The XY Phenomenon: Momwe Mungapewere Mavuto "Olakwika".
Kodi munayamba mwaganizapo za kuchuluka kwa maola, miyezi ngakhale miyoyo yomwe yawonongeka kuthetsa mavuto "olakwika"?
Tsiku lina, anthu ena anayamba kudandaula kuti anafunika kudikira kwa nthawi yaitali kuti akwere chikepe. Anthu ena anali ndi nkhawa chifukwa cha miseche imeneyi ndipo anathera nthawi yambiri, khama ndi ndalama zambiri poyesa kukonza ma elevator ndi kuchepetsa nthawi yodikira. Koma vuto loyamba linali losiyana kwambiri - "anthu anayamba kudandaula."
Njira yothetsera vuto lenileni inali kuika magalasi aakulu mβchipinda cholandirira alendo cha nyumba yomweyo. Kuwonera malingaliro anu mukudikirira chikepe kunakhala kosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo kuchuluka kwa madandaulo okhudza kuyenda pang'onopang'ono kwa zikepe kunatsika kwambiri.
Zochitika za XY zovuta
Mu 2001, wopanga mapulogalamu waku America Eric Steven Raymond adapatsa izi dzina loti "vuto la XY."
Vuto la XY nthawi zambiri limakhala pakati pa wogwiritsa ntchito ndi wopanga mapulogalamu, kasitomala ndi kontrakitala, komanso pakati pa munthu ndi munthu.
Kuti tifotokoze m'mawu osavuta, vuto XY ndi pamene tiyamba kukonza / kuthandizira pamalo olakwika pamene wasweka, kulowa kumapeto kolakwika. Zimenezi zimachititsa kuti nthaΕ΅i ndi mphamvu ziwonongedwe, ponse paΕ΅iri kwa anthu ofuna chithandizo ndi kwa amene amapereka chithandizo.
Momwe mungalowe muvuto la XY. Malangizo ogwiritsira ntchito pang'onopang'ono
Wogwiritsa ntchito ayenera kuthana ndi vuto X.
Wogwiritsa sadziwa momwe angathetsere vuto X, koma akuganiza kuti atha kulithetsa ngati atha kuchita Y.
Wogwiritsanso sadziwa momwe angachitire Y.
Akapempha thandizo, wogwiritsa ntchito amapempha thandizo ndi Y.
Aliyense akuyesera kuthandiza wogwiritsa ntchito Y, ngakhale Y akuwoneka ngati vuto lachilendo kuti athetse.
Choipa kwambiri nβchakuti kuchita zochita Y sikungakhale njira yabwino kwa X. Aliyense akungβamba tsitsi lake ndi kuyangβanizana ndi mawu akuti βNdakupatsani zaka zabwino koposa za moyo wanga.β
Nthawi zambiri vuto la XY limachitika anthu akamakhazikika pazing'onozing'ono za vuto lawo komanso zomwe iwo amakhulupirira kuti ndi njira yothetsera vutolo. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, amalephera kubwerera mβmbuyo ndi kufotokoza vutolo bwinobwino.
Ngati mupeza yankho, tiuzeni pang'ono chifukwa chake mukuganiza kuti lingakuthandizeni.
Ngati munafunsidwa mafunso ambiri omveka poyankha, sangalalani ndi kuyankha, izi zidzakupindulitsani ndi kukuthandizani kupeza yankho loyenera kwa inu.
Fotokozani zizindikiro za vutolo motsatira nthawi. Mavuto a XY ndipamene kusintha kwa mawu kumapangitsa kusiyana.
Fotokozani zonse zomwe mwachita kale kuti muthetse vutoli. Musaiwale kunena chifukwa chake izi kapena izi sizinagwire ntchito. Izi zidzapatsa ena zambiri za vuto lanu ndikuchepetsa nthawi yomwe imatenga kuti mupeze yankho.
M'malo momaliza
Nditangophunzira za zochitika za mavuto a XY, ndinazindikira kuti tazunguliridwa ndi iwo kuyambira kumutu mpaka kumapazi, tsiku lililonse, kuntchito ndi zochitika zaumwini. Chidziwitso chosavuta cha kukhalapo kwa chodabwitsa chakhala chiwonongeko cha moyo kwa ine, chomwe ndikuphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito tsopano.
Mwachitsanzo, posachedwapa mnzanga wina anabwera kwa ine kudzandiuza nkhani zoipa: iye anali kukana kutenga nawo mbali mu ntchito limodzi chifukwa panali ntchito zofunika kwambiri. Tinakambirana ndikupeza kuti zonse zidabwera ku vuto la nthawi yochepa yomwe tidadzipangira tokha. Mnzanga adazindikira kuti sanagwirizane ndi (X) ndipo adapeza yankho - siyani ntchitoyi (Y). Ndibwino kuti tinacheza. Tsopano tili ndi masiku omalizira atsopano, ndipo palibe amene akupita kulikonse.
Ogwiritsa ntchito olembetsedwa okha ndi omwe angatenge nawo gawo pa kafukufukuyu. Lowani muakauntichonde.