi pomwe amawaseka. Zoyenera kuchita: palibe, anthu otere samawoneka pafupi ndi ife.
Source: www.habr.com