{"id":35499,"date":"2019-10-31T22:04:41","date_gmt":"2019-10-31T19:04:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/prohoster.info\/blog\/byt-mentorom\/"},"modified":"2019-10-31T22:04:41","modified_gmt":"2019-10-31T19:04:41","slug":"byt-mentorom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/prohoster.info\/sq\/blog\/novosti-interneta\/byt-mentorom","title":{"rendered":"T\u00eb qenit mentor","gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"text"}]},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A keni takuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb, n\u00eb momentin e par\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive, nuk p\u00ebrpiqen ta p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb vet\u00eb, por ikin drejt nj\u00eb shoku m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrvojsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb? Kolegu m\u00eb i madh ofron nj\u00eb zgjidhje dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb duken t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur, por ai m\u00eb i madh \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar dhe ai m\u00eb i ri nuk ka fituar p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n<p><noindex><a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/habr.com\/ru\/company\/qiwi\/blog\/456732\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"T\u00eb qenit mentor\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/de2ab9160600ce4282ef1cbb1b1d4dc6.png\" style=\"display:block;margin: 0 auto;\" \/><\/a><\/noindex><\/p>\n<p>Ka edhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb, duke u dukur si profesionist\u00eb t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer dhe t\u00eb aft\u00eb, kan\u00eb vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt profesional dhe frik\u00ebsohen t\u00eb marrin m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi sesa kan\u00eb tani. Ka edhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit e informacionit t\u00eb ri; ata kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb ta vizatojn\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb me katror\u00eb dhe shigjeta, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe disa her\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebta njer\u00ebz shpesh kan\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrmbledhje t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt: n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm, atyre u ka r\u00ebn\u00eb ndonj\u00eb m\u00ebsues i keq n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb ose nj\u00eb mentor i keq gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre profesionale.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh nj\u00eb mentor i keq. T\u00eb identifikosh nj\u00eb mentor t\u00eb keq mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, sepse ai duket t\u00eb jet\u00eb i mir\u00eb dhe nuk e kupton se po b\u00ebn gabime.<br \/>\n<noindex><a rel=\"nofollow\" name=\"habracut\"><\/a><\/noindex><\/p>\n<h2>T\u00eb b\u00ebsh gabime \u00ebsht\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb<\/h2>\n<p>\nMarr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet midis mentorit dhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit mund t\u00eb krahasohen me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien midis prindit dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. T\u00eb dy, prindi dhe mentori, kan\u00eb nj\u00eb ndikim t\u00eb madh, nd\u00ebrsa nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi dhe f\u00ebmija mund t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm ose t\u00eb mos e kuptojn\u00eb n\u00ebse mentori i tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb i mir\u00eb apo i keq.<\/p>\n<p>Ashtu si gabimet prind\u00ebrore mund t'i ndjekin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn, gabimet e mentor\u00ebve mund t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb p\u00ebr gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb karrier\u00ebs profesionale. T\u00eb tilla gabime jan\u00eb thell\u00ebsisht t\u00eb rr\u00ebnjosura dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktohet burimi i tyre.<\/p>\n<p>Si t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohemi nga k\u00ebto gabime, nuk e di. Po aq e gjat\u00eb sa rruga me prind\u00ebrit \u2014 vet\u00ebdij\u00ebsimi p\u00ebr problemin dhe vet\u00ebkontrolli pasues. Prandaj, mentori duhet t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb barr\u00ebn e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb ngarkuar.<\/p>\n<h2>Barazia<\/h2>\n<p>\nGabimi m\u00eb kritik q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb kushdo q\u00eb ka ndikim mbi nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ngjall\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn e pap\u00ebrsosm\u00ebris\u00eb. Si mentor, asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb pozicionoheni nga pik\u00ebpamja se ju, mentori, jeni nj\u00eb specialist i klas\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb dhe autoriteti juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i pal\u00ebkundur, nd\u00ebrsa nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb askushi dhe nuk ka as em\u00ebr.<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb linj\u00eb e till\u00eb sjelljeje \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb e drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb drejt krijimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb profesionali t\u00eb paaft\u00eb.<br \/>\nKjo shpesh ndodh kur nj\u00eb person hyn n\u00eb mentorim me q\u00ebllimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur sigurin\u00eb e tij personale p\u00ebrball\u00eb koleg\u00ebve m\u00eb t\u00eb rinj e m\u00eb pak profesionist\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar atyre (dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha vetes), sa i shk\u00eblqyer \u00ebsht\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Megjithat\u00eb, nuk po deklaroj se \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb hysh n\u00eb mentorim p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb egos personale, \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur, sigurisht, por vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse egoja juaj rritet nga ideja e m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnies dhe edukimit, nga ideja se n\u00ebn dor\u00ebn tuaj dalin specialist\u00eb t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer.<\/p>\n<h2>Supermbrojtja<\/h2>\n<p>\nSupermbrojtja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb d\u00ebm emocional i ngjash\u00ebm me sugjerimin e ndjenj\u00ebs s\u00eb pamjaftueshm\u00ebris\u00eb.<br \/>\nKur jeni mentor, d\u00ebshira juaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb rezultate t\u00eb mira nga puna juaj mund t\u00eb shprehet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb jepeni pas tundimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb tepruar n\u00ebnshtruesin, madje t\u00eb b\u00ebni gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb vend t\u00eb tij, pa i dh\u00ebn\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb t\u00eb krijohet p\u00ebrvoja e tij.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb k\u00ebto raste, ka nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe q\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimisht nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi juaj t\u00eb b\u00ebhet i paautonom, i paorganizuar dhe i paekspertizuar. Dhe n\u00ebse nuk keni fat, ai mund t\u00eb mos e vet\u00ebdij\u00ebsoj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb.<br \/>\nK\u00ebshtu, me mbik\u00ebqyrjen e tepruar, rrezikoni t\u00eb rrisni nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 40 vje\u00e7are p\u00ebr \u00e7do problem, edhe n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrgatitur, do t\u00eb vrapoj\u00eb te drejtuesi i ekipit, si\u00e7 b\u00ebjn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit deri n\u00eb 40 vje\u00e7are q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb me prind\u00ebrit nga frika e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb pavarur.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00ebreni nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit tuaj t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb zgjidhin problemet vet\u00eb, dhe vet\u00ebm kur t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se jan\u00eb krejt n\u00eb nj\u00eb skllav\u00ebri, at\u00ebher\u00eb vini t\u00eb ndihmoni duke treguar hapat e m\u00ebtejsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<h2>Nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i marr\u00eb.<\/h2>\n<p>\nPas gabimit t\u00eb m\u00ebparsh\u00ebm, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr - ta b\u00ebsh nx\u00ebn\u00ebsin t\u00eb ndihet i marr\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ka nj\u00eb keqkuptim t\u00eb bukur p\u00ebr natyr\u00ebn e tij, t\u00eb njohur p\u00ebr shum\u00eb si 'mallkimi i dijes'. Konsiston n\u00eb faktin se n\u00ebse e dini nj\u00eb fush\u00eb njohurish mir\u00eb dhe prej koh\u00ebsh, p\u00ebr ju k\u00ebto njohuri duken t\u00eb qarta dhe t\u00eb lehta. Por kur p\u00ebrpiqeni t'i shpjegoni ato, do t\u00eb hasni nj\u00eb pap\u00ebrputhje totale. Shkaku i maltretimit mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb, nga komplekset e zakonshme deri n\u00eb faktin se shpjegimet tuaja bazohen n\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb fillimisht duhet t\u00eb kuptohen.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebshtu, \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb arrish n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb ku p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb shpjegosh di\u00e7ka nj\u00eb studenti, por ai nuk kupton, dhe pastaj fillon t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohesh p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Studentit i kapen emocionet e tua, dhe gjith\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjen ai do t\u00eb rrinte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, duke d\u00ebgjuar muzik\u00eb t\u00eb trisht\u00eb dhe duke menduar se \u00ebsht\u00eb budalla dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr profesion.<\/p>\n<p>Un\u00eb do t\u00eb shoh nj\u00eb frustrim n\u00eb m\u00ebsuesin qe n\u00ebnkupton se pas k\u00ebtij momenti, mund t\u00eb vendos\u00ebsh se je edhe ti nj\u00eb m\u00ebsues i till\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Por, \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme vet\u00ebm t\u00eb shpjegosh thelbin e fenomenit si p\u00ebr veten ashtu edhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, t\u00eb tregosh se k\u00ebto ndodhin me t\u00eb gjith\u00ebt, se nuk duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb frik\u00eb dhe t\u00eb bazojn\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimet mbi at\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Personalish, e mbaj mend mir\u00eb se si nuk mund t\u00eb kuptoja iden\u00eb e asinkronizmit, se \u00e7far\u00eb p\u00ebrfitimesh dhe disavantazhesh sillte. E shpjegojn\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb, dy her\u00eb, tre her\u00eb. Duket se kuptova, por gjithsesi ishte akoma shum\u00eb e paqart\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Nd\u00ebrsa tani, pas disa koh\u00ebsh, p\u00ebr mua kjo duket e kuptueshme, e qart\u00eb dhe e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr t'u par\u00eb.<\/p>\n<h2>Sindromi i peshkeshit t\u00eb vog\u00ebl<\/h2>\n<p>\nNj\u00eb problem tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb rrjedh nga ato t\u00eb m\u00ebparshmet. Ka nj\u00eb fenomen t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer q\u00eb quhet sindromi i patokut. Jam i sigurt se pothuajse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e din\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri do ta shpjegoj: sindromi i patokut \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb fenomen ku specialisti e konsideron teknologjin\u00eb ose mjetin e par\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar si m\u00eb t\u00eb mirin.<\/p>\n<p>Si mentor, p\u00ebrgjegjshm\u00ebria juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e plot\u00eb p\u00ebr t'i treguar personit t\u00eb ri n\u00eb profesion se bota nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e till\u00eb, se t\u00eb gjitha mjetet jan\u00eb t\u00eb dobishme dhe t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, \u00e7do nj\u00eb prej tyre ka p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe disavantazhet e saj, dhe nuk duhet t\u00eb pres\u00eb q\u00eb rruga e karrier\u00ebs t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat teknologji pran\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, do t\u00eb merrni nj\u00eb specialist tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb do t\u00eb regjistrohet si adhurues i mjetit ose teknologjis\u00eb, dhe t\u00eb till\u00ebt nuk jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, n\u00eb fakt, ata shpesh grumbullohen n\u00eb grupe dhe diskutojn\u00eb se gjuha e tyre e programimit \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mira, nd\u00ebrsa gjuh\u00ebt e tjera i gjithnj\u00eb e kan\u00eb xhelozi.<\/p>\n<p>Gabimet e p\u00ebrmendura m\u00eb sip\u00ebr mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb shum\u00eb, k\u00ebto jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm m\u00eb t\u00eb sip\u00ebrmet, por, pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebsaj, vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebriten dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb karrierat e njer\u00ebzve.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebto gj\u00ebra b\u00ebjn\u00eb mentor\u00ebt e k\u00ebqij, por le t\u00eb flasim p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<h2>Feedback<\/h2>\n<p>\nKy \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu nj\u00eb gj\u00eb mjaft e qart\u00eb, megjith\u00ebse nuk t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e kuptojn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e feedback-ut.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00eb pari, feedback-u \u00ebsht\u00eb i nevojsh\u00ebm q\u00eb ndihm\u00ebsi t\u00eb mos arrij\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrfundime t\u00eb gabuara. Funksionon shum\u00eb thjesht \u2013 njer\u00ebzit, kur ndihen t\u00eb paqart\u00eb, tendin t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb vet\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. Nj\u00eb person me vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt do t\u00eb gjej\u00eb patjet\u00ebr konfirmime q\u00eb gj\u00ebrat nuk po shkojn\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk po p\u00ebrballen dhe q\u00eb ky profesion nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. E kund\u00ebrta, nj\u00eb person me vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsim t\u00eb lart\u00eb mund t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb fluturoj\u00eb n\u00eb re dhe t\u00eb ndaloj\u00eb s\u00eb zhvilluari n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb mendimeve se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb tashm\u00eb mjaft i shk\u00eblqyer.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00eb dyti, karakteri i feedback-ut duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatet pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr nx\u00ebn\u00ebsin. Personave t\u00eb turp\u00ebsuar do t\u2019u jet\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb reagojn\u00eb korrekt n\u00eb feedback n\u00eb bisedat nj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa disa preferojn\u00eb t\u00eb marrin mendime m\u00eb formalisht n\u00eb form\u00ebn e nj\u00eb letre t\u00eb detajuar, dhe disa jan\u00eb t\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm me komunikimin n\u00eb mesazher, ku mund t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebr fjal\u00ebt e ardhshme dhe t\u00eb fshehin emocionet, n\u00ebse ka ndonj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00eb treti, feedback-u \u00ebsht\u00eb i nevojsh\u00ebm edhe p\u00ebr ju si mentor. Ndoshta, duhet t\u00eb zhvilloni m\u00eb mir\u00eb disa nga aft\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja t\u00eb mentorizimit, ndoshta nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi sheh di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju nuk e shihni.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto rrotullohen rreth nj\u00eb principi t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kuptuesh\u00ebm \u2013 transparenc\u00ebs. Sa m\u00eb t\u00eb hapura t\u00eb jen\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet tuaja, aq m\u00eb e leht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha pal\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<h2>P\u00ebrllogaritja e progresit<\/h2>\n<p>\nPa p\u00ebrllogaritjen e progresit, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni p\u00ebrfundime t\u00eb sakta n\u00eb fund t\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit. Arsyeja p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft e thjesht\u00eb \u2013 pa p\u00ebrllogaritjen e progresit, p\u00ebrfundimet tuaja do t\u00eb mb\u00ebshteten n\u00eb kujtes\u00ebn tuaj, e cila funksionon ndryshe p\u00ebr secilin; dikush mban mend m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mirat, dikush t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat, prandaj rezultati i reflektimeve tuaja mbi sukseset e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb shum\u00eb nga objektiviteti.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, ka nj\u00eb fenomen t\u00eb till\u00eb si intensiteti i kujtimeve m\u00eb t\u00eb fundit n\u00eb krahasim me ato m\u00eb t\u00eb vjetra, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nj\u00eb faz\u00eb e kaluar me sukses ose, p\u00ebrkundrazi, nj\u00eb konflikt, mund t\u00eb provokoj\u00eb nj\u00eb subjektivitet t\u00eb madh n\u00eb p\u00ebrfundime.<\/p>\n<p>Mjafton t\u00eb mbani nj\u00eb tabel\u00eb ku p\u00ebrshkruhen detyrat e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit, pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb tuaja dhe \u00e7far\u00eb ndodhi realisht, si dhe t\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebrshtypjet personale n\u00eb \u00e7do faz\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7do dite t\u00eb m\u00ebsimit, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e dobishme p\u00ebr analiz\u00ebn e ardhshme.<\/p>\n<h2>Zb\u00ebrthimi i pritshm\u00ebrive<\/h2>\n<p>\nVazhdimi i tem\u00ebs duke zhvilluar transparenc\u00ebn maksimale n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie.<br \/>\nMos fshehni nga nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit tuaj pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb tuaja p\u00ebr suksesin e tyre. 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