Ngaba uyafuna ukubaqonda ngcono abantu? Fumana indlela yokomeleza amandla okuzimisela, ukwandisa ukusebenza komntu kunye nobungcali, kunye nokuphucula ulawulo lweemvakalelo? Apha ngezantsi kunqunyulwe uya kufumana uluhlu lweencwadi zokuphuhlisa ezi kunye nezinye izakhono. Ngokuqinisekileyo, iingcebiso zababhali azikho unyango kuzo zonke izifo, kwaye azifanelekanga kumntu wonke. Kodwa akuyonto imbi ukucinga kancinci malunga nento oyenzayo engalunganga (okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, yintoni kanye kanye oyenzayo ngokufanelekileyo).
Olu luhlu luyi-12 ephezulu yeencwadi ezidumileyo kwilayibrari yasePlarium Krasnodar kulo nyaka uphelileyo.
Ngaphezulu kwe-200 iimpapasho zezobugcisa kunye nezoshishino zifumaneka esidlangalaleni kwi-studio yaseKrasnodar Plarium. Zahlulahlulwe zibe ziindidi: iincwadi zobugcisa, ubugcisa, ukuthengisa, ulawulo, inkqubo kunye nokukopa. Yintoni eyona ifunwa kakhulu? Iincwadi ezingolawulo. Kodwa akubona kuphela abaphathi abathathayo: kolu luhlu kukho uncwadi oluninzi lokuziphuhlisa, iincwadi malunga nokuchasana noxinzelelo, ukulawula ixesha, njl.
Izinto ezikhethwa ngabasebenzi bethu kulula ukuzichaza. Uninzi lwabafana beza kusebenza nathi kunye nesixa esifanelekileyo solwazi kunye nokuphuhlisa izakhono ezinzima. Ngaxa lithile bafunda iincwadi ezikhethekileyo, yaye ngoku bakwiindawo ezikhethekileyo.
Usenokucinga ukuba ithala leencwadi alinalo kwaphela uncwadi oluyimfuneko, bathi oko likuthengayo koko kufundwe ngabasebenzi. Kodwa ithala leencwadi lenziwa ikakhulu ngokusekelwe kwiminqweno yabantwana. Ngamathuba athile, umphathi we-ofisi uqokelela aze asebenze nezicelo ezivela kumasebe, enze uluhlu, kuze kuthengwe iincwadi. Kuyavela ukuba ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezithambileyo ngokwenene kuyinto ephambili kwabaninzi.
Ukuba ujonge into enye, jonga ngakumbi kukhetho lwethu. Siyathemba ukuba uya kufumana into oyithandayo. Ke, uluhlu lwezona ncwadi zibalaseleyo kulawulo ngokwePlarium Krasnodar.
- Imikhwa eSixhenxe yabantu abaSebenza ngokuPhezulu. Izixhobo zoPhuhliso olunamandla lomntu (uStephen Covey)
Incwadi malunga nendlela ecwangcisiweyo yokumisela iinjongo zobomi kunye nezinto eziphambili, indlela yokufezekisa ezi njongo kwaye ube ngcono. - Ubomi kwindawo epheleleyo. Ulawulo lwamandla lungundoqo ekusebenzeni okuphezulu, impilo kunye nolonwabo (uJim Lauer noTony Schwartz)
Injongo yale ncwadi kukunceda umfundi ukuba afunde indlela yokusebenza ngokufanelekileyo, ukufumana imithombo efihlakeleyo yamandla ngaphakathi kubo, ukugcina imilo egqwesileyo yomzimba, imeko yeemvakalelo efanelekileyo, imveliso kunye nokuguquguquka kwengqondo. - Ndihlala ndidiniwe. Uhlangabezana njani nesifo esingapheliyo sokukhathala (uJacob Teitelbaum)
Ngaba udiniwe kukudinwa? Ngaba uziva ngathi awunawo amandla aneleyo nantoni na kusasa? Ngaba ufuna ukuhlala ukwimo entle? Incwadi yakho. - Ukomelela kwentando. Indlela yokuphuhlisa nokomeleza (uKelly McGonigal)
Misa imikhwa emibi ngokulungileyo, yeka ukuzibekela amangomso izinto, funda ukugxila kwaye umelane noxinzelelo - konke oku kuya kuba lula kancinci ukuba ufunda incwadi kaKelly McGonigal. - Ndibona into oyicingayo (uJoe Navarro, uMarvino Carlins)
U-Navarro, owayesakuba ngummeli we-FBI kunye nengcali kwinkalo yonxibelelwano olungekho magama, ufundisa abafundi ukuba "baskene" ngokukhawuleza i-interlocutor, bachaze imiqondiso efihlakeleyo kwindlela yakhe yokuziphatha, baqonde iimvakalelo ezifihlakeleyo kwaye babone iimpawu ezincinci zokukhohlisa. - Ukuqhuba ixesha. Unokuba nexesha lokuhlala kunye nokusebenza (Gleb Arkhangelsky)
Incwadi emalunga nolawulo lwexesha eneempendulo zemibuzo evela kwabo bafuna ukwenza okungakumbi. Iingcebiso zibonelelwa ngokuququzelela inkqubo yomsebenzi kunye nokuphumla, kwi-motivation kunye nokumisela iinjongo, ukucwangcisa, ukubeka phambili, ukufunda okusebenzayo, njl. - 45 abaphathi be tattoos. Imithetho yenkokeli yaseRashiya (uMaxim Batyrev)
Indlela yokuphatha oogxa, indlela yokwenza kwiimeko ezithile - isethi yemigaqo ekufuneka ilandelwe ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela. - Umthombo wamandla. Ungavula njani oovimba abafihliweyo bomzimba kwaye uhlale unamandla imini yonke (uDaniel Brownie)
Malunga nendlela yokufezekisa iinjongo ezifunwayo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo unike ixesha kwintsapho, uphumule kwaye udlale imidlalo. - Izakhono zokubonisa. Uyenza njani intetho enokutshintsha umhlaba (uAlexey Kapterev)
Ngaphakathi kule ncwadi kukho izixhobo kunye nemiyalelo yokulawula yonke inkalo yenkcazo-ntetho yakho (ulwakhiwo, idrama, i-infographics, uyilo, kunye nobuchule bokwenza intetho), ube sisithethi esihle, kwaye ufumane okuninzi kwiinkcazo-ntetho zakho. - Indlela yokuphumelela abahlobo kunye nokuchaphazela abantu (uDale Carnegie)
Isihloko siyazithethela. - Ii-introverts. Uzisebenzisa njani iimpawu zobuntu bakho (uSusan Kayin)
Kuyenzeka ukuba uqaphele iitalente zakho kunye namabhongo ngelixa ungumntu ongeniswayo, uphembelela, ukhokela kwaye ukhokela abantu ngelixa ugcina indawo yakho. Ngaba ufuna iinkcukacha? Funda uSusan Kayin. - IPsychology yeemvakalelo (uPaul Ekman)
Qaphela iimvakalelo, zivavanye, zilungise - yile nto umbhali wale ncwadi asifundisa yona.
Ungongeza ntoni kuluhlu lwethu? Ungacebisa ukuba ufunde ntoni? Siya kuba nombulelo ngeengcebiso kwizimvo.
Ngabasebenzisi ababhalisiweyo kuphela abanokuthatha inxaxheba kuphando. , ndiyacela.
Ngaba uyalufunda olu hlobo lweencwadi?
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Ewe. Ndiya kuvuya ukwabelana ngezinto endizithandayo kumazwana.
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Ewe. Kodwa andiyi kubelana, kuba yonke into ixhomekeke kumntu. Wonke umntu unentloko yakhe
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Kuphela ukuba babenconywe ngabantu endibahlonelayo.
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Andinaxesha labo. Kodwa banomdla kum
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Hayi. Ndibafumana bengento yanto
Bangama-82 abasebenzisi abavotileyo. Abasebenzisi abali-14 abakhange.
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