{"id":52924,"date":"2019-11-20T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-11-19T21:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/prohoster.info\/blog\/blog_prohoster\/knizhnaya-abstinentsiya"},"modified":"2020-02-18T14:00:45","modified_gmt":"2020-02-18T11:00:45","slug":"knizhnaya-abstinentsiya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/prohoster.info\/ro\/blog\/news\/knizhnaya-abstinentsiya","title":{"rendered":"Abstinenta literara","gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"text"}]},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>La sf\u00e2r\u0219itul articolului, conform tradi\u021biei, exist\u0103 un scurt rezumat.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Cite\u0219ti c\u0103r\u021bi despre dezvoltare personal\u0103, afaceri sau cre\u0219terea eficien\u021bei? Nu? Foarte bine. \u0218i nu \u00eencepe.<\/p>\n<p>Totu\u0219i, cite\u0219ti? Te rog, nu face ceea ce se propune \u00een aceste c\u0103r\u021bi. Te rog. Altfel, vei deveni dependent. Ca mine.<noindex><a rel=\"nofollow\" name=\"habracut\"><\/a><\/noindex><\/p>\n<h4>Perioada de dependen\u021b\u0103<\/h4>\n<p>\nP\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 citesc c\u0103r\u021bi, eram fericit. Mai mult dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t - eram cu adev\u0103rat eficient, productiv, talentat \u0219i, cel mai important, unstoppable (nu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 traduc mai bine \u00een rom\u00e2n\u0103).<\/p>\n<p>Reu\u0219eam \u00een tot. Reu\u0219eam mai bine dec\u00e2t ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>La \u0219coal\u0103, eram cel mai bun din clas\u0103. At\u00e2t de bine, \u00eenc\u00e2t am fost transferat din clasa a cincea \u00een a \u0219asea prin examen. \u00cen noua clas\u0103 am devenit, de asemenea, cel mai bun. Dup\u0103 clasa a IX-a, am plecat s\u0103 studiez \u00een ora\u0219 (p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci tr\u0103iam la \u021bar\u0103), la un liceu de elit\u0103 (cu specializare \u00een matematic\u0103 \u0219i informatic\u0103), \u0219i acolo am devenit cel mai bun elev.<\/p>\n<p>Am participat la tot felul de competi\u021bii, precum olimpiadele, am c\u00e2\u0219tigat olimpiada ora\u0219ului la istorie, informatic\u0103, limba rom\u00e2n\u0103, am ob\u021binut locul 3 la matematic\u0103. \u0218i toate acestea - f\u0103r\u0103 preg\u0103tire, pur \u0219i simplu, pe loc, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 studiez nimic \u00een plus fa\u021b\u0103 de program\u0103. Ei bine, istoria \u0219i informatica le-am studiat din proprie ini\u021biativ\u0103, pentru c\u0103 \u00eemi pl\u0103ceau enorm (aici, de fapt, nimic nu s-a schimbat p\u00e2n\u0103 azi). \u00cen cele din urm\u0103, am terminat \u0219coala cu medalia de argint (pentru c\u0103 am avut un 4 la limba rom\u00e2n\u0103, deoarece \u00een clasa a zecea profesoara mi-a dat dou\u0103 note de 2 pentru un m\u0103r desenat pe marginea caietului).<\/p>\n<p>La facultate, de asemenea, nu am avut probleme mari. Totul venea u\u0219or, mai ales c\u00e2nd am \u00een\u021beles cum stau lucrurile aici \u2013 adic\u0103, c\u0103 trebuie doar s\u0103 te preg\u0103te\u0219ti la timp. Am f\u0103cut tot ce trebuie, \u0219i nu doar pentru mine \u2013 lucr\u0103ri de licen\u021b\u0103 pe bani, mergeam s\u0103 sus\u021bin examene \u00een locul celor de la \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m\u00e2ntul la distan\u021b\u0103. \u00cen anul patru am decis s\u0103 trec la studii de licen\u021b\u0103, am ob\u021binut diplom\u0103 ro\u0219ie, apoi m-am r\u0103zg\u00e2ndit, m-am \u00eentors la inginerie \u2013 acum am dou\u0103 diplome ro\u0219ii pentru aceea\u0219i specializare.<\/p>\n<p>La prima mea slujb\u0103 am crescut mai repede dec\u00e2t oricine altcineva. La acea vreme, programatorii 1C erau evalua\u021bi dup\u0103 num\u0103rul de certific\u0103ri 1C: Specialist, erau \u00een total cinci, iar \u00een firm\u0103, maximum dou\u0103 pe persoan\u0103. \u00cen primul an am ob\u021binut toate cele cinci. La un an dup\u0103 ce am \u00eenceput s\u0103 lucrez, eram deja lider tehnic al celui mai mare proiect de implementare 1C din regiune \u2013 \u0219i asta la 22 de ani!<\/p>\n<p>Am f\u0103cut totul instinctiv. Niciodat\u0103 nu am ascultat sfaturile altora, nu importa c\u00e2t de autoritar era sursa. Nu am crezut, c\u00e2nd mi s-a spus c\u0103 acest lucru este imposibil. Pur \u0219i simplu am luat-o \u0219i am f\u0103cut-o. \u0218i, totul a ie\u0219it bine.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu dependen\u021bii.<\/p>\n<h4>Primii dependen\u021bi<\/h4>\n<p>\nPrimul dependent cu care m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit a fost proprietarul, care era \u0219i directorul, companiei \u2013 locul meu de munc\u0103 de \u00eenceput. El \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba constant \u2013 mergea la traininguri, seminarii, cursuri, citea \u0219i cita c\u0103r\u021bi. Era, cum s-ar spune, un dependent pasiv \u2013 nu tr\u0103gea pe nimeni \u00een religia lui, nu impunea c\u0103r\u021bi, practic nici m\u0103car nu oferea ceva de citit.<\/p>\n<p>Cu toate acestea, toat\u0103 lumea \u0219tia c\u0103 el este pasionat de \u201echestia asta\u201d. Dar era perceput ca o pasiune dr\u0103gu\u021b\u0103, deoarece compania avea succes \u2013 cel mai bun partener 1C din ora\u0219 pe toate parametrii. \u0218i dac\u0103 o persoan\u0103 a construit cea mai bun\u0103 companie, atunci ce dac\u0103, s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 c\u0103r\u021bile sale.<\/p>\n<p>Dar prima disonan\u021b\u0103 cognitiv\u0103 am sim\u021bit-o deja atunci. Era foarte simpl\u0103: cu ce se deosebe\u0219te o persoan\u0103 care cite\u0219te c\u0103r\u021bi, ascult\u0103 cursuri, particip\u0103 la traininguri, de o persoan\u0103 care nu face nimic din toate acestea?<\/p>\n<p>Uite, vezi doi oameni. Unul cite\u0219te, cel\u0103lalt \u2013 nu. Logica sugereaz\u0103 c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 existe o diferen\u021b\u0103 evident\u0103, obiectiv\u0103. \u0218i nu conteaz\u0103 cine dintre ei va fi mai bun \u2013 dar diferen\u021ba trebuie s\u0103 existe. \u0218i nu a existat.<\/p>\n<p>Da, compania este cea mai de succes din ora\u0219. Dar nu chiar de multe ori \u2013 poate cu unit\u0103\u021bi, poate cu zeci de procente. Iar competi\u021bia nu sl\u0103be\u0219te, trebuie s\u0103 g\u0103sim mereu ceva nou. Compania nu are avantaje super-mega-puper extrase din c\u0103r\u021bi care ar l\u0103sa concuren\u021ba \u00een urm\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i directorul, care a citit c\u0103r\u021bi, nu se deosebe\u0219te prea mult de ceilal\u021bi. Ei bine, poate c\u0103 este un pic mai bl\u00e2nd, mai simplu \u2013 dar, probabil, acestea sunt calit\u0103\u021bile sale personale. Era a\u0219a \u0219i \u00eenainte de c\u0103r\u021bi. \u00ce\u0219i stabile\u0219te sarcinile aproximativ la fel, \u00eentreab\u0103 similar, dezvolt\u0103 compania \u00een acelea\u0219i direc\u021bii ca \u0219i concuren\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p>Atunci, de ce s\u0103 citim c\u0103r\u021bi, s\u0103 mergem la seminarii, cursuri \u0219i traininguri? Nu am putut s\u0103 \u00eemi explic acest lucru, a\u0219a c\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu l-am acceptat ca o dat\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd am \u00eencercat eu \u00eensumi.<\/p>\n<h4>Prima mea doz\u0103<\/h4>\n<p>\nA existat, desigur, \u0219i o dozare zero \u2013 prima carte care poate fi considerat\u0103 literatur\u0103 de afaceri, de\u0219i cu o mare \u00eentindere. A fost \u201eModelul rus de conducere\u201d al lui Prohorov. Cu toate acestea, las aceast\u0103 carte deoparte \u2013 este mai degrab\u0103 o cercetare, cu sute de referin\u021be \u0219i citate. Nu poate fi nici pe departe comparat\u0103 cu recunoscu\u021bi moguli ai infobusiness-ului. Stimate domn Prohorov Alexandr Petrovici, cartea dumneavoastr\u0103 este un geniu atemporal.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219adar, prima carte de auto-dezvoltare cu care m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit a fost \u201eTransurfingul realit\u0103\u021bii\u201d al lui Vadim Zelandon. De fapt, povestea cunoa\u0219terii noastre este o pur\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mplare. Cineva a adus-o la munc\u0103, \u0219i anume \u2013 o carte audio. Mi-e ru\u0219ine s\u0103 recunosc, c\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een acel moment nu ascultasem nicio carte audio \u00een via\u021ba mea. A\u0219a c\u0103 am decis s\u0103 o ascult, pur \u0219i simplu din curiozitate pentru format.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i a\u0219a m-a captivat\u2026 \u0218i cartea este interesant\u0103, iar cititorul este extrem de bun \u2013 Mihail Cernyak (el d\u0103 voce mai multor personaje \u00een \u201eSme\u0219ariki\u201d, \u201eLuntik\u201d \u2013 pe scurt, anima\u021biile \u201eMelnitsey\u201d). A avut influen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i faptul c\u0103, cum am aflat mai t\u00e2rziu, sunt auditiv, adic\u0103 percep cel mai bine informa\u021bia prin auz.<\/p>\n<p>Pe scurt, am fost obsedat de aceast\u0103 carte timp de c\u00e2teva luni. O ascultam la munc\u0103, o ascultam acas\u0103, o ascultam \u00een ma\u0219in\u0103, din nou \u0219i din nou. Aceast\u0103 carte mi-a \u00eenlocuit muzica (la munc\u0103 ascult mereu cu c\u0103\u0219ti). Nu puteam s\u0103 m\u0103 rup de ea, nici s\u0103 m\u0103 opresc.<\/p>\n<p>Am dezvoltat o dependen\u021b\u0103 de aceast\u0103 carte \u2013 at\u00e2t de con\u021binut, c\u00e2t \u0219i de interpretare. Cu toate acestea, am \u00eencercat cu adev\u0103rat s\u0103 aplic tot ceea ce era scris \u00een ea. \u0218i, din p\u0103cate, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 ob\u021bin rezultate.<\/p>\n<p>Nu voi povesti ce trebuie f\u0103cut \u2013 trebuie citit\u0103, nu voi putea s\u0103 rezum \u00een c\u00e2teva cuvinte. Dar am \u00eenceput s\u0103 ob\u021bin primele rezultate. \u0218i, desigur, am renun\u021bat \u2013 nu-mi place s\u0103 duc la bun sf\u00e2r\u0219it ceea ce am \u00eenceput.<\/p>\n<p>Aici a \u00eenceput sindromul de abstinen\u021b\u0103, adic\u0103 retragerea.<\/p>\n<h4>Retragere<\/h4>\n<p>\nDac\u0103 a\u021bi avut sau ave\u021bi vreo dependen\u021b\u0103, cum ar fi fumatul, atunci ar trebui s\u0103 v\u0103 fie cunoscut un astfel de sentiment: de ce naiba am \u00eenceput, de fapt?<\/p>\n<p>C\u0103ci tr\u0103iam bine \u0219i nu aveam griji. \u00cemi f\u0103ceam exerci\u021biile, s\u0103ream, lucram, m\u00e2ncam, dormeam, iar acum \u2013 ai grij\u0103 \u0219i de dependen\u021b\u0103. Dar timpul\/for\u021bele\/pierderile pentru satisfacerea dependen\u021bei sunt doar jum\u0103tate din probleme.<\/p>\n<p>Problema real\u0103, \u00een contextul c\u0103r\u021bilor \u2013 \u00een\u021belegerea realit\u0103\u021bilor de diferite niveluri. Voi \u00eencerca s\u0103 explic, de\u0219i nu sunt sigur c\u0103 voi reu\u0219i.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0103 presupunem c\u0103 este acela\u0219i \u00abTransurfing al realit\u0103\u021bii\u00bb. Dac\u0103 urmezi ceea ce este scris \u00een carte, via\u021ba devine mai interesant\u0103 \u0219i plin\u0103, \u0219i destul de repede \u2013 \u00een c\u00e2teva zile. \u0218tiu, am \u00eencercat. Dar cheia este: \u00abdac\u0103 urmezi\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 urmezi, \u00eencepi s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti \u00eentr-o nou\u0103 realitate, \u00een care nu ai fost \u00eenainte. Via\u021ba cap\u0103t\u0103 culori noi, bla-bla-bla, totul devine vesel \u0219i interesant. Apoi renun\u021bi \u0219i te \u00eentorci la aceea realitate care era \u00eenainte de a citi cartea. La aceea, dar nu la ea.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cenainte de a citi cartea, \u00abacea realitate\u00bb p\u0103rea normal\u0103. Acum, \u00eens\u0103, pare o experimentare plictisitoare. \u0218i nu ai energia, dorin\u021ba sau altceva \u2013 pe scurt, nu te mai mobilizeaz\u0103 s\u0103 urmezi recomand\u0103rile c\u0103r\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i stai a\u0219a, \u0219i realizezi: via\u021ba e o porc\u0103rie. Nu din cauza c\u0103 ar fi cu adev\u0103rat o porc\u0103rie, ci pentru c\u0103 tu, \u00een mod direct, ai v\u0103zut o versiune mai bun\u0103 a vie\u021bii tale. Ai v\u0103zut-o \u0219i ai renun\u021bat, te-ai \u00eentors la cea precedent\u0103. \u0218i din aceast\u0103 cauz\u0103 devine insuportabil de greu. A\u0219a \u00eencepe sevrajul.<\/p>\n<p>Dar sevrajul este, \u00een fond, un fel de dorin\u021b\u0103 de a reveni \u00een starea de euforie, de a recupera acel stat anterior. La fel ca \u0219i cu fumatul sau b\u0103utura \u2013 continui s\u0103 faci asta ani la r\u00e2nd, sper\u00e2nd s\u0103 recape\u021bi senza\u021bia pe care o aveai la primele consum\u0103ri.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cemi amintesc cum am \u00eencercat berea pentru prima dat\u0103, c\u00e2nd eram \u00een centrul regional la olimpiada de informatic\u0103. Seara am mers cu un b\u0103iat de la o alt\u0103 \u0219coal\u0103, am cump\u0103rat de la un chio\u0219c c\u00e2te o \u00abnou\u0103\u00bb, am b\u0103ut, \u0219i a devenit at\u00e2t de bine \u2013 nu pot exprima \u00een cuvinte. Emo\u021bii similare am avut la petrecerile vesele \u00een c\u0103min \u2013 energie, entuziasm, dorin\u021ba de a m\u0103 distra p\u00e2n\u0103 diminea\u021ba, e-hee!<\/p>\n<p>Analog cu fumatul. Fiecare are experien\u021be diferite, dar eu \u00eemi amintesc cu pl\u0103cere nop\u021bile din c\u0103min. To\u021bi vecinii dorm, iar eu stau \u0219i codific pe Delphi, Builder, C++, MATLAB sau \u00een asamblare (pur \u0219i simplu nu aveam calculatorul meu, lucram pe cel al vecinului, \u00een timp ce st\u0103p\u00e2nul dormea). Pur \u0219i simplu o pl\u0103cere continu\u0103 \u2013 programezi, uneori bei o cafea \u0219i fugi s\u0103 fumezi.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219adar, anii urm\u0103tori de fumat \u0219i b\u0103ut sunt doar \u00eencerc\u0103ri de a rec\u00e2\u0219tiga acele tr\u0103iri emo\u021bionale. Dar, din p\u0103cate, acest lucru nu este posibil. Totu\u0219i, nu \u00eei opre\u0219te de la fumat \u0219i b\u0103ut.<\/p>\n<p>Acelasi lucru este valabil \u0219i pentru c\u0103r\u021bi. \u00ce\u021bi aminte\u0219ti euforia lecturii, primele schimb\u0103ri din via\u021b\u0103, c\u00e2nd sufletul \u00ee\u021bi era \u00een\u0103l\u021bat, \u0219i \u00eencerci s\u0103 revii la acel sentiment\u2026 Nu, nu la primele schimb\u0103ri, ci la euforia lecturii. Pur \u0219i simplu iei \u0219i cite\u0219ti din nou. O dat\u0103, de dou\u0103 ori, de trei ori, \u0219i tot a\u0219a \u2013 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu mai percepi deloc. Aici \u00eencepe adev\u0103rata dependen\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<h4>Adev\u0103rata dependen\u021b\u0103<\/h4>\n<p>\nImediat m\u0103rturisesc \u2013 sunt un consumator prost, care nu cedeaz\u0103 principalului trend \u2013 cre\u0219terea dozei. Totu\u0219i, am v\u0103zut mul\u021bi consumatori buni.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219adar, vrei s\u0103 rec\u00e2\u0219tigi starea de euforie pe care o aveai la citirea unei c\u0103r\u021bi. O cite\u0219ti din nou \u2013 impresiile nu mai sunt acelea\u0219i, deoarece \u0219tii ce se va \u00eent\u00e2mpla \u00een capitolul urm\u0103tor. Ce s\u0103 faci? Evident \u2013 s\u0103 cite\u0219ti ceva diferit.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru mine, drumul de la \u201eTransurfingul realit\u0103\u021bii\u201d la \u201eceva diferit\u201d a durat \u0219apte ani. Al doilea pe list\u0103 a fost Scrum de Jeff Sutherland. \u0218i aici, ca \u0219i data trecut\u0103, am f\u0103cut aceea\u0219i gre\u0219eal\u0103 \u2013 nu doar am citit, ci am \u00eenceput s\u0103 aplic \u00een practic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Din p\u0103cate, aplicarea Scrum-ului din carte a dublat viteza de lucru a echipei de programatori. O lectur\u0103 ulterioar\u0103, aprofundat\u0103 a acelea\u0219i c\u0103r\u021bi, mi-a deschis ochii asupra principiului principal \u2013 \u00eencepe cu sfaturile lui Sutherland \u0219i apoi improvizeaz\u0103. A\u0219a am reu\u0219it s\u0103 accelerez echipa de programatori de patru ori.<\/p>\n<p>Din p\u0103cate, pe atunci eram IT director \u0219i succesul implement\u0103rii Scrum-ului mi-a \u00eentors mintea, \u00eenc\u00e2t am devenit dependent de lectur\u0103. Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 cump\u0103r c\u0103r\u021bi cu sacii, citind una dup\u0103 alta, \u0219i, din prostie, aplicam tot ce citeam. Am ajuns \u00een situa\u021bia \u00een care succesul meu a fost observat de director \u0219i de proprietar, iar lor le-a pl\u0103cut at\u00e2t de mult (voi explica mai t\u00e2rziu de ce), \u00eenc\u00e2t m-au inclus \u00een echipa de dezvoltare a strategiei companiei pentru urm\u0103torii trei ani. M-am l\u0103sat dus de val, dup\u0103 ce am citit \u0219i aplicat, \u00eenc\u00e2t am luat parte extrem de activ la elaborarea acestei strategii. At\u00e2t de activ, \u00eenc\u00e2t m-au numit responsabil pentru implementarea ei.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen acele c\u00e2teva luni am citit zeci de c\u0103r\u021bi. \u0218i, repet, am aplicat \u00een practic\u0103 tot ce era scris acolo \u2013 ce ar fi s\u0103 nu aplic, dac\u0103 am puterea de a dezvolta o mare companie (\u00een standardele unui sat)? Cel mai r\u0103u era c\u0103 aveam succes.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i apoi totul s-a terminat. De parc\u0103 a\u0219 fi decis s\u0103 m\u0103 duc \u00eentr-una dintre capitale, am demisionat, dar m-am r\u0103zg\u00e2ndit \u0219i am r\u0103mas \u00een sat. \u0218i mi-a fost insuportabil.<\/p>\n<p>Exact din acela\u0219i motiv ca \u0219i dup\u0103 \u201eTransurfingul realit\u0103\u021bii\u201d. \u0218tiam \u2013 \u00een mod cert, absolut, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eendoieli \u2013 c\u0103 aplicarea Scrum, TOC, SPC, Lean, recomand\u0103rile lui Gandapas, Prohorov, Covey, Franklin, Kurpatov, Sharma, Fried, Manson, Goleman, Tsunetomo, Ono, Deming etc., la infinit \u2013 are un efect pozitiv puternic asupra oric\u0103rei activit\u0103\u021bi. Dar nu am mai aplicat aceste cuno\u0219tin\u021be.<\/p>\n<p>Acum, recitind pe Kurpatov, am \u00een\u021beles, cumva, de ce \u2013 mediul s-a schimbat, dar nu voi \u00eencerca s\u0103 m\u0103 justific. Important este altceva: am rec\u0103zut \u00een sindromul de abstinen\u021b\u0103, ca adev\u0103ra\u021bii drogate.<\/p>\n<h4>Adev\u0103ra\u021bii drogati<\/h4>\n<p>\nA\u0219a cum am men\u021bionat mai sus, sunt un drogat prost. \u0218i de asemenea am men\u021bionat c\u0103 voi explica de ce directorului \u0219i proprietarului le-a venit ideea s\u0103 m\u0103 numeasc\u0103 lider al implement\u0103rii strategiei companiei.<\/p>\n<p>R\u0103spunsul este simplu: sunt adev\u0103ra\u021bi drogati.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen contextul dependen\u021bei de c\u0103r\u021bi, este foarte simplu s\u0103 distingi un adev\u0103rat drogat: el nu aplic\u0103 ceea ce cite\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru astfel de oameni, c\u0103r\u021bile sunt ceva de genul serialelor, la care acum s-au prins aproape to\u021bi. Un serial, spre deosebire de un film, formeaz\u0103 dependen\u021b\u0103, ata\u0219ament, dorin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i necesitate de a continua vizionarea, revenind la el din nou \u0219i din nou, iar c\u00e2nd serialul se termin\u0103 \u2013 s\u0103 prind\u0103 urm\u0103torul.<\/p>\n<p>La fel \u0219i cu c\u0103r\u021bile despre dezvoltarea personal\u0103, afaceri, traininguri, seminarii etc. Adev\u0103ra\u021bii drogati devin dependen\u021bi de tot acest lucru, dintr-un singur motiv \u2013 ei simt euforie \u00een timpul studiului. Dac\u0103 ne baz\u0103m pe cercet\u0103rile lui Wolfram Schultz, mai degrab\u0103 nu \u00een timpul procesului, ci \u00eenainte de acesta, dar \u2013 \u0219tiind c\u0103 procesul va avea loc cu siguran\u021b\u0103. Dac\u0103 nu sunte\u021bi familiariza\u021bi, voi explica: dopamina, neurotransmi\u021b\u0103torul pl\u0103cerii, este produs \u00een creier nu \u00een momentul ob\u021binerii recompensei, ci \u00een momentul \u00een care \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 recompensa va veni.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219adar, ace\u0219ti tipi \u201ese consum\u0103\u201d frecvent \u0219i constant. Cite\u0219te c\u0103r\u021bi, \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 la cursuri, uneori \u2013 nu doar o dat\u0103. Eu am fost o singur\u0103 dat\u0103 la un training de afaceri \u0219i asta deoarece compania a pl\u0103tit. A fost un training al lui Gandapas, iar acolo am \u00eent\u00e2lnit c\u00e2\u021biva adev\u0103ra\u021bi drogati \u2013 b\u0103ie\u021bi care nu erau la acest curs pentru prima dat\u0103. De\u0219i, conform propriilor lor cuvinte, nu aveau succes \u00een via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen acest aspect, cred c\u0103 se afl\u0103 diferen\u021ba esen\u021bial\u0103 dintre adev\u0103ra\u021bii dependen\u021bi. Scopul lor nu este dob\u00e2ndirea de cuno\u0219tin\u021be sau, Doamne fere\u0219te, aplicarea lor \u00een practic\u0103. Scopul lor este procesul \u00een sine, indiferent de natura acestuia. Citirea unei c\u0103r\u021bi, ascultarea unui seminar, networking \u00een timpul unei pauze de cafea, participarea activ\u0103 la jocuri de afaceri \u00een cadrul unui training. Practic, cam at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p>Revenind la munc\u0103, ei nu aplic\u0103 niciodat\u0103, absolut nimic din cuno\u0219tin\u021bele ob\u021binute.<\/p>\n<p>Banale, voi explica prin propriul meu exemplu. Scrum l-am citit cam \u00een acela\u0219i timp, a\u0219a s-a nimerit. Eu, imediat dup\u0103 citire, l-am aplicat \u00een echipa mea. Ei \u2013 nu. TOC le-a fost prezentat de unul dintre cei mai buni speciali\u0219ti din \u021bar\u0103 (iar eu nu am fost invitat), apoi to\u021bi au citit cartea lui Goldratt, dar doar eu l-am aplicat \u00een munc\u0103. Managementul personal ne-a fost explicat chiar de Doug Kirkpatrick (de la Morning Star), dar ei nici m\u0103car nu s-au mi\u0219cat pentru a implementa m\u0103car unul dintre elementele acestei abord\u0103ri. Managementul limitelor ne-a fost explicat personal de un profesor de la Harvard, dar, dintr-un motiv oarecare, doar eu am \u00eenceput s\u0103 construiesc procesele conform acestei filozofii.<\/p>\n<p>Cu mine este clar \u2013 sunt un dependen\u021biu r\u0103u \u0219i, \u00een general, programator. Dar care este situa\u021bia cu ei? M-am g\u00e2ndit mult la de ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 asta, dar apoi am realizat \u2013 iar\u0103\u0219i, prin exemplul meu.<\/p>\n<p>La unul dintre locurile de munc\u0103 anterioare a fost o situa\u021bie similar\u0103. Proprietarul unei fabrici a \u00eenceput s\u0103 studieze MBA. Acolo s-a \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu un tip care lucra ca top-manager \u00eentr-o alt\u0103 companie. Apoi proprietarul s-a \u00eentors \u0219i, a\u0219a cum se cuvine pentru un bun dependent, nu a schimbat nimic \u00een munca \u00eentreprinderii.<\/p>\n<p>Totu\u0219i, a fost un dependent prost, la fel ca \u0219i mine \u2013 nu s-a l\u0103sat atras de studii \u0219i c\u0103r\u021bi, dar un sentiment nepl\u0103cut continua s\u0103-l fr\u0103m\u00e2nte \u2013 pentru c\u0103 el a v\u0103zut c\u0103 se poate gestiona altfel. \u0218i nu l-a v\u0103zut la o conferin\u021b\u0103, ci prin exemplul acelui tip.<\/p>\n<p>Acest tip se deosebea printr-o calitate simpl\u0103: f\u0103cea ceea ce trebuie. Nu ceea ce era mai u\u0219or, ceea ce era obi\u0219nuit, ce a\u0219teptau ceilal\u021bi. Ci ceea ce era necesar. Inclusiv \u2013 ceea ce se predase la MBA. \u0218i a devenit o legend\u0103 a managementului local. Chiar a\u0219a de simplu \u2013 face ceea ce trebuie \u0219i lucrurile merg bine. \u00centr-o companie a crescut totul, \u00een alta a crescut, \u0219i iat\u0103 c\u0103 proprietarul nostru de fabric\u0103 l-a atras la el.<\/p>\n<p>A venit \u2013 \u0219i aici a \u00eenceput s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceea ce trebuie. Elimin\u0103 ho\u021biile, construie\u0219te un nou atelier, d\u0103 afar\u0103 lene\u0219ii, pl\u0103te\u0219te \u00eemprumuturile \u2013 pe scurt, face ceea ce trebuie. Iar proprietarul se roag\u0103 pentru el.<\/p>\n<p>Observa\u021bi o tendin\u021b\u0103? Un adev\u0103rat dependen\u021biat pur \u0219i simplu cite\u0219te, ascult\u0103, studiaz\u0103. Nu face niciodat\u0103 ceea ce a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat. Se simte r\u0103u din acest motiv, pentru c\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 se poate face mai bine. Nu vrea s\u0103 se simt\u0103 r\u0103u. Scap\u0103 de acest sentiment. Dar nu prin \u201eac\u021biune\u201d, ci prin studierea unei noi por\u021bii de informa\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p>Dar c\u00e2nd \u00eel \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219te pe cineva care studiaz\u0103 \u0219i ac\u021bioneaz\u0103, simte o euforie incredibil\u0103. Practic, \u00eei ofer\u0103 fr\u00e2iele, pentru c\u0103 vede realizarea visului s\u0103u - ceea ce nu se poate hot\u0103r\u00ee s\u0103 fac\u0103 singur.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centre timp, el continu\u0103 s\u0103 studieze.<\/p>\n<h4>Rezumat<\/h4>\n<p>\nA citi c\u0103r\u021bi despre dezvoltare personal\u0103, eficien\u021b\u0103, schimb\u0103ri merit\u0103 doar dac\u0103 e\u0219ti sigur c\u0103 vei urma recomand\u0103rile.<br \/>\nOrice carte este util\u0103 dac\u0103 faci ceea ce este scris \u00een ea. Orice.<br \/>\nDac\u0103 nu faci ceea ce este scris \u00een carte, po\u021bi deveni dependent.<br \/>\nDac\u0103 nu faci nimic, dependen\u021ba poate s\u0103 nu se formeze. A\u0219a, r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een con\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i dispari ca un film bun.<br \/>\nCel mai r\u0103u este s\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 faci ceea ce este scris \u0219i apoi s\u0103 renun\u021bi. \u00cen acest caz, te a\u0219teapt\u0103 depresia.<br \/>\nDe acum \u00eenainte, vei \u0219ti c\u0103 po\u021bi tr\u0103i \u0219i lucra mai bine, mai interesant, mai productiv. Dar vei sim\u021bi nepl\u0103ceri pentru c\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti \u0219i lucrezi \u00een continuare ca \u00eenainte.<br \/>\nA\u0219adar, dac\u0103 nu e\u0219ti preg\u0103tit s\u0103 te schimbi constant, f\u0103r\u0103 oprire, mai bine nu citi.<br \/>\n<br \/>Sursa: <a content=\"nofollow\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/habr.com\/ru\/post\/476408\/\">habr.com<\/a><\/p>","protected":false,"gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"html"}]},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0412 \u043a\u043e\u043d\u0446\u0435 \u0441\u0442\u0430\u0442\u044c\u0438, \u043f\u043e \u0442\u0440\u0430\u0434\u0438\u0446\u0438\u0438, \u0435\u0441\u0442\u044c \u043a\u0440\u0430\u0442\u043a\u043e\u0435 \u0441\u043e\u0434\u0435\u0440\u0436\u0430\u043d\u0438\u0435. \u0412\u044b \u0447\u0438\u0442\u0430\u0435\u0442\u0435 \u043a\u043d\u0438\u0433\u0438 \u043f\u043e \u0441\u0430\u043c\u043e\u0440\u0430\u0437\u0432\u0438\u0442\u0438\u044e, \u0431\u0438\u0437\u043d\u0435\u0441\u0443 \u0438\u043b\u0438 \u043f\u043e\u0432\u044b\u0448\u0435\u043d\u0438\u044e \u044d\u0444\u0444\u0435\u043a\u0442\u0438\u0432\u043d\u043e\u0441\u0442\u0438? 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