Isishwankathelo senqaku sisekupheleni kwesicatshulwa.
ULech yindoda elungileyo. Isebenza kakuhle, ngokufanelekileyo, kunye nemibono, ethembisayo. Senze iiprojekthi ezininzi kunye naye. Kodwa ubaleka ukuhlawula imali yesondlo somntwana kumtshato wakhe wokuqala. Uphuma ngqo kwaye acele ukufihla umvuzo wakhe kwaye "amhlawule kancinci."
UGena ngumphathi oqhelekileyo. Uyonwabile, uyathetha, ngaphandle kokuqhayisa. Iimpawu ziqhelekileyo. Kukho imibono yophuhliso kunye ne-automation. Kodwa uGena linxila. Ukusukela ngoLwesihlanu ungomnye umntu. Uyasela, ubetha umfazi nabantwana bakhe, ujikeleza isixeko enxilile yimoto ebusuku, yaye ngamaxesha athile ufumana amabali akruqulayo.
USeryoga ngumdwelisi wenkqubo oqhelekileyo. Uhlala ethe cwaka, esebenza kuyo. Uyakwazi ukuthetha, uyincoko enomdla kakhulu, unokuziva amava amaninzi obomi. Njengomphuhlisi, akabi, kodwa kungekhona inkwenkwezi. Umyinge oqinileyo. Kodwa ngaphandle komsebenzi uyakuthanda ukuhlazisa abantu abathi, ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo, abanako ukumphendula rhoqo. Abathengisi beevenkile ezinkulu, abaphathi bamagumbi omboniso wezixhobo zekhaya, iinkosi zamaziko asemthethweni enkonzo yemoto (abo banxibe iisuti, hayi iiovaroli).
Kwaye xa ndifumanisa konke oku, ndicinga - kutheni isihogo ndifuna olu lwazi?
UValya ngumsebenzi ombi. Akanalwazi, uyathanda ukulwa, uhlala elandela emva, kodwa awukwazi nokuthetha naye malunga nalo - uya kudla ingqondo yakhe yonke. Kodwa uValya akanakugxothwa kuba engumama yedwa. Ayiyompoxo ke le, ndiyakholwa nyani ukuba makangagxothwa.
U-Kolyan usisimumu njengesithungu. Ewe, yinyaniso, ucinga njalo ngokwakhe. Kwaye ndandisoloko ndisenza. Kodwa unabantwana ababini kunye nezindlu ezimbini zokubambisa, enye yeyakhe, enye yeyabazali bakhe abakhubazekileyo. U-Kolyan akanakugxothwa okanye athotywe; sele kunzima ukufumana imali. Kufuneka simnyanzele ngokoqobo ukuba afunde into entsha ukuze ubuncinane abe nesizathu sokunyusa umvuzo wakhe. Akaxhathisi, kodwa akukho nto ingako. Ewe, uKolyan usisidenge.
Kodwa uMisha wagxothwa. Wayesoloko esebenza kakubi, ngamaxesha athile wanyamalala kwindawo ethile - wathi wayexakeke ngumsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu kwaye ohloniphekileyo. Kwafumaniseka ukuba wayelilungu leqela elaligqogqa amathambo amajoni awafa ngexesha leMfazwe Enkulu yePatriotic. Mhlawumbi ngunobangela obekekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yeli shishini, uMisha akagcini nje ngokutyeshela umsebenzi wakhe, kodwa nosapho lwakhe. Kwaye kolu hambo, okanye iiprojekthi, okanye ukuphuma, andiyazi ukuba zibizwa ngokuba yintoni na, kukusela kakhulu.
Hayi, sukuyicinga loo nto, andingomntu ocingayo okanye ongcwele. Ubomi bam bobuqu buzele zizinto ezingcono ukuba ndingathethi ngazo. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, ndafikelela kwisigqibo sokuba andifuni ukwazi malunga nobomi bomntu endisebenza nabo kwaye, ngakumbi, abaphantsi.
Umqeshwa makabe macala mabini, umlinganiswa wekhadibhodi. Ukuze kubonakale kuphela iimpawu zakhe zobungcali - izakhono zobugcisa, izakhono zophuhliso, umnqweno wokuzama izinto ezintsha kunye nokwanela ngokubanzi. Kwaye vumela amaphela aphile kunye namathambo apho ahlala khona - kwi-closet.
Ngaphandle koko, kuvela ukuba yi-Dostoevsky ecocekileyo. Naluphi na ubuntu, ukuba ufunda okuninzi malunga nalo, luba luninzi, luyinkimbinkimbi kwaye alunakuqondwa. Akukho namnye umntu obonakala elungile okanye engalunganga. Ngasemva kwento nganye kukho ibali, ngamanye amaxesha liyamangalisa, ngamanye amaxesha lihlekisayo, kodwa lihlala lilula, linobuchule, mihla le. Yiyo loo nto isondele kwaye iyaqondakala.
Ndizoba ulwahlulo oluthile ngesiseko esilula: Ndifuna ukwazi kuphela ngeengxaki zomqeshwa endinokuthi ndincede ukuzisombulula. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu ngokwenene akanayo imali eyaneleyo.
Kwaye kwenzeka njalo. Umqeshwa wenza umsebenzi oqhelekileyo. Kwangaxeshanye, inkampani ineenkqubo ezininzi eziqondakalayo zoqeqesho oluphambili, umsebenzi okanye ukukhula kobungcali. Kodwa umqeshwa akazisebenzisi.
Emva koko uyeza athi: Ndifuna ukufumana imali eninzi. Ngenxa kaThixo, ngubani na ukunqanda? Jonga, funda izihloko ezinje nezinje, yenza imisebenzi kuzo okanye uthathe isatifikethi, kwaye uya kufumana ngaphezulu. Funda isikhokelo apho abathengi banezidingo, kodwa inkampani ayinabuchule - zonke iiprojekthi ziya kuba zezakho.
Avume ahambe. Emva koko, kwiinyanga ezintandathu kamva, uyachaza kwakhona - ndifuna imali engakumbi. Uyabuza- lunjani uphuhliso lwakho? Ngaba ufunde okanye uphumelele nantoni na entsha? Hayi, utsho. Khona uzikhathaze ngantoni kengoku?
Kwaye ke, damn it, kuvela. I-striptease yeemvakalelo iqala, ukuguqula umphefumlo ngaphakathi ngaphandle, amabali achukumisayo malunga "nabantu abasixhenxe kwiivenkile", iimali mboleko kunye nokungabikho kwemali kwiimfuno ezisisiseko.
Ewe, ngomlenze ... Ewe, khawundicacisele, mhlobo wam, kutheni wahlala iinyanga ezintandathu kwaye uchole impumlo yakho ngelixa abantwana bakho bengenanto yokutya? Kwaye ngoku ulahla konke oku kum, ngokungathi lityala lam ukuba awukwazi ukulandela amanyathelo alula, aqondakalayo okuphucula iziqinisekiso zakho?
Uqalisa ukukhala ngelithi andikhange ndimkhabe kakuhle, ndimkhuthaze, okanye enye into. Abakukhabi na abantwana abalambileyo? Akunjalo ngokoqobo, kodwa ngokomfuziselo. Ewe, okanye ngokoqobo - kubonakala ngathi akuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga.
Ewe, ewe, bendiya kukunika ingqalelo ngakumbi ukuba bendisazi kwangoko ukuba awufuni nje ukufumana imali eyongezelelweyo, kodwa awunayo yaneleyo. Le yimveliso eqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo, kubandakanywa. - ukugxothwa. Ndenze oku ngokwam xa umfazi wam engasebenzi, sele kukho umntwana kwaye kusekho i-mortgage.
Kodwa ngenxa yokuba undixelele oku akuthethi ukuba mna, okanye inkampani, ngoku ndinoxanduva losapho lwakho. Ndiyiqonda ngcono inkuthazo yakho. Ndikholelwe, ndiyaqonda kakuhle ukuba kuthetha ukuthini "akukho mali". Kodwa kukho into enye endingayiqondiyo: kutheni ungenzi nto?
Kukho abanye abantu abaneengxaki ezifanayo abathi cwaka baye kuyenza. Bafunda, baphuhlise kwaye barhole ngaphezulu nangaphezulu. Kwaye ucenga kwaye uncwine.
Kwezinye iindlela, iingxaki zibizwa ngokuba ziinkawu entanyeni. Ngelixa unengxaki, inkawu ihleli entanyeni yakho. Nje ukuba uxake umntu ngengxaki yakho, inkawu idlulela komnye umntu onethamsanqa.
Kulungile, kukho iingxaki zomsebenzi. Ukuzilahla kuyinto engcwele. Kodwa kutheni ukutshintshwa kweengxaki zomntu? Ndiza kukunceda ujongane nenkawu, kodwa ungacingi ukuba ndiza kukuphathela yona.
Kubonakala kum ukuba kukho iimeko ezimbini eziqhelekileyo.
Okokuqala, zigcine kuwe iingxaki zakho. Ndiyenza ngokwam lento. Oku akukona ukuvaleka okanye ukungabi nabuhlobo, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo - isimo sengqondo esiqhelekileyo kubantu abahlala beneengxaki zabo.
Okwesibini, zinike konke, kodwa zilungiselele ukutshintsha. Apha awuyi kuba neendibano nezalamane eziya kukhala kunye ngeengxaki zakho kwaye emva koko uhambe ngeendlela zabo ezahlukeneyo. Ngaba uthi akukho mali yaneleyo? Kulungile, nasi isicwangciso sakho sophuhliso, silandele kwaye uya kufumana ngakumbi. Nantsi iprojekthi yakho, inzima, kodwa inenzuzo. Nasi isakhelo esitsha, esifunwayo, kodwa sintsokothile kangangokuba akukho mntu ufuna ukusithatha.
Andifuni? Uxolo. Ndiyaqonda ukuba ufuna ukonyuselwa ngenxa yokuba neengxaki. Nam ndiyafuna. Ndinengxaki nam. Kwaye uChristina uneengxaki, kunye noVlad, noPasha. Abaxeleli nje.
Kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba abantu baqala ukuhlawulwa ngesixa sobunzima bobuqu abanabo? Iya kuba yinkqubo yenkuthazo ehlekisayo. Ndicinga ukuba kuya kubakho iingxaki zobuqu ezingakumbi.
Imeko eyahlukileyo, kunjalo, bubunzima ngequbuliso. Ayizizo ezo zathi zasekwa ngokuhamba kweminyaka ngoncedo lobuvila, ukungabikho kokuqalisa kunye nobuvila. Kodwa oku akusekho umbuzo wokunyusa umvuzo - oku kumandla majeure, xa uncedo lufuneka apha kwaye ngoku.
Ewe, kulungile, xa umqeshwa eze neengxaki ngokwakhe, yinto enye leyo. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba uye wafumanisa into enjalo ngaye ngempazamo?
Ngokomzekelo, ndafumanisa ukuba isela utywala, ibetha abantwana nenkosikazi yayo yaye maxa wambi nabamelwane. Sifanele sivakalelwe njani ngoku? Yena ngokwakhe, ngokuqinisekileyo, akanakuze athethe into enjalo. Nangona mhlawumbi bekuya kuba yinto ehlekisayo - ndinike ukonyuswa komvuzo, kuba ndibetha abantwana bam.
Emva kokufunda olu lwazi, ngelishwa, andisakwazi ukuzikhupha kuyo. Kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, andikwazi ukujonga umqeshwa ngendlela efanayo nangaphambili. Ndiyaqonda ukuba le yeyona nto inokwenzeka ukuba yintsilelo yam, kodwa andikwazi ukuyinceda.
Kukho abaphathi abangoogxa abangaluphephayo ulwazi olunjalo, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo - bazama ukugrumba ngaphezulu kwayo. Kwaye ke bayakhohlisa, basebenzise iinjongo zabo, besazi ukuba abasebenzi bayaphambana. Andazi ukuba zichanekile okanye zingalunganga, kodwa le ndlela ayisondele kum.
Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uye ufumane into malunga nomsebenzi eyenza intliziyo yakho ibe buhlungu. Kodwa into emayenziwe ngayo nayo ayicacanga. Uyazi ukuba ufuna imali. Uqala ukunikela ingqalelo ngakumbi kuye, umnike imali eninzi kwimisebenzi kunye neeprojekthi, kwaye umthumele kwiikhosi. Kwaye akazange acinge ngayo.
Hayi ngengqiqo yokuba ndifuna nawuphi na umbulelo. Ndizenzisa ngokusuka emazantsi entliziyo yam ukuba andizazi iingxaki zakhe. Ndinikela nje, njengombandela ophambili, ngaphandle kokhuphiswano, amathuba anokumnceda acombulule iingxaki zakhe zobuqu. Kodwa akasebenzisi la mathuba.
Ulungile njengoko enjalo. Uthanda neengxaki zakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha uyahlamba kwaye uyonwabele. Kwaye mna, njengesidenge, ndizama ukumnceda. Ewe, ndiziva ngathi ndisisidenge.
Ngokubanzi, ndazigqibela kudala: fuck it. Andifuni ukwazi nto malunga nobomi bomntu endisebenza nabo, abaphantsi kunye nabaphathi. Yiyo loo nto ndingazange ndiye kwimisitho yenkampani, ukuphuma okanye ukuhlanganisana iminyaka emininzi.
Abantu abakwimo engasebenziyo, ngakumbi xa besela utywala, ngokuqinisekileyo batsaleleka kwiingxoxo ezisondeleyo, kwaye banokufunda izinto ezininzi ezingeyomfuneko. Umntu akanako ukuthetha nantoni na, uthetha ngaphandle kwengcamango yesibini, kodwa mna, ngenxa yokunyanzeliswa okugqithisileyo, andiyi kukwazi ukuyihoxisa le ngcaciso kwixesha elizayo.
Emsebenzini, ndizama ukuphepha iincoko ezinde kwikhitshi lamashishini, ngakumbi nabahlebi. Yeha, olu hlobo lwabantu lusaxhaphakile. Musa ukubondla isonka, bavumele bacele into, emva koko ubaxelele into. Oku bakwenza ngaphandle kwenjongo engendawo, kubahlekisa nje. Ndiyikhathalele ngantoni le nto? Hlala ke ukhathazeke? Jonga umlinganiswa kungekhona njengomdwelisi weklasi yokuqala, kodwa njengoBuntu oBuninzi? Hayi enkosi.
Ukuba nabani na uneengxaki endinokuthi ndincede ukuzisombulula ngaphakathi kwesakhelo semisebenzi yam yobungcali, ndiya kunceda. Ewe, kwaye ndiya kunceda ngaphaya kwemida. Nantoni na inokwenzeka - ukuboleka imali apho de kube yimini yokuhlawula, ukhanyise imoto, unike incwadi yokufunda, uncede kwimeko enzima. Ngokuqhelekileyo bacela ukuba bakhululwe kwangoko, okanye bakhululwe - umzekelo, ukuthabatha umntwana kwi-kindergarten yonyango lokuthetha, nto leyo, ngenxa yesizathu esithile, ivuliwe kude kube yi-17-00. Akukho ngxaki ngale nto konke konke, mna ngokwam ndihamba ngamaxesha athile. Kukho izikhombisi zenjongo, kwaye azifuni ukuba semsebenzini ukusuka kwi-8 ukuya kwi-17.
Ndizama ukunceda. Kodwa - ngaphandle kokutya. Ndanceda ndalibala. Musa ukungena emphefumlweni wakho, musa ukufuna ukubulela kunye noncedo olubuyiselayo. Yaye ukuba umntu uqala ukuthetha into ethile, ndiyamnqanda, ukuba kunokwenzeka. Ucele iwaka phambi koMvulo - nali iwaka phambi koMvulo. Kutheni, ngoba, ayingomsebenzi wam. Yibuyisele nje.
Kwelam icala, ndenza okwahlukileyo - andithethi ngobomi bam obunokuphazamisa umsebenzi wam. Andizibeki iinkawu zam emagxeni omnye umntu, kuba ayinyanisekanga.
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Isishwankathelo senqaku
Kungcono ukungazi malunga nobomi bobuqu babasebenzi. Ukuba awuyazi, ngoko ubona kuphela icala "lokusebenza" labasebenzi. Ukuba uyazi, ke abasebenzi baba zizinto ezininzi, ezintsonkothileyo, kwaye xa usebenza nabo kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo izinto ezininzi.
Ngokufanelekileyo, kukwangcono ukuba ungathethi ngobomi bakho bobuqu. Ukutyhola iingxaki zakho koogxa bakho nakubaphathi akulunganga ncam.
Ngelo xesha, ukuba umsebenzi wobugcisa unokunceda ekuxazululeni iingxaki zomntu, ngoko ulwazi olunjalo lunokwabelana. Ukuphendula, banokubonelela kungekhona ngemali, kodwa amathuba. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uwasebenzise la mathuba.
Ukuba awukakulungeli ukuyisebenzisa, musa ukuzithwalisa nzima ngeengxaki zakho.
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