Uyafuna ukuqonda abantu kangcono? Thola ukuthi ungawaqinisa kanjani amandla okuzimisela, ukwandisa ukusebenza kahle komuntu siqu kanye nochwepheshe, nokuthuthukisa ukuphathwa kwemizwelo? Ngezansi kokusikwa uzothola uhlu lwezincwadi zokuthuthukisa lawa kanye namanye amakhono. Yiqiniso, iseluleko sababhali asilona ikhambi lazo zonke izifo, futhi azifanele wonke umuntu. Kodwa akuwona neze umqondo omubi ukucabanga kancane ngalokho okwenzayo okungalungile (noma, ngokuphambene, ukuthi yini ngempela oyenzayo kahle).
Lolu hlu luyizincwadi eziphezulu ezingu-12 ezidume kakhulu kumtapo wezincwadi we-Plarium Krasnodar onyakeni odlule.
Izincwadi ezingaphezu kuka-200 zochwepheshe nezebhizinisi zitholakala esidlangalaleni ku-studio ye-Krasnodar Plarium. Zihlukaniswe ngezigaba: izincwadi zobuciko, ubuciko, ukumaketha, ukuphathwa, ukuhlela kanye nokukopisha. Yini efunwa kakhulu? Izincwadi zokuphatha. Kodwa akubona abaphathi kuphela abazithathayo: kulesi sigaba kunezincwadi eziningi zokuzithuthukisa, izincwadi mayelana nokumelana nokucindezeleka, ukuphathwa kwesikhathi, njll.
Okuthandwa ngabasebenzi bethu kulula ukukuchaza. Abafana abaningi beza bazosebenza nathi benolwazi oluningi futhi bathuthukise amakhono anzima. Bafunda izincwadi ezikhethekile kakhulu ngesikhathi esisodwa, futhi manje sebesezindaweni ezikhethekile.
Ungase ucabange ukuthi umtapo wolwazi awunazo izincwadi ezidingekayo, bathi okuthengayo yilokho okufundwa yizisebenzi. Kodwa umtapo wolwazi wakhiwe ngokuyinhloko ngokusekelwe ezifisweni zezingane. Ngezikhathi ezithile, umphathi wehhovisi uqoqa futhi acubungule izicelo zeminyango, ahlanganise uhlu, futhi izincwadi zithengwe. Kuvele ukuthi ukuthuthukisa amakhono athambile kuyinto ehamba phambili kwabaningi.
Uma uhlose into efanayo, bhekisisa ukukhetha kwethu. Sithemba ukuthi uzothola okuthile okuthandayo. Ngakho-ke, uhlu lwezincwadi ezinhle kakhulu zokuphatha ngokusho kukaPlarium Krasnodar.
- Imikhuba Eyisikhombisa Yabantu Abaphumelelayo Kakhulu. Amathuluzi Anamandla Wokuthuthukisa Umuntu (uStephen Covey)
Incwadi emayelana nendlela ehlelekile yokunquma izinjongo zempilo nezinto eziza kuqala, indlela yokufeza lezi zinhloso futhi ube ngcono. - Ukuphila ngokugcwele. Ukuphathwa kwamandla kuyisihluthulelo sokusebenza okuphezulu, impilo kanye nenjabulo (uJim Lauer noTony Schwartz)
Inhloso yale ncwadi ukusiza umfundi ukuthi afunde ukusebenza ngempumelelo, athole imithombo yamandla efihliwe ngaphakathi kwakhe, alondoloze isimo esihle kakhulu somzimba, isimo esihle somzwelo, ukukhiqiza kanye nokuguquguquka kwengqondo. - Ukhathele njalo. Ungabhekana kanjani nesifo sokukhathala esingamahlalakhona (Jacob Teitelbaum)
Ingabe ukhathele ukukhathala? Ingabe uzizwa sengathi awunawo amandla anele wanoma yini ekuseni? Ingabe ufuna ukuhlala usesimweni esihle? Incwadi yakho. - Amandla entando. Ungathuthukisa kanjani futhi uqinise (Kelly McGonigal)
Faka esikhundleni imikhuba emibi ngemihle, yeka ukuzindela, funda ukugxila futhi ubhekane nengcindezi - konke lokhu kuzoba lula uma ufunda incwadi kaKelly McGonigal. - Ngibona Okucabangayo (Joe Navarro, Marvino Carlins)
U-Navarro, owayeyi-ejenti ye-FBI kanye nochwepheshe emkhakheni wezokuxhumana ngaphandle kwamazwi, ufundisa abafundi ukuthi βbaskeneβ ngokushesha lowo oxoxa naye, bachaze izimpawu ezicashile ekuziphatheni kwakhe, babone imizwa efihliwe futhi babone nezimpawu ezincane zokukhohlisa. - Isikhathi sokushayela. Ungaba kanjani nesikhathi sokuhlala nokusebenza (Gleb Arkhangelsky)
Incwadi emayelana nokuphathwa kwesikhathi equkethe izimpendulo zemibuzo evela kulabo abafuna ukwenza okwengeziwe. Amathiphu anikeziwe ekuhleleni inqubo yomsebenzi nokuphumula, ekukhuthazeni nasekubekeni umgomo, ukuhlela, ukubeka phambili, ukufunda ngempumelelo, njll. - 45 ama-tattoos wabaphathi. Imithetho yomholi waseRussia (Maxim Batyrev)
Indlela yokuphatha ozakwabo, indlela yokwenza ezimweni ezithile - isethi yezimiso okufanele zilandelwe uma ufuna ukuzuza impumelelo. - Umthombo wamandla. Ungavula kanjani izindawo ezifihliwe zomzimba futhi uhlale unomdlandla usuku lonke (Daniel Brownie)
Mayelana nendlela yokufeza imigomo oyifunayo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo unikeze isikhathi emndenini, uphumule futhi udlale imidlalo. - Amakhono okwethula. Ungakha kanjani izethulo ezingashintsha umhlaba (Alexey Kapterev)
Ngaphakathi kule ncwadi kukhona amathuluzi neziyalezo zokuba ingcweti kuzo zonke izici zesethulo sakho (isakhiwo, idrama, i-infographics, idizayini, nendlela yokwethula), ube yisikhulumi esihle, futhi uthole okuningi ezethulweni zakho. - Indlela Yokunqoba Abangane Nokuthonya Abantu (Dale Carnegie)
Isihloko siyazikhulumela. - Ama-Introverts. Ungazisebenzisa kanjani izici zobuntu bakho (uSusan Cain)
Kungenzeka ukuthi uqaphele amakhono akho kanye nezifiso zakho ngenkathi ungumuntu ongenayo, othonya, oholayo futhi oqondisa abantu ngenkathi ugcina indawo yakho. Ufuna imininingwane? Funda okungakumbi ngo- Susan Cain. - Psychology of Emotions (Paul Ekman)
Qaphela imizwa, yihlole, uyilungise - yilokhu umbhali wale ncwadi asifundisa kona.
Yini ongayengeza ohlwini lwethu? Yini ongancoma ukuthi uyifunde? Sizobonga ngezincomo kumazwana.
Abasebenzisi ababhalisiwe kuphela abangabamba iqhaza kuhlolovo. , wamukelekile.
Uyalufunda lolu hlobo lwezincwadi?
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Yebo. Ngizojabula ukwabelana ngezintandokazi zami kumazwana.
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Yebo. Kodwa ngeke ngihlanganyele, ngoba yonke into ingumuntu ngamunye. Wonke umuntu unekhanda lakhe
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Kuphela uma betuswe abantu engibahloniphayo.
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Anginaso isikhathi sabo. Kodwa bayangithakasela
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Cha. Ngibathola bengenamsebenzi
Bangu-82 abasebenzisi abavotile. Abasebenzisi abangu-14 bagobile.
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