{"id":56368,"date":"2020-02-11T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-02-10T21:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/prohoster.info\/blog\/blog_prohoster\/pochyom-byt-nyashej"},"modified":"2020-02-18T14:04:37","modified_gmt":"2020-02-18T11:04:37","slug":"pochyom-byt-nyashej","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/prohoster.info\/sq\/blog\/news\/pochyom-byt-nyashej","title":{"rendered":"Sa \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh Nja\u0161a?","gt_translate_keys":[{"key":"rendered","format":"text"}]},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Shumica e njer\u00ebzve p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur. Jo, t\u00eb jen\u00eb, por t\u00eb duken. K\u00ebtu \u00ebsht\u00eb bukuria p\u00ebrreth, e jo bota. Sidomos tani, kur kemi rrjetet sociale.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe vet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i bukur, punon shk\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm, ia dalin me njer\u00ebzit, zhvillohet vazhdimisht, lexon libra t\u00eb men\u00e7ur, pushon n\u00eb det, zgjidh detyra n\u00eb koh\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb me perspektiv\u00eb, sheh filma t\u00eb duhur (q\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb rating n\u00eb Kinopoisk 7.5, jo m\u00eb pak), dhe ka studiuar mir\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb\/institut, dhe n\u00ebse nuk ka studiuar mir\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb \u2018un\u00eb isha thjesht vetja\u2019, dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb patriot, dhe nuk shkel rregullat e qarkullimit, dhe ndihmon pleqt\u00eb t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb rrug\u00ebn. \u00cbmb\u00eblsira.<\/p>\n<p>Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00ebse e shohim me kujdes, shumica prej nesh jan\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb mir\u00eb. \u00c7do njeri ka jo thjesht cil\u00ebsi ose aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb mira, secili prej nesh \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet unik. Duket e zakonshme dhe e p\u00ebrmasuar, por kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb realitet: \u00e7do njeri ka nj\u00eb pun\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebn m\u00eb mir\u00eb se kushdo tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb bot\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Duket, \u00e7do gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb p\u00ebr kujdestarin. \u00c7do person \u00ebsht\u00eb i mir\u00eb n\u00eb di\u00e7ka, \u00ebsht\u00eb mesatar n\u00eb di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr, dhe p\u00ebr disa gj\u00ebra \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos afrohet fare. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb p\u00ebr kujdestarin, por jo gjithmon\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit. Njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb jen\u00eb\/t\u00eb duken t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka.<\/p>\n<p>A e meritojn\u00eb? Ose ndryshe: \u00e7far\u00eb vlen?<noindex><a rel=\"nofollow\" name=\"habracut\"><\/a><\/noindex><\/p>\n<p>Le t\u00eb kujtojm\u00eb parimin e Pareto: 80\/20. P\u00ebr t\u00eb plot\u00ebsuar 80% t\u00eb k\u00ebrkesave, shpenzohet 20% e p\u00ebrpjekjeve, nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebr 20% t\u00eb mbetur t\u00eb pun\u00ebs shpenzohet 80% e p\u00ebrpjekjeve.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, un\u00eb nuk jam shum\u00eb i apasionuar pas ligjeve t\u00eb tilla, por vazhdimisht gjej konfirmimin e formul\u00ebs Pareto. Nj\u00ebher\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb raport p\u00ebr analizimin e arsyeve t\u00eb defekteve t\u00eb produkteve \u2013 dhe sakt\u00ebsisht, tja, 80 p\u00ebrqind e defekteve shpjegoheshin nga 20 p\u00ebrqind t\u00eb arsyeve. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, 80% e defekteve ishin si n\u00eb numrin e detajeve, ashtu edhe n\u00eb kostot e tyre. Magji.<\/p>\n<p>Pra, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb rasti i nj\u00ebjt\u00eb me idealizmin. Nj\u00eb person ka nj\u00eb ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb aft\u00ebsi, talente ose kapacitete ky\u00e7e. N\u00ebse i p\u00ebrdor k\u00ebto n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb duhur, ky grup aft\u00ebsish i jep atij 80% t\u00eb suksesit n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Po ashtu, n\u00eb p\u00ebrdorimin e talenteve t\u00eb veta ai shpenzon 20% t\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjeve. T\u00eb b\u00ebsh at\u00eb q\u00eb arrin leht\u00eb, apo jo? Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb vjen vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Nd\u00ebrsa pjesa tjet\u00ebr e imazhit, e cila nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb pika e fort\u00eb e personit, \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb ruajtur aureol\u00ebn e p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebris\u00eb, harxhohen 80% t\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjeve t\u00eb mbetura. Vet\u00ebm mendoni \u2013 kat\u00ebr her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Epo, nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi \u2013 n\u00ebse d\u00ebshiron dikush t\u00eb jet\u00eb i p\u00ebrsosur, mir\u00eb e b\u00ebfsh. Le t\u00eb harxhoj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjet e tij n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb mendon se \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme. Por \u00e7far\u00eb \u00e7on n\u00eb nj\u00eb imazh ideal?<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb pritshm\u00ebri t\u00eb larta, p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb tjet\u00ebr? N\u00ebse je i p\u00ebrsosur, at\u00ebher\u00eb askush nuk pret m\u00eb pak prej teje. Duhet t\u00eb jesh i shk\u00eblqyer n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Nuk ke t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb gabosh, kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ajo q\u00eb i lejohet 'zakonisht', nuk lejohet p\u00ebr ty, pavar\u00ebsisht se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh. Si\u00e7 thot\u00eb populli, em\u00ebrove grushtin \u2013 futu n\u00eb ark\u00eb. Je programues i p\u00ebrsosur? Mir\u00eb, asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos shkruaj kod t\u00eb keq. Shkruan artikuj? Mir\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb kesh pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb e publikut. Pretendon se ke trupin ideal? Harroj birr\u00ebn me krah\u00eb t\u00eb tymosur. Ndihmon p\u00ebr nj\u00eb stil t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm t\u00eb jetes\u00ebs? N\u00ebse e shoh n\u00eb McDonald's do t\u00eb jet\u00eb tragjedi.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb loj\u00eb \u2013 p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 t\u00eb varfrit. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb person p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb i p\u00ebrsosur, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb i duket se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb rreth tij vet\u00ebm v\u00ebzhgojn\u00eb sukseset dhe, p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, d\u00ebshtimet e tij.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe k\u00ebtu ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. T\u00eb tjer\u00ebt e ndjekin d\u00ebshtimin e tij shum\u00eb m\u00eb me v\u00ebmendje se sa d\u00ebshtimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Dhe shum\u00eb m\u00eb me v\u00ebmendje se suksese t\u00eb tij. Si\u00e7 tha goblini i gjelb\u00ebr, njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar p\u00ebr d\u00ebshtimet e heroit, r\u00ebnien dhe vdekjen e tij.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u00ebn\u00eb thjesht, askujt nuk i intereson idealizmi i dikujt. Askush nuk do ta admiroj\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 vet\u00eb heroit. Dhe t\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebrpjekjet e shpenzuara p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar k\u00ebt\u00eb imazh do t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb d\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb autor i nj\u00eb libri ofroi nj\u00eb metafor\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shpjeguar p\u00ebrpjekjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur nj\u00eb imazh ideal. Imagjinoni se gjithmon\u00eb duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni me vete nj\u00eb der\u00eb. Ajo b\u00ebrtet, e ju shpenzoni p\u00ebrpjekje t\u00eb m\u00ebdha p\u00ebr ta mbajtur k\u00ebt\u00eb derr. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e dukshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt se po b\u00ebni di\u00e7ka absurde, dhe nuk ka asnj\u00eb arsyetim real p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur k\u00ebt\u00eb derr me vete. Thjesht e d\u00ebshiron.<\/p>\n<p>Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, ka nj\u00eb prirje p\u00ebr idealizim. N\u00ebse b\u00ebni di\u00e7ka mir\u00eb, ka njer\u00ebz rreth jush q\u00eb fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb, dhe pastaj t\u00eb thon\u00eb, se ju jeni ideal. T\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb n\u00eb ju at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka ekzistuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. Ata vet\u00eb krijojn\u00eb imazhin, at\u00eb derrin q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb mbani me vete. Edhe n\u00ebse ju vet\u00eb nuk e kishit planifikuar k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebtu njeriu vet\u00eb vendos n\u00ebse do t'i p\u00ebrkas\u00eb imazhit t\u00eb imponuar apo jo. Shumica bien dakord - \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq e k\u00ebndshme kur t\u00eb promovojn\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb haptazi. Oi, dhe nuk e mendoja se isha kaq i mir\u00eb. A e mendoni v\u00ebrtet se un\u00eb shkruaj kod t\u00eb mir\u00eb? Po? N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, po. Edhe vet\u00eb e kam v\u00ebn\u00eb re se kodi im \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i mir\u00eb. Shum\u00eb i mir\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb po them - \u00ebsht\u00eb mahnit\u00ebse!<\/p>\n<p>Pastaj mb\u00ebshtetje nuk ka m\u00eb - imazhin ta kan\u00eb krijuar, dhe tani duhet ta mbash vet\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk je guvernator, sigurisht - p\u00ebr ata ekziston nj\u00eb artikull i ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb buxhet, ndoshta quhet \"mb\u00ebshtetje e imazhit t\u00eb guvernatorit\". Njeriu mbetet i vet\u00ebm me imazhin dhe p\u00ebrpjekjet p\u00ebr ta mbajtur at\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Problemi nd\u00ebrlikohet nga fakti se duket e sikletshme t\u00eb kthehesh prapa, sepse nuk ngjite n\u00eb mal vet\u00eb. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ndihesh keq ndaj atyre q\u00eb t\u00eb kan\u00eb ndihmuar. Investimet e tyre n\u00eb ty do t\u00eb humbasin, n\u00ebse ti dor\u00ebzohesh. Dhe as nuk do t\u00eb shpenzojn\u00eb m\u00eb koh\u00eb me ty.<\/p>\n<p>Kam qen\u00eb disa her\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb situat\u00ebn kur m\u00eb promovonin ose m\u00eb jepnin nj\u00eb imazh t\u00eb caktuar. Por nuk arrita t\u00eb b\u00ebhem ideal, p\u00ebr dy arsye: lenia dhe parimi i krijuar.<\/p>\n<p>Lenia ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb shp\u00ebtimi im, duke filluar nga shkolla. N\u00eb fakt, kam qen\u00eb nj\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebs i shk\u00eblqyer. Aq shum\u00eb, sa nj\u00eb her\u00eb p\u00ebrfundova dy klasa n\u00eb nj\u00eb vit. M\u00eb kishin vendosur n\u00eb shembull, m\u00eb d\u00ebrgonin n\u00eb olimpiada dhe konkurse, m\u00eb detyronin t\u00eb k\u00ebndoja dhe t\u00eb vall\u00ebzoja. Dhe un\u00eb isha i len\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Kam ikur nga p\u00ebrgatitjet p\u00ebr olimpiad\u00ebn, sepse ato ishin pas shkoll\u00ebs. Her\u00eb pas here merrja kat\u00ebrkat\u00ebr, tre e dy. Fatmir\u00ebsisht, prind\u00ebrit e mi nuk ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar - shihnin ditarin vet\u00ebm dy her\u00eb n\u00eb vit. Dhe p\u00ebrfundimisht mora nj\u00eb medalje t\u00eb mir\u00eb, t\u00eb pun\u00ebs - argjend.<\/p>\n<p>Po ashtu, lenia m\u00eb ka shp\u00ebtuar edhe n\u00eb pun\u00eb. Arrija ndonj\u00eb sukses, dhe logjika dhe arti ushtarake m\u00eb thoshin se duhej t\u00eb zhvilloja suksesin. Dhe un\u00eb isha i len\u00eb. Pas fitores dua t\u00eb pushoj, t\u00eb shikoj televizor dhe t\u00eb haj\u00eb \u00e7ipsa, n\u00eb kuptimin e drejt\u00eb dhe figurativ. Imazhi i ri ideal shp\u00ebrb\u00ebhet para syve, brenda disa dit\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Por lenia e vetme nuk mjafton. Me kalimin e viteve disa aft\u00ebsi dhe njohuri u rrit\u00ebn, dhe nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e pun\u00ebs, e lidhur me to, b\u00ebhet pothuajse me sy t\u00eb lidhur, pa shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje. Mund t\u00eb ruaj nivelin e m\u00ebparsh\u00ebm, me dor\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb, ndon\u00ebse m\u00eb par\u00eb kisha kaluar shum\u00eb pun\u00eb. Dhe lenia tani nuk ndihmon m\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur larg p\u00ebrpjekjet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar imazhin ideal.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebtu erdhi n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb nj\u00eb parim i thjesht\u00eb: balancimi. T\u00eb b\u00ebsh gj\u00ebra t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjshme. T\u00eb b\u00ebsh her\u00eb pas here at\u00eb q\u00eb shkat\u00ebrron \u00e7do imazh ideal.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr shembull, shkruan artikuj. Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb shkruaj disa artikuj radhazi mbi nj\u00eb tem\u00eb, t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit lexues mblidhen. Krijojn\u00eb pritshm\u00ebri dhe i vendosin ato mbi mua. Lenia nuk ndihmon - shkruaj shum\u00eb shpejt. Dhe lexuesit vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb - i gjejn\u00eb edhe p\u00ebrmes mesazheve personale, dhe p\u00ebrmes rrjeteve sociale, disa vijn\u00eb edhe me k\u00ebmb\u00eb. Japin, thon\u00eb, artikuj t\u00eb temave q\u00eb na p\u00eblqejn\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe un\u00eb nuk dua. Prandaj b\u00ebj nj\u00eb veprim t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm t\u00eb keq - shkruaj p\u00ebr nj\u00eb tem\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. A ju p\u00eblqen let\u00ebrsia e keqe? Ja nj\u00eb artikull mbi menaxhimin e ndryshimeve. A i p\u00eblqen di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr programuesit? Ja nj\u00eb artikull p\u00ebr menaxher\u00ebt. A d\u00ebshironi p\u00ebr menaxhimin e projekteve? M\u00eb vjen keq, dua t\u00eb flas p\u00ebr mjek\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb balancoj n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb askush t\u00eb mos ndjehet keq. Shkruaj nj\u00eb artikull, i cili parimisht do shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb minus. Thjesht p\u00ebr t\u00eb reduktuar pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb e lexuesve.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse nuk e b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb, ndjej ngarkes\u00ebn e \"responsibilitetit\", pothuajse fizikisht. Dua t\u00eb shkruaj p\u00ebr nj\u00eb gj\u00eb, por duhet - p\u00ebr nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Sepse lexuesit e duan at\u00eb. Sepse duan mua ashtu si\u00e7 e kan\u00eb imagjinuar vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Po ashtu balancoj \u00e7do veprim t\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. P\u00ebr shembull, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk e kryej planin. Tresht muaj p\u00ebrmbush, nj\u00eb - e anuloj. Edhe n\u00ebse kam mund\u00ebsi ta p\u00ebrmbush.<\/p>\n<p>Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb shkruaj kod t\u00eb keq. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjshme. Komentet e budallalla, emra t\u00eb humbur t\u00eb metadatas, emra idiot t\u00eb pronave dhe metodave.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fjal\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb thjeshta, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos qen\u00eb skllav i pritshm\u00ebrive, duhet t\u00eb jesh i papritur. Mund t\u00eb arrihet me ndihm\u00ebn e lenies, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb - n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjshme.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrosh pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb leht\u00eb dhe thjesht\u00eb. M\u00eb e leht\u00eb se sa t\u00eb mbash dhe t\u00eb zhvillosh imazhin, i krijuar nga k\u00ebto pritshm\u00ebri. At\u00ebher\u00eb 80 % e p\u00ebrpjekjeve nuk nevojitet, dhe mund t\u00eb merremi p\u00ebrfundimisht me pun\u00eb. T\u00eb drejtoj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjet e lira n\u00eb ato fusha ku je i zot.<\/p>\n<p>E v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, nj\u00eb e keqe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mjaftueshme \u2013 imazhi krijohet p\u00ebrs\u00ebri. Vijn\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb rinj, q\u00eb nuk e kan\u00eb par\u00eb shkeljen e vet\u00ebdijshme, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb vjetrit e harrojn\u00eb. Mendojn\u00eb \u2013 e, nj\u00ebher\u00eb gaboi njeriu (ata nuk e din\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb e b\u00ebra k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00ebllimisht. Megjithat\u00eb, tani do ta lexojn\u00eb dhe do ta kuptojn\u00eb). Dhe p\u00ebrs\u00ebri fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ekziston dhe nuk duhet t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Prandaj, praktikimi i veprimeve t\u00eb keqya t\u00eb q\u00ebllimshme duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritet periodikisht. Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb ndjej lindjen e pritjeve t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, menj\u00ebher\u00eb \u2013 ua hedh nj\u00eb cop\u00eb ll\u00ebng n\u00eb tort\u00eb. 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