Ukuthetha esidlangalaleni sisixhobo kwidabi lokuphumelela iingqondo. Ukuba awungomeyisi, awunamsebenzi naloo nto. Kungenjalo, nantsi “iplani” yesi sixhobo!
Wonke umntu uzigqibela ngokwakhe into eza kuqala kwintetho kawonke-wonke - umboniso okanye isicatshulwa esithethiweyo. Umzekelo, ndisoloko ndiqala ngeprezenteyishini, ethi "ndiyigqume" ngesicatshulwa. Kodwa ndiyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kwangaphambi kokuba unikele intetho kunye nesicatshulwa, ufanele uyazi ngokucacileyo impendulo yombuzo othi: “Bafanele benze ntoni abaphulaphuli emva kwentetho?” Ngokuchanekileyo ngale ndlela kwaye akukho ndlela yimbi! Ukuba awuyifumani impendulo yalo mbuzo, ungazikhathazi ngentetho okanye ngesicatshulwa. Okunokwenzeka ukuba ukusebenza kwakho kukusesikweni nje. Indlela yokuzalisa indawo ngamaza omsindo we-5-10-15 imizuzu. Kodwa ukuba uyayazi ngokucacileyo impendulo, ngoko nangoko qalisa ukukhangela amagama nemifanekiso enokwalathisa umphulaphuli kwicala olifunayo.
Yonke imifanekiso oyikhethayo yintetho yakho.
Xa usenza umboniso, kufuneka ukhumbule:
- Umboniso usebenza njengejelo elibonakalayo lonxibelelwano kunye nomphulaphuli - ukongeza kwintetho kunye nentetho - ikuvumela ukuba ulawule ingqalelo yakhe;
- Isilayidi ngasinye somboniso sisishwankathelo sentetho yakho, esiboniswa ngejelo lomzobo lokubona;
- Intetho eneneni imisela into umphulaphuli aya kuyikhumbula emva kwentetho yakho, yintoni aya kuba nomdla kuyo;
- Ngalo lonke ixesha kwiscreen kufuneka kubekho kanye ulwazi othetha ngalo - musa ukunyanzela umphulaphuli ukuba afunde isilayidi endaweni yokumamela wena;
- Sukujika izilayidi zakho zibe ngumbhalo opheleleyo wentetho yakho. Khumbula, unikezelo asikokuphinda-phindwa kwengcaciso, kodwa izigxina zamagama eziyimfuneko ngokwemizobo;
- Ukwandisa ukugcinwa kolwazi olubaluleke kakhulu, sebenzisa imizobo evuselela iimvakalelo kubaphulaphuli, eyakhayo okanye embi, ngokuxhomekeke kumxholo. Iimvakalelo zikhulisa ukuqonda kunye nenkumbulo;
- Amava am abonise ukuba iinkcazo-ntetho ezinevidiyo enomxholo ziphumelela ngakumbi.
Yonke into oceba ukuyithetha sisicatshulwa sakho. Ungawufumana phi umbhalo? Ngentloko yam! Qala nje ukuthetha into ocinga ukuba iya kukhuthaza umphulaphuli ukuba enze le nto uyifunayo. Ngaphambi kwesibuko, ekuhambeni, uhleli esihlalweni, kungekhona ngokuvakalayo, nangona uhambisa umlomo wakho. Thetha intetho yakho uyigqibe. Emva koko phinda. Emva koko kwakhona. Kwinkqubo yokuphindaphinda, isicatshulwa siya kutshintsha - into iya kunyamalala, into iya kubonakala - oku kuqhelekileyo. Ekugqibeleni, i-ess eyimfuneko iya kuhlala. Ukususela kumava, amaxesha ama-3 anele ukudibanisa kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, khumbula i-skeleton esisiseko yokusebenza. Kwaye kuphela emva koko, ungabhala phantsi isicatshulwa ngokufutshane okanye ngokupheleleyo.
Ukulungiselela okunjalo kuya kukuvumela ukuba ukhathazeke kancinci, nto leyo ngokwayo ayibalulekanga. Kwaye kwakhona, oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba ungarhoxi kuwe ngexesha lokudlala, ucinga ngokukrakra ngamagama, kwaye ungaphulukani nonxibelelwano nabaphulaphuli.
Ukuphuma ukuya eholweni kumphulaphuli, okokuqala:
- Zazise. Nokuba uqinisekile ukuba wonke umntu osegumbini uyakwazi;
- Misela ulindelo lwabaphulaphuli. Ulindelo olungafezekiyo lungonakalisa nokusebenza okugqibeleleyo. Thetha ngokucacileyo nabaphulaphuli ngento nesizathu sokuba ubaxelele;
- Chaza imigaqo yomdlalo "elunxwemeni." Xelela abaphulaphuli xa banokubuza imibuzo, indlela yokushiya ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukuba benze ntoni ngesandi sefowuni, njl.;
Xa uqala intetho yakho, khumbula:
- Intetho ayenzelwa abaphulaphuli kuphela. Le yimephu yokusebenza kwakho. Uya kukunika imiyalelo ukuba ulahleka ngesiquphe.
Sebenza ngengqalelo yabaphulaphuli, ungayiphosi:
- Ungathethi kakhulu - ikwenza ulale. Guqula ukuvakala kwelizwi lakho kunye nesantya sokubiza amagama ngamaxesha athile. Musa ukutsiba iithowuni zeemvakalelo zelizwi lakho;
- Ukujonga kwamehlo - ngamaxesha athile "skena" iholo ngokujonga kwakho, ujongane nabaphulaphuli. Qaphela indlela obu buchule buvusa ngayo ingqalelo yabo kumazwi akho;
- Ukuba unoburharha, yiba neziqhulo ezimbalwa ezihlwahlwazayo kumxholo wentetho yakho;
- Qinisekisa ukusebenzisana nabaphulaphuli kwaye ubuze imibuzo. Emva kokubuza umbuzo, bonisa abaphulaphuli indlela ofuna ukuyifumana ngayo impendulo - ngokomzekelo, ngokuphakamisa isandla okanye ngokukhomba umntu ofuna ukuva kuye impendulo yomlomo;
- Hambisa. Yenza abaphulaphuli bakho bakulandele xa kungafuneki ukuba ujonge isikrini sokubonisa;
- Kwangaxeshanye, ziphephe iindawo eholweni, postures kunye nokuziphatha izithethi zangaphambili ukuba intetho yabo ayiphumelelanga kwaye vice versa ukuba ufuna ukufumana inxalenye yozuko isithethi esiphumeleleyo yangaphambili. Khuphela ithamsanqa lakho, zihlukanise neentsilelo;
Ewe, isixhobo esomeleleyo - sebenzisa ubuchule be-polemics kunye nawe. Yenza iinkcazo kwaye uzichase ngokwakho, kwaye emva koko, kwingxoxo kunye nawe, kwaye, mhlawumbi, kunye nabaphulaphuli, bonisa ukuchaneka kwabo;
Ezo ndlela zilula ziya kuvumela ingxelo yakho ibe sisixhobo sakho ekuzuzeni iingqondo zabaphulaphuli bakho.
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