Ngaba ufuna ukuba nokonwaba kancinci? Zama ukuba ngoyena ubalaseleyo kwishishini lakho

Eli libali labo ukufana kuphela Einstein bubugxwayiba kwidesika yabo.
Ifoto yedesika yefiziksi enkulu yathathwa kwiiyure ezimbalwa emva kokufa kwakhe, ngo-Epreli 28, 1955, ePrinceton, eNew Jersey.

Intsomi yeNkosi

Yonke inkcubeko eyenziwe ngumntu isekelwe kwi-archetypes. Iintsomi zamandulo zamaGrike, iinoveli ezinkulu, "Umdlalo weZihlalo" - imifanekiso efanayo, okanye ngolwimi lwe-IT, "iipatheni", sidibana nathi ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Le ngcamango ngokwayo sele iyindawo eqhelekileyo: ubukho bomhlaba omnye weengcambu zawo onke amabali ehlabathi kwaphawulwa ngabo bobabini umbhali wencwadi ethi "Iqhawe elinoBuso obuliwaka" kunye nabaninzi be-postmodernists abaqala ukuluka ixesha elide. -balisa amabali afana namabali eBhayibhile kunye neentsomi ezifanayo ngoZeus, uHercules noPerseus kwiimeko ezintsha.

Olunye uhlobo olunjalo ngumntu owazi kakuhle umsebenzi wakhe ngokugqibeleleyo. Virtuoso. Guru. Bulgakov, kwinoveli yakhe edumileyo, wabiza iqhawe elinjalo ngokuthe ngqo - Master. Umzekelo wokuqala othi qatha engqondweni ye-virtuoso enjalo ngumcuphi okrelekrele okwaziyo ukuphanda ityala aze afumane isaphuli-mthetho esisekwe kwizinto ezininzi ezibonakala zinganxulumananga, nemikhondo enzima kakhulu. Eli licebo lenkohliso elinokuthi libonakale: ixesha elingakanani oku kunokuba nomdla ukufunda / ukubukela kwiscreen? Kodwa kufuneka uvume: ibali elinjalo aliyeki ukuba nomdla. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngenxa yesizathu esithile sivuyiswa ngumfanekiso womntu oye wafikelela imfezeko kubugcisa bakhe.

Ngapha koko, le archetype yenye yezona zinto zisonwabisayo kuthi, nokuba asisoloko sikulungele ukuyivuma kuthi. Kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kuphela, ndibe yinxalenye yencoko yobuchule kabini kakade. Kwimeko yokuqala, bendibukele umboniso bhanyabhanya oqhelekileyo, kodwa onomdla kakhulu malunga nomcuphi okrelekrele, kwaye ndeva kwenye yeendawo ezikufutshane: “Ndifuna nokuba nolwazi ngomsebenzi wam njengaye.". Kwimeko yesibini, omnye wabahlobo bam waqala ukuthetha ngento yokuba uya kuhlala ufumana umntu osendleleni yakho oqonda ishishini lakho ngcono kunawe. Ezi mpendulo ziphilayo kunye neencoko zobomi bokwenyani zibonisa indlela onamandla ngayo umnqweno wethu wokuba ngoyena ubalaseleyo kwishishini lethu. Kodwa ukwenza njani oko? Kwaye ngenxa yantoni? Masizame ukuyiqonda.

Umfo obuthathaka waba “nguWizard” njani

Ukubuyela kumbuzo wabacuphi. Bendisele ndiyilungisile kwenye yam nqaku umbuzo wokuba yintoni indima erudition edlala ebomini bethu. Kwaye njengomzekelo, ucaphule uluhlu lwezakhono zikaSherlock Holmes, ezichazwe kwi "Isifundo kwi-Scarlet" - uluhlu oluneenkcukacha (lunikwe ekuqaleni kweli nqaku) lwaqulunqwa nguGqirha Watson owaziwayo, uHolmes's. umhlobo. Njengoko sibona, i-erudition kaHolmes yayingekho banzi, kodwa ulwazi lwakhe kwimimandla enxulumene nomsebenzi wakhe wangoku lwalunzulu kakhulu. Wayenomdla kuyo yonke into enokuthi ithiyori imncede ukuba angene endleleni. Kwaye yonke enye wayishiya ngaphandle kwengqalelo yakhe.

Kutheni lo mzuzu ubaluleke kangaka nje? Kuba ibonelela ngomkhondo kwisenzeko seSherlock. Ke kwakutheni ukuze azuze impumelelo engaka kwishishini lakhe? Ngaba wazalwa eyingqondi? Hayi, wasuka waba yi-virtuoso ngomsebenzi oqhubekayo kuye.

Ndifuna ukubalisa ibali lomdlali owathi, engomnye wabadlali baseRashiya abaphumeleleyo kwi-National Hockey League (kuMntla Melika), waqatshelwa njengomnye wabadlali abalikhulu kweli qela. Ukuphela komdlali wehoki emhlabeni ophumelele iMidlalo yeOlimpiki, ubuNtshatsheli beHlabathi, iStanley Cup kunye neGagarin Cup. Ezi ziinyaniso ezomileyo zeencyclopedic. Kodwa ukuqonda ubukhulu bokwenyani balo mdlali, kungcono ukubukela nje imizuzu embalwa yomdlalo wakhe. Ngoko ke, dibana noPavel Datsyuk, owayebizwa ngokuba yi "Magic Man" ngoogxa bakhe be-NHL, kunye no "Houdini", emva komnye wezomlingo ezinkulu kwimbali.

Ngaba ukhe wayibona indlela aqhuba ngayo ngobuchule abachasi abathathu okanye abane? Okanye imenza njani unozinti abe novalo ngexesha lokudutyulwa (okufana nebhola “ipenalty”)? Ihamba ngasiphi isantya kunye nokuguquguquka?

I-Datsyuk inomdla kungekhona nje ngokuba idlala kakuhle. Zimbini izinto eziphawula indlela yakhe yokudlala. Okokuqala, udlala ngobuchule. Akayazi kuphela indlela yokubala ikhosi yomdlalo, kodwa isazi sengqondo esihle. UDatsyuk unokwenza umchasi wakhe awe ngaphandle kokumchukumisa. Okwesibini, uyincutshe nje ngentonga yakhe kunye nesityibilizi. Yile nto emvumelayo ukuba afake amanqaku, umzekelo, nasemva komgca wokukora (ukusuka kwi-engile engalunganga). Kwaye njengoko sinokubona kwividiyo elandelayo, oku akusona nje isipho sendalo - sisiphumo soqeqesho olujoliswe kuyo.

U-Pavel akayena umdlali weHockey omkhulu kakhulu, ngokungafaniyo, uthi, u-Ovechkin noMalkin, abaziwayo kakhulu. Kwaye ngokucacileyo wayengenayo italente yokuzalwa: njengomntwana, akazange athathwe njengomdlali onetalente yehockey, kwaye wangena kwidrafti ye-NHL (ukhetho lonyaka lwabadlali abancinci kwi-League) kwinombolo ye-171 - oko kukuthi, kude kakhulu eyona rookie yaloo nyaka. Abaninzi ekuqaleni andiqondangaWenza ntoni emkhenkceni? Kuze kube, kunyaka wakhe wesithathu wokudlala, waphinda kathathu iinjongo zakhe zonyaka. Kwaye konke oku kusixelela ukuba "uWizard" uziqeqeshe ngokwenene. Ndicinga ukuba ngexesha loqeqesho wayezibekela iinjongo ezingakumbi, ehlala ecela umngeni ukuba aphucule rhoqo. Kungenjalo, ngewayengayiphathanga ngobuchule le puck aze ashukume kamnandi emkhenkceni. Yena ngokwakhe wahleka kuphela kwelinye lodliwano-ndlebe kunye neentatheli zaseMelika ukuba ebusheni bakhe eRashiya wayenemali ye-puck enye kuphela, ngoko kwafuneka afunde ukuyisebenzisa ixesha elide.

Kutheni uzabalazela ukuba ngoyena ubalaseleyo?

I-Datsyuk ngumzekelo nje omnye wendlela umntu anokufumana ngayo iziphumo ezingaqhelekanga kwishishini lakhe alithandayo ngokuziphucula. Ekuqaleni kwenqaku, sathetha kakhulu malunga noncwadi - masikhumbule umbhali uNabokov, owabhala umsebenzi wakhe owaziwa kakhulu, "Lolita" ngesiNgesi, waza wayiguqulela kwisiRashiya. Ngaba unokucinga ukuba umntu olwimi lwakhe lwenkobe isiRashiya angafunda ngokwaneleyo isiFrentshi ukuba acinge kuso, kunye nesiNgesi ngokwaneleyo ukuba abhale iinoveli? Ndihlala phesheya iminyaka eyi-8, kwaye ubomi buhlala bundiphosa emlilweni wehlazo kwisigama sam. Kodwa ulwimi asingomsebenzi wam. Ngokungafaniyo noNabokov.

Impumelelo kumsebenzi ngokwenene ibaluleke ngaphezu kokuba sicinga. Kwaye ayilinganiswa ngemali kuphela. Ndingatsho nokuba imali inokulahla ikhampasi yeenjongo zobuchwephesha, ezinokuthi zibhekiswe kwelinye elingasentla. Andifuni ukungabi nasiseko, kodwa ngoku andinakukwazi ukucaphula ngokuchanekileyo izifundo ezibonisa ukuba inkuthazo yabasebenzi ayinqunywanga kuphela ngenkuthazo yemali (ukuba uyafuna, unokukhangela kwiindawo zokugcina zeempapasho ezifana ne-Harvard Business Review). Ukuze saneliseke ngumsebenzi, kufuneka enye into. Kwaye enye into emantla inokuba ngumnqweno wokuba ngoyena ubalaseleyo kwishishini lakho. Kwaye ngokuqwalasela ukuba sichitha phantse ubuninzi bobomi bethu (ngaphandle kwexesha lokulala) emsebenzini, kuya kuba kuhle ukuziva wanelisekile kwindawo yokusebenzela kunye nomsebenzi ngokubanzi.

Abantu kubo bonke ubukho babo bazama ukufumana ulonwabo. Emva phayaa ngenkulungwane ye-18, isithandi sobulumko saseUkraine uSkovoroda waqonda ukuba ulonwabo ebomini luvela kulonwabo emsebenzini (kwaye mhlawumbi wayengenguye ngowokuqala ukucinga ngale nto): “Ukonwaba kuthetha ukuzazi wena nendalo yakho, thatha isabelo sakho wenze umsebenzi wakho". Akufanele uwuqonde lo mnqweno njengenyaniso yendalo yonke okanye ifomula enkulu yokusombulula zonke iingxaki. Kodwa kum kubonakala ngathi ukuba sigxile ekuziphuculeni rhoqo kobuchwephesha, ngoko kunokwenzeka ngokwenene ukuba singonwaba ngakumbi. Ngokuzibekela umlinganiselo ophakamileyo size siwoyise ngokuphindaphindiweyo, sinokufumana uvuyo olungakumbi emsebenzini. Mhlawumbi oku kuya kusinika uxolo lwengqondo ngakumbi (emva kwayo yonke loo nto, siya kuba nendawo yethu yokuphumla emnandi), kunye nokuzithemba, kunye nemvakalelo yokubulela. Incwadi ethi "Samurai Ngaphandle Kwekrele" isixelela ngomnye wamaSamurai waseJapan, owathi ekugqibeleni waba ngumlawuli welizwe, kodwa waqala ngokubonisa isilayidi kwinkosi yakhe - waze wazama ukufezekisa lo msebenzi ungcono kunabo bonke, nokuba ihlekisa kangakanani na. isenokuvakala kuthi.

Ndisebenzisa igama elithi "ubugcisa" ngesizathu. Umsebenzi awufane ube mhle. Ngokusisiseko, le yinkqubo enzima kwaye iyadika.

Indlela eya ekubeni ngoyena ubalaseleyo ayikhe ibe lula. Ingqondo yomntu ilungisiwe ukuze ulandele indlela yokuchasa okuncinci. Uyakuthanda ukufumana ulwaneliseko olukhawulezileyo. Kwaye ke, kwindlela yokoyisa iincopho, kuya kufuneka ucinezele yonke intando yakho. Kodwa ukuzama ukwenza into oyenzayo kulungile, unokuwenza umkhwa - emva koko, ingqondo ityekele ekuqhelaneni nayo.

Bathi uluntu ngoku lujamelene “nexesha lama-narcisists.” Kwaye umnqweno wokuba ngowona ubalaseleyo kubuchule bomntu ngakumbi i-smacks yamampunge angabonakaliyo kunye ne-narcissism. Ewe, yiyeke! Masiyivume kuthi: kuvakala kumnandi ukuziva wongamile. Ngethuba nje kuthethwa kwaye awuthathi umhlaba phantsi kweenyawo zethu. Kwaye akukho mathandabuzo: kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kubakho umntu oya kuba ngcono kunawe. Kwaye oku kuya kuthetha kuphela ukuba kusesekuseni kakhulu ukuba ume apho.

Andazi ukuba ndingawufumana njani umsebenzi “owam”. Bathi"umnqweno wokuqonda into endiyifunayo ngumgibe"; Intoni "ukuhlala, ukucinga, ukuqikelela kwaye uqonde into oyifunayo ngokwenene phantse akunakwenzeka". Okunye cinga, ukuba kwanele nje ukubuza imibuzo efanelekileyo njenge: ukuba unonyaka kuphela oseleyo ukuba uphile: uya kuchitha njani? Ukuba ubunemali eyaneleyo yokuphila, ubuya kukhetha wuphi umsebenzi? Andazi ukuba ngubani ochanekileyo, kwaye andazi ukuba abantu bawufumana njani umsebenzi wabo wobomi. Kodwa ndibabonile abantu abamehlo abo akhanyiselwe ngumsebenzi. Kwaye ndibone abadlali behoki abaphilayo besuka kwenye iklabhu engekabinampumelelo kangako, ababekhasa kancinci emkhenkceni benobuso obungakhathaliyo, bephulukene nelinye iqela elibuthathaka. "Ngaba abafuni ukudlala ngcono?" Ndacinga nje ngelo xesha.

Eli asilobali nje elimalunga nomsebenzi. Imalunga nobomi ngokubanzi. UPierre de Coubertin, umseki wombutho wanamhlanje weOlimpiki, wathi: “Ikhawuleza, iphakamileyo, inamandla.” Nokuba wenza ntoni na - inkqubo, amanqaku amanqaku, bhala iitekisi, okanye uphekele umntu wakho omthandayo isidlo sangokuhlwa - zama ukwenza okona kulungileyo. Kwaye ingongoma ayikukuba ngenene kufuneka ube ngoyena ubalaseleyo. Imalunga nokungami ngxi, ungagxili, kwaye wonwabele umsebenzi wakho. Ayikokuba-imalunga nokuzabalazela. Kwaye nokuba awuyongqondo kwaphela, kwaye ukufana kwakho kuphela no-Einstein bubugxwayiba etafileni, ke khumbula ukuba kukho umntu owaqala ngo-171, kodwa waba ngowokuqala.

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