I pānui au i ētahi tuhinga (, ) i runga i a Habr i muri i taku whai i tētahi hononga mai i tētahi rauemi tuatoru, ā, i pōuri ahau, nā te mea kei te ako ahau i tētahi whare wānanga rongonui i te USA, ā, e mōhio ana ahau ki ētahi mai i Rūhia.
Heoi, ehara taku kōrero i te mea noa, ā, ki taku whakaaro koinei tonu te take i puta ai ahau. E maumahara ana ahau he pūnaha pōwhiri tā Habr i ētahi wā kua pahure ake nei. He mea kuware, engari he rerekē te āhua o ia tangata, o ia tangata. Kāore au i aro ki te hangarau mōhiohio, nō reira i karohia e au taua rauemi. Me i kore au i kite i ngā hononga (kei runga ake nei) i runga i tētahi rauemi tuatoru rongonui, tērā pea kāore au i haere mai ki konei. Engari i muri i taku pānui i ngā tuhinga, ka whakatau ahau ki te tuhi i taku ake hei āwhina i te hunga e hiahia ana, inā koa ko ngā wāhine.
E ai ki taku kōrero i mua ake nei, kāore au i te hiahia ki te hangarau mōhiohio. Kāore he rorohiko i te kura tuarua i waenganui o Rūhia. Kāore he rorohiko i a au. Nō reira, kāore he hiahia i a au. I toa ahau i te rota Kāri Kakariki, ā, i te 19 o ōku tau, ka whakarērea e au taku tau tuarua o ngā akomanga whenua i tētahi whare wānanga noa o Rūhia, ka oma ki te US. Kāore au i hiahia kia noho hei tohunga whenua, engari i a au ngā māka paahitanga kia ngāwari ai te whakauru. I muri i taku neke ki te US, i noho ahau ki te taha o ōku hoa i Wisconsin. He ohorere ahurea ngā tau tuatahi e rua. He tino ngoikore ōku pūkenga reo. He kino tonu taku reo. Kāore au i tino whakaaro ki te mātauranga, ki tētahi mea pērā rānei. Ko taku hiahia kia ora noa ahau. I mahi ahau hei kaiutuutu/kaihoko i tētahi hūpermakete rite ki a Walmart mō ngā tau e rua. Kātahi ka hoha ahau. He whare reti tōku, he motuka, me ētahi moni e toe ana, engari i hoha ahau. I te 21 o ōku tau, ka whakatau ahau ki te tūhura i aku kōwhiringa mō te mātauranga ā-rohe, engari i muri i taku rangahau i te kaupapa, ka taka. Pērā i Rūhia, ko ngā whare wānanga o US e aro nui ana ki ngā kaitono i puta tonu mai i te kura tuarua, i te kura waenga rānei. I mataku ahau, i ahotea hoki. Kāore i taea e au te whakaaro i ahau anō, i te 21 o ōku tau, kei roto ahau i tētahi akomanga me ngā taiohi 18-tau te pakeke. I waea atu ahau, i tuhituhi atu ki ngā kura o te rohe, ā, ko te nuinga o rātou i tūtohu i ngā kāreti hapori hei tīmatanga. Ināianei kei te whakaaro ahau ki te tika o tā rātou kōrero. I haere ahau ki te kōrero ki ngā tāngata o te kāreti hapori, engari i a au e haere ana ki tā rātou tari, ka tūtaki ahau ki tētahi kai kimi tāngata o te Navy, nāna i kōrero mai ki ahau ngā momo kōrero teka katoa mō te pai o te noho ki te Navy. I kōrero ahau ki a ia, ā, i waiho taku nama waea. Nā tēnei i whakaoho ake taku hiahia. I waea mai te kai kimi tāngata ki ahau i te wiki i muri mai, ā, i whakaae ahau ki te whakauru ki te Navy. I uru ahau ki tētahi momo whakamātautau, he whakamātautau IQ, kātahi ka tētahi atu whakamātautau rerekē i roto i ngā reo hanga. I muri i te whiwhinga o ngā hua, ka kī mai ia ki ahau kua tika ahau mō ngā kaupapa matua katoa i runga i aku kaute whakamātautau, engari nā te mea kāore au i te tangata whenua, he raruraru tēnā. Mō ngā kainoho tūturu, he tohungatanga ā rātou kāore e hiahiatia te urunga atu ki ngā mea ngaro a te ope taua. I whiriwhiria e au ngā mahi whakahaere, engari ehara i te mea nui.
I te tīmatanga, kāore au i pai ki te ope taua moana, engari i muri mai ka taunga ahau ki reira. I tere tonu te tukatuka i taku tūnga tangata whenua, ā, he kore utu. Kāore au i pai ki te noho i te "whare noho," engari kāore i hoha. I te tīmatanga o te utu i ahau mō aku pūkenga reo Rūhia, ā, ka piki ake taku tūranga, ka whakatau ahau ki te tango i tētahi atu kirimana, kātahi ka tētahi atu. E iwa tau i roto i te ope taua moana, ā, ka hoha anō hoki ahau ki tēnā. E toru ngā haerenga e ono marama te roa ki te Moana-a-Kiwa o Pāhia. He pai te moni. I pai ahau ki te Tai Rāwhiti. Engari ka tīmata te ngoikore o tōku tinana. I tua atu, kua whānau taku tamaiti i taua wā, ā, he tāne (!), engari he tāne o mua. I hoha anō hoki ahau ki te ahotea, ā, i hiahia ahau kia kite pinepine i tōku whānau i te 30 o ōku tau. I whakatau ahau ki te wehe atu i te ope taua moana, ā, i kōrero ahau ki taku rangatira mō tēnā. I puta ko ia he tauira o Harvard, ā, i muri i tana kōrero ki ahau, i tūtohu ia kia haere ahau ki te kāreti me te whakamahi i taku painga ture, te Pire GI Whai muri i te 9/11. Ka whakaratohia e te kāwanatanga he moni mō te mātauranga o ngā hōia tawhito. Heoi, kāore i te tino nui. I āwhina taku rangatira i ahau ki ngā pepa. I tino mōhio ahau ki te reo Ingarihi, ā, i tono ahau ki ngā whare wānanga e 20 mai i ngā whare wānanga 20 o runga rawa.
E rua aku whakamātautau SAT. Kāore i a au te wā ki te whakarite, engari me mahi tonu. I tua atu, he kore utu nā te kāwanatanga. I te wā tuatahi, i whiwhi au i te 1360 (720 pāngarau, 640 kōrero). I te wā tuarua, i whiwhi au i te 1480 (800 pāngarau, 680 kōrero). Ehara i te mea ko ngā kaute pai rawa atu, engari he tino pai. He aha taku e kī ai mō te whakamātautau? E whakaatu ana ngā tatauranga ko te maha o ngā wā ka mahia e koe, ka nui ake ō tupono ki te whiwhi kaute pai ake. Nā tēnei, ko te hunga e taea te utu i ngā kaiako, ā, e maha ngā wā ka mahia te whakamātautau, ka taea te whiwhi kaute pai ake. Arā, he pai ake te tupono o ngā WASP whai moni i ētahi atu.
I roto i ngā kāreti e 20, i uru atu ahau ki te 10. E toru i tono mai kia tukuna taku tono. E whitu i whakakahoretia rawatia ahau. I roto i ngā 20, i a au ngā kōwhiringa e rua i kiia he "haumaru" i Wisconsin—ko UW Madison me Marquette. Mō ētahi take, i tino mohio ahau ka uru atu ahau ki reira i runga i ā rātou tatauranga. Nō muri mai ka mōhio ahau he tino āwhina taku tūranga hei hōia tawhito me te wahine. I whiriwhiria e au tētahi kura Ivy League, ā, kāore au e pouri.
Mō te pūtea: Kāore au i whakamahi i te Pire GI. He nui te moni i makahia mai ki ahau. Kāore au e hiahia ki te mahi. Kei te kura taku tamaiti. Kei te noho ahau i roto i tōku ake whare me ngā hoa noho me ā rātou tamariki (whare noho tauira paerua). Kāore au i manukanuka ki tetahi mea. Kāore tetahi e mōhio kua 10 tau te pakeke ake o ahau nā te mea he taitamariki ahau, ā, kei te haere tonu ahau ki te whare takaro. Kāore au e manukanuka ki te pakeketanga nā taku wheako hōia. I muri i te haerenga ki te Middle East, ko ngā mea iti katoa o te ao he mea iti tonu. Ko ētahi atu tauira e tino manukanuka ana mō ngā māka, kāore rātou e moe i te pō, ā, e ako tonu ana. Hei tauira, i tango ahau i tētahi akoranga pūtaiao rorohiko. I whiwhi ahau i te C, engari i mahi tonu ahau i ngā mahi kāinga. E 50% o te akoranga i whakarērea noa iho nā te mea he tino tere, he uaua hoki. Ka tīmata a Python me ngā kaupapa taketake, ā, i te mutunga o te akoranga he whakamunatanga. Kei runga pepa ngā whakamātautau. He nanakia. Ko taku toharite māka he B. Kāore au i tango i tētahi akoranga IT, i tētahi akoranga hangarau rānei i muri i tērā. I te āhua ngāwari te pāngarau, ahakoa i te taumata pāngarau whakarāpopoto. Kāore au i ako ki Rūhia, ā, kāore e taea e au te whakarite, engari anō, kāore e taea e te katoa te mahi.
He Kōrero: He māmā ake te urunga atu mō ngā wāhine. He māmā ake hoki mō ngā hōia tawhito o Amerika. Kei te rapu kaha te Ivy League me ētahi atu whare wānanga i ngā rōpū tokoiti. Me whai kōrero koe hei kōrero. Kāore he mea whakamere te whiwhi 800 i te whakamātautau. I pānui au i aua tuhinga e rua, ā, e mārama ana au he mātau ēnei tāne, engari he hoha. Mena he kaitākaro rongonui o te ao rātou, he whānau rānei i te marama, he āwhina tēnā mō rātou. He rerekē taku whakaaro, nā te mea he tangata whenua ahau, engari kua tūtaki au ki ngā ākonga nō ētahi atu whenua, tae atu ki a Rūhia me Ukraine. Ko taku whakatau: e mōhio ana rātou ki te whakaatu i a rātou anō me te ataahua. He whakakotahitanga o te mōhiotanga kare ā-roto me te IQ. Mena he moni tā te kaitono, he māmā ake te urunga atu. Kua tūtaki au ki ngā tamariki a ngā pirionaire i hoatu ki a rātou he 10-20 miriona tāra i mua i te tono a te tamaiti. Mena he 10 ngā kaitono mō ia tūranga, ā, he 10 ngā kaitono e whiwhi ana i te 800 i te whakamātautau, ka whiriwhiria e rātou he kaitākaro, he tama nā te pirionaire, he kaute tino pai mai i tētahi kura tūmataiti, nā te mea kei a ia ngā whakaritenga katoa mō te angitu. Ā, koinei te mana, nā te mea ka whakahokia e ēnei tauira kua puta te moni ki tā rātou kura ina angitu rātou. Mena i whiwhi ngā perehitini o Amerika, ngā Tumu Whakahaere o F100, me ētahi atu tauira kura tuarua i te mātauranga Ivy League, he tohu tēnei mō te tūponotanga nui e rite ana ngā tauira kua puta, i te toharite, ki te angitu. Ehara i te mea he taurangi 100%, engari ka whakanui ake i ngā tūponotanga.
Waihoki, he nui ake te mana o te tohu paetahi i tētahi kāreti rongonui i te tohu māhita/PhD. He mangere rawa ahau ki te whakamārama. He whakapapa tēnei, e māmā ake ai te uru atu ki tētahi kaupapa māhita/PhD. He maha ngā tāngata e haere ana ki ngā kaupapa māhita i ngā kura rongonui kia whai ingoa ai rātou i roto i ā rātou CV. Ko te hunga i haere ki reira mō te tohu paetahi kua whai ingoa kē, ā, he maha ngā wā ka taea e rātou te tae ki te wāhi e tika ana kia haere rātou. Ā, he iti ake te mahi a te tohu matua i te ingoa o te kura. Kei ngā wāhi katoa te taranata, engari ki te kōrero whānui, me mahi kaha ake te tangata i haere ki tētahi kura tūmatanui i Wisconsin i te tangata i Harvard mēnā kei te hiahia rātou ki te mahi ki Google/Microsoft/Goldman/me ētahi atu. Ka haere mai a Google ki tō mātou puni, ā, he maha ngā tāngata e utua ana e ia mō ngā tūranga tautoko hangarau mōhiohio me te pakihi. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te tohu matua i te pūtaiao rorohiko mēnā kei te haere koe ki Harvard, engari me tohu matua koe i te pūtaiao rorohiko i tētahi kāreti tūmatanui i Nebraska, hei tauira, ā, kāore tēnā e kī taurangi i tetahi mea. I taua wā anō, i tūtaki ahau ki ētahi tāngata e mahi ana hei miihini i Google, ngā kaimahi peeke i Goldman, ngā hoa mahi i McKinsey, ā, ko ō rātou tohungatanga ko te koiora, te tuhinga whakatairite, me ētahi atu.
Kāore au i te hiahia ki te tautohetohe i mua. He whakaaro whaiaro tēnei nāku ake. I taku tau tuatoru anake i whakatau ai ahau ki taku kaupapa matua, ā, ki taku whakaaro kāore he mea nui. Ki te kore, mehemea kei te hiahia ahau ki te whai i te tohu PhD.
Source: will.com
