Ini ndinogara ndichisimbisa kuti vane tarenda vemitauro ndivo vanogadzira mapurogiramu. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nenzira yavo yekufunga, kana, kana uchida, neimwe deformation yehunyanzvi.
Kuti uwedzere pane chinyorwa, ini ndinokupa nyaya shoma kubva muhupenyu hwangu. Pakanga paine kushomeka muUSSR, uye murume wangu aive mukomana mudiki, vabereki vake vakawana soseji kubva kune imwe nzvimbo uye vakaishandira patafura kwezororo. Vaenzi vakaenda, mukomana akatarisa soseji rakanga rasara patafura, akacheka kuita madenderedzwa akatsvinda, ndokubvunza kana rakanga richiri kudiwa. “Tora!” - vabereki vanobvumirwa. Zvakanaka, akazvitora, akapinda muchivanze, uye nerubatsiro rwesoseji akatanga kudzidzisa makati emuvakidzani kufamba nemakumbo avo. Amai naBaba vakaona uye vakashatirwa nokupambadzwa kwechigadzirwa chinoshomeka. Asi mukomana wacho akanetseka uye akatogumbuka. Mushure mezvose, haana kuiba pane hunyengeri, asi nekutendeseka akabvunza kana achiri kuda soseji ...
Hazvina maturo kutaura, mukomana uyu akava programmer paakakura.
Nekukura, nyanzvi yeIT yakaunganidza nyaya dzakawanda dzinosetsa. Somuenzaniso, rimwe zuva ndakakumbira murume wangu kuti anditengere huku. Huru nekuchena muruvara kuti shiri ive. Nokuzvikudza akaunza kumba hombe jena...dhadha. Ndakabvunza kana, zvichibva pamutengo (dhadha rinodhura zvakanyanya), haana kushamisika kana aitenga shiri chaiyo? Mhinduro kwandiri yakanga iri: “Zvakanaka, hapana chawakataura pamusoro pomutengo. Yakati shiri yakura nekuchena. Ndakasarudza shiri hombe uye chena kupfuura dzose yakadzurwa kubva mumarudzi akasiyana-siyana! Akapedza basa racho.” Ndakatura befu, chinyararire ndichitenda denga kuti musi uyu maive musina huturu muchitoro. Kazhinji, taive nedhadha rekudya kwemanheru.
Zvakanaka, uye mamwe akawanda mamiriro ezvinhu umo munhu asina kugadzirira anogona kufungidzira kutsika-tsika uye kunyange kugumburwa. Tiri kufamba mumhenderekedzo yekumaodzanyemba inofadza, ndinorota ndichiti: "O, ndinoda chaizvo chimwe chinhu chinonaka ..." Iye, achitarisa-tarisa, anonyatsobvunza kuti: "Munoda kuti nditore michero yecactus here?"
Ndakadeedzera, ndichibvunza kana zvakanga zvaitika netsaona kuti andiendese kune imwe cafe inotonhorera ine makeke, semuenzaniso. Murume wangu akapindura kuti haana kuona cafe munzvimbo iyi, asi michero yepearly yaakaona mumakwenzi ecactus yainaka kwazvo uye yaigona kugutsa chikumbiro changu. Zvinonzwisisika.
Kugumbuka? Hug uye kukanganwira? Kuseka?
Ichi chimiro chekufunga kwehunyanzvi, icho dzimwe nguva chinomutsa zvisinganzwisisike muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva, chinogona kushandiswa nenyanzvi dzeIT mubasa rakaoma rekudzidza Chirungu.
Mafungiro anoratidzwa pamusoro (kwete kuve nyanzvi yepfungwa, ndingaite kuti ndizviratidzire sezviri pamutemo-zvine musoro),
a) inopindirana nemamwe misimboti yekusaziva kwemunhu;
b) inonyatsoenderana nezvimwe zvikamu zvegiramatical logic yeChirungu.
Zvimiro zve subconscious maonero echikumbiro
Psychology inotenda kuti subconscious yemunhu inonzwisisa zvese sezvazviri uye haina pfungwa yekuseka. Kungofanana nekombuta, iyo nyanzvi yeIT inoshandisa nguva yakawanda "ichitaura" kupfuura nevanhu. Ndakanzwa dimikira kubva kune imwe nyanzvi yekushanda kwepfungwa: “Anoziva zvishoma ihofori isina maziso, isina pfungwa yokuseka, uye inotora zvinhu zvose sezvazviri. Uye kuziva imhuka inoonekwa inogara pamutsipa wehofori ichiidzora. "
Ndeupi murairo unoverengwa negiant subconscious apo Lilliputian consciousness inoti: "Ini ndinoda kudzidza Chirungu"? Iyo subconscious pfungwa inogamuchira CHIKUDZO: "dzidza Chirungu." "Giant" ine pfungwa dzakapfava inotanga kushanda nesimba kuti iite murairo, ichipa RESPONSE: maitiro ekudzidza. Iwe uchadzidza kuti muChirungu kune gerund, kune izwi rechiito kuva, kune izwi rinoshanda, kune izwi rinopfuura, pane mafomu enguva, pane chinhu chakaoma uye subjunctive mood, pane kupatsanura chaiko. , kune syntagmas, nezvimwe.
Wakambodzidza mutauro wacho here? Ehe. "Giant" akapedza basa rayo - iwe wakadzidza mutauro nokutendeseka. Wave kugona Chirungu mukuita? Kashoma. Iyo subconscious haina kugamuchira chikumbiro chehunyanzvi.
Ndeupi musiyano uripo pakati pekudzidza nekugona?
Kudzidza kuongorora, kupatsanura yose kuita zvidimbu. Mastery is synthesis, kuunganidza zvikamu kuita zvakazara. Nzira dzacho, kutaura chokwadi, zvinopesana. Nzira dzekudzidza nekuita mastery dzakasiyana.
Kana chinangwa chekupedzisira chiri chekudzidza kushandisa mutauro sechombo, saka basa rinofanira kuumbwa sezvariri: "Ndinoda kugona Chirungu." Pachava nekuora mwoyo kushoma.
Sezvakaita chikumbiro, ndizvo zvakaitawo mhinduro
Sezvambotaurwa pamusoro apa, mutauro wechiRungu unoratidzwa neimwe nzira. Semuenzaniso, mubvunzo wakabvunzwa haugone kupindurwa muChirungu chero nzira yaunoda. Iwe unogona chete kupindura nenzira iyo yakapihwa. Saka, kumubvunzo "Wakadya keke here?" inogona kungopindurwa nenzira imwechete yegiramatical ine: "Hongu, ndine / Kwete, handina." Kwete "ita" kana "ndiri". Saizvozvo, pa "Wadya keke here?" Mhinduro chaiyo yaizova "Hongu, ndakaita / Kwete, handina.", uye kwete "ndaive" kana "ndaive". Mubvunzo chii, mhinduro.
Vatauri veRussia vanowanzovhiringidzika kana muchiChirungu, kuti ubvumire chimwe chinhu, unofanira kupindura zvisina kunaka, uye kuti udzivise chimwe chinhu, unofanira kupindura zvakanaka. Semuyenzaniso:
- Une hanya nekusvuta kwangu here? - Ehe ndino. — (Wakarambidza kuputa pamberi pako.)
- Une hanya nekusvuta kwangu here? - Kwete handi. - (Iwe wakandibvumira kusvuta.)
Mushure mezvose, chimiro chepanyama chekuziva chiRussian-chinopindura "hongu" kana uchibvumira, uye "kwete" kana uchirambidza. Sei zvisiri izvo muChirungu?
Formal logic. Pakupindura mubvunzo muchiRungu, hatipinduri zvakanyanya kumamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo sekureva kwegirama yemutsara watinonzwa. Uye mugirama mubvunzo wedu ndewekuti: "Une hanya here?" - "Unopikisa here?" Naizvozvo, achipindura kuti “Hongu, ndinodaro.” - the interlocutor, achipindura girama logic, anoti "Hongu, ndinopikisa," kureva, inorambidza, asi haibvumiri zvachose chiito, sezvazvingava zvine musoro kune mamiriro ezvinhu. Sezvo mubvunzo, ndozvakaitawo mhinduro.
Kupesana kwakafanana pakati pemamiriro ezvinhu negiramatical logic inotsamwiswa nezvikumbiro zvakaita sekuti "Unga...?" Usashamisika kana uchipindura kune yako:
- Mungandipewo munyu wacho here?
murungu achapindura achiti: - Hongu, ndaigona.
... uye anoenderera mberi nekudya kwake zvinyoronyoro asina kukupa munyu. Wamubvunza kuti angapa munyu here. Akapindura kuti aigona. Iwe hauna kumukumbira kuti akupe: "Ungadaro ...?" Vatauri vechirungu verudzi urwu vanowanzoseka seizvi. Zvichida mavambo echirungu chinosekesa chakakurumbira chiri pamharadzano yekupokana pakati pegiramatical uye mamiriro ezvinhu ... Kungofanana nekuseka kwevagadziri vepurogiramu, haufungi here?
Saka, kana uchitanga kugona Chirungu, zvine musoro kufunga zvakare mazwi echikumbiro. Pashure pezvose, patinouya, somuenzaniso, kuchikoro chekutyaira, tinoti: “Ndinofanira kudzidzira kutyaira motokari,” uye kwete “Ndinofanira kudzidzira motokari.”
Uyezve, pakushanda nemudzidzisi, mudzidzi anodyidzana nehurongwa hwake hwekuziva. Mudzidzisi anewo pfungwa dzisinganzwisisiki, iyo, sevanhu vose, inoshanda pa "chikumbiro-mhinduro" nheyo. Kana mudzidzisi asina ruzivo rwekuti "ashandure" chikumbiro chemudzidzi mumutauro wezvaanoda chaizvo, kusaziva kwemudzidzisi kunogonawo kuona chikumbiro chemudzidzi sechikumbiro chekudzidza, uye kwete chehunyanzvi. Uye mudzidzisi achapindura nechido uye kugutsa chikumbiro, asi ruzivo rwunopihwa pakudzidza haruzove ruzivo rwechinodikanwa chechokwadi chemudzidzi.
“Itya kuchiva kwako” (C)? Uri kutsvaga mudzidzisi we telepathic anogona kushandura zvikumbiro zvako mumutauro wezvaunoda chaizvo? Ndokumbira ugadzire 'chikumbiro' nemazvo? Nyora pasi zvinodiwa. Nemaitiro ane hunyanzvi kune bhizinesi, vagadziri vezvirongwa vanofanirwa kutaura Chirungu kupfuura zvese, nekuda kwezvimiro zvemaonero avo epasirese uye nekuda kwezvakasiyana zvemutauro weChirungu saizvozvo. Chinokosha chekubudirira inzira yakarurama.
Source: www.habr.com