Kutanga kwechinyorwa chinotsanangura zvikonzero zvinogoneka zvekutarisirwa pasi kwenyanzvi zvinogona kuverengwa nekudzvanya pa .
III Kutarisana nezvikonzero zvekusakoshesa.
Utachiona hwekare hahugone kurapwa - kusvika hwatora mutero, hauzoperi.
Asi inogona uye inofanirwa kudzivirirwa uye matambudziko akadzivirirwa.
Elchin Safarli. (Mabikirwo emufaro)
Sezvo taziva zviratidzo uye chimiro chezvinetso zvinotungamira mukusatariswa kwenyanzvi munzvimbo dzenzvimbo yake yehunyanzvi, ngatisarudze mabikirwo ekurwisa matambudziko anokanganisa zvakanyanya pabasa, uye zvechokwadi pakunzwa kwenzvimbo yemunhu. muzuva.
Asi, kutanga, zvakafanira kubvuma kuti: “Ndine zvinetso uye zviratidzo zvakarongwa muganhuro yapfuura zvinoitika mubasa rangu rounyanzvi.” Iwe unogona, hongu, kushandisa nzira yakaratidza uye uzviudze kuti handizi ini, asi mukomana ari pedyo, uye ini ndinongoda kumubatsira. Ndizvo zvichaitawo.
Sezvo manyorerwo echinyorwa ari mashoma, matambudziko anokurukurwa akadzika kwazvo muzvarirwo, uye kuongororwa kwekuratidzwa kwezviratidzo kwakasiyana, ngatitorei, semuenzaniso, tisarudze mhinduro chete kune dzimwe nyaya dzinomiririra. Uye mune zvakataurwa, vashandisi vane hanya vanogona kuwedzera yavo nyaya kune iyo musoro muchimiro: dambudziko / mhinduro.
1. Gadzira matauriro ako
Ndakabudirira nekuti ndakasvika kune wese wechiGerman, nemuromo uye nekunyora,
kumunyengetedza nezvekururama kwezviito zvake.
Ludwig Erhard
Chishandiso chakakosha chekusimudzira nyanzvi kutepfenyura ruzivo rwemhando yepamusoro kune vamwe nezvesimba rake uye kupembedza kusasimba kwake. Haisi nyanzvi yega yega ine munyori wayo wekutaura kana sevhisi yekudhinda inokwanisa kuita mabasa aya. Nokudaro, zvakakosha zvikuru kune munhu ari kutsvaga kuvaka basa, zvishoma, kukwanisa kuita semutauriri anonakidza, kukwezva kutarisa uye kukurudzira kuvimba. Izvo zvinozotendera iwe kuti upe ruzivo rwakakosha nezve iwe uye nezvezvinhu zvako nenzira yakanaka kwazvo.
Kutanga, kana iwe uri munhu anonyara, kugona rhetoric kunogona kuvandudzwa nekunyora zvinyorwa, zvinyorwa, mishumo, nezvimwe. Asi pane chinhu chimwe chakakosha pano - mumwe munhu asina rusaruro anofanira kuongorora zvaunoedza kuita. Zvakanaka chaizvo kana censor iyi isiri nyaya. Ipapo, nekunetsa kwake, achakwanisa kukumanikidza kuti utaure pfungwa dzako zvakajeka, zvakarongeka uye nenzira inomubvumira kuti arege kurara kubva mukufinhwa, atova mundima yechipiri. Ipapo ndipo paunofunga nezvekuti vamwe vanhu vakabudirira vanonyora sei. Ipapo ndipo paunotanga kuzadza dura remazwi nemazwi matsva, uchisarudza mitsara mitsva mudhairekitori remashoko uye kuunza kureruka uye nyore muzvinyorwa zvakaoma.
Uyezve, kutaura pachena munzvimbo dzematanho akasiyana uye saizi. Nekuongororwa kwekusungirwa kwechikonzero chaive chakashata kupfuura mamwe akabudirira. Ipapo ndipo paunotanga kucherechedza mukutaura kwevamwe kwete chete hunhu pachahwo, asiwo nzira dzekuburitsa pfungwa, nzira dzekupesvedzera kwepfungwa kune vateereri, nezvimwe. Chero nhaurirano inofanirwa kuve nzvimbo yekuyedza yekuyedza ruzivo rwako uye hunyanzvi mumunda wekutaura.
Zvakaomera vanhu vazhinji, kunyanya avo vepfungwa dzehunyanzvi, kuti vangotendeuka kuva nyanzvi yehondo dzekutaura mushure mekuverenga bhuku rekutaura paruzhinji. Mukuita chete munhu anonzwisisa kuti zvinoshanda sei, zvakapihwa, hongu, kuti unoedza kuzviongorora.
2. Gadzira hunyanzvi hwekuzviongorora zvine mutsindo mumamiriro akasiyana.
Musiyano mukuru pakati pemabhuku nehupenyu ndewekuti mumabhuku chikamu chevanhu vepakutanga chakanyanya kukwirira, uye chikamu chevanhu vashoma chakaderera; muhupenyu zvakangodaro.
Aldous Huxley
Panyaya yekuziva matambudziko ekuzviremekedza, muchikamu chekutanga chechinyorwa takasimbisa kukosha kwechiratidzo che "Level of aspirations". Chiyero icho munhu anoedza kuwana munzvimbo dzakasiyana dzehupenyu (basa, chimiro, kugara zvakanaka, nezvimwewo). Isu takakurukura zvakare formula yekuzvisarudzira:
Level of aspiration = Kuwanda kwekubudirira - Kuwanda kwekukundikana
Asi zvino mubvunzo unomuka zvakare: sei kuverenga "Kuwanda Kubudirira" uye "Kuwanda Kukundikana"? Mushure mezvose, iyi ndiyo chete maonero ezviitiko uye zviitiko nemunhu chaiye, kana boka re "kutaurirana" vanhu. Kuongorora kwakadai kwezvishuwo zvemunhu kazhinji kazhinji kwakanangana nekumashure kwekuenzanisa nekubudirira uye kutadza kwevamwe. Izvi zvinotevera kuti "Chiyero cheKubudirira" chako chakanangana nekugona kweavo vakakukomberedza vari kushanda mumunda wekuongorora. Zvichipesana nemashure ekufananidza uku, chimiro chazvino chechiyero chako chechiyero chinonyatso kuratidzwa. Mune mamwe mazwi, iwe unofanirwa kuyera yako Kubudirira и kukundikana, nenzira imwechete iyo mibairo yakafanana inoongororwa nedzimwe nhengo dzechikwata kana kunyange nharaunda yakakura yevanhu vane pfungwa dzakafanana.
Naizvozvo, zvinozoitika kuti iyo yakanyanya kuvimbisa timu yekukura kwako uye kufambira mberi ichave timu umo avhareji chiyero chekuongorora kugona kwevaunoshanda navo ichaenderana neyako. Zvikasadaro, dissonance ichamuka. Muchikwata chisina simba, iwe unozorora pasina kukurudzira kune imwe budiriro. Mukuwedzera, kana iwe uri munhu ane mutoro, iwe unozopedza nguva uchisundidzira timu kusvika padanho repamusoro. Uye kana iwe wakanyanya kusimba, hauzofambidzane nekukura kwakawanda kwekugona kwevaunoshanda navo, izvo, zvisinei, ndezvechokwadi kune iyo kesi kana kugona kwenhengo dzese dzechikwata kwakafanana.
3. Edza kuramba uchiziva nezvenzvimbo itsva dzinovimbisa nyanzvi
Budiriro nedzidzo hazvigone kupihwa kana kupihwa kune chero munhu.
Ani nani anoda kubatana navo anofanira kuwana izvi kuburikidza nekuita kwavo, simba ravo pachavo, uye nesimba ravo pachavo.
Adolf Disterweg
Kuti uwane mukana mubasa uye kukura kwehunyanzvi pamusoro pevezera rako, iwe unofanirwa kugara uchifamba uye uchitevera maitiro matsva anogona kuve "zvese zvese" mangwana. Nzira iri nyore yekugara mukuyerera kwehunyanzvi ndeyekugara uchitarisa nguva, nyanzvi mablog, nezvimwe.
Zvakanaka chaizvo kana timu iine vatungamiriri vehunyanzvi vanogona kugovana nechikwata magadzirirwo ayo akatopepetwa kuburikidza nesefa yekugona kwavo uye intuition. Izvi zvakanyanya kuwedzera kugona kwekuzvidzidzira uye zvinokutendera iwe kuti uise pfungwa dzako pachinhu chakakosha, pasina kupararira pamusoro pemhando dzese dzefluff. Naizvozvo, kushanda muchikwata chine vatungamiriri - nyanzvi mareferensi mapoinzi - inogara yakanakira yako tarisiro.
Chikwata chedu nguva pfupi yadarika chakapinda mupurojekiti yekugadzira patsva software yekiriniki yekurapa. Takashamisika kugumburwa nekukura kwaiita sebasa rechikoro chemudzidzi ... makore makumi maviri apfuura. Zvakazoitika kuti chisikwa ichi chakagadzirwa nemugadziri wega, achifamba munyika yake. Aigara achichinja chimwe chinhu, achigadzirisa zvikanganiso zvinogara zvichionekwa, asi pasinei nezvose, kushandiswa hakuna kuchinja. Kuedza kwese kubatira pamwe naye kwakaguma nemhinganidzo huru. Hatina kukwanisa kumutsanangurira kuti tekinoroji yagara ichienda mberi uye kumanikidza vanhu kushandisa zvine hunhu uye zvinoshanda zvechinyakare software ingori isina tsika. Havana kutanga kushungurudza psyche yevanhu uye kumubvisa kunze kwe "Matrix".
4. Bvisa utera hwako uye kusimudzira masimba ako
Vasina simba ndivo vanofanira kuva vakasimba voenda kana vakasimba vasina kusimba kuti vakuvadze vasina simba.
Milan Kundera
Hazvina kuoma kuziva nezve utera hwako; kuti uite izvi, iwe unongoda kunzwa zvavanotaura pamusoro pako muchikwata. Mushoko rekuti “inzwa”, muchirevo chechinyorwa chino, ndinoreva pfungwa dzekuona, kuziva, kudzedzereka, nezvimwe.
Kubvuma zvikanganiso zvako nguva dzose kwakaoma. Sechikamu chebasa rangu reunyanzvi, ndakagara ndichisangana nevanhu vane tarenda avo, mukukurukurirana, vasingagamuchire zvikanganiso zvavo uye kushaya simba kwavo, asi gare gare, vakunda "Ini" wavo mukuru, ivo vachiri vakanyarara, vasina kushambadza, vanoshandura pfungwa dzavo. Ndizvo zvichaitawo.
Kugadzirisa matambudziko mazhinji aunokwanisa kudzidza nezvawo nekuteerera pfungwa dzevamwe, unogona kushandisa akawanda mablogiki uye dzidziso dzakaburitswa muhuwandu hukuru paInternet. Chinhu chikuru hachisi kurega matambudziko achitora nzira yavo.
Rimwe divi renyaya iri kukurukurwa rine chekuita nekuvapo kwesimba rako. Kuti uzvisimbise, unofanira kunangidzira nhamburiko dzako sezvinobvira munzvimbo yaunowana mukana wokuzviziva umene nenzira yakanakisisa inobvira. Haufanire kugogodza pamusuwo wehunyanzvi hwakashata kwauri pane imwe nzira. Maitiro ekugadzira software ( ) yakakura kwazvo uye mairi iwe unogona kugara uchizviwanira nzvimbo yakakukodzera inoenderana nezvaunogona uye mafungiro.
Semuenzaniso, mushure mekubudirira kushanda kwemakore gumi nemasere semugadziri wepurogiramu, ndakatamira mumunda wekuongorora masisitimu uye kutonga kweprojekiti pasina kuzvidemba. Mukuona kwangu, zvinhu zvose zviri mundima iyi zvakanyanya kukosha, zvakasimba uye zvakagadzikana. Ndinonzwa kusununguka munzira iyi.
5. Chenjerera kusazivikanwa munzvimbo yausinganzwisise
Mitoro chinhu chinobatika chose, chinobatika, asi mikana ... inotova chimera - isina kusimba, haina zvazvinoreva, uye dzimwe nguva ine njodzi. Sezvaunokura nekuchenjera, unoona izvi wobva wasiyana nazvo. Zviri nani. Uye kudzikama.
Nicholas Evans.
Dingindira rechitsauko chino rinonyatsopindirana nechitsauko “2. Gadzira hunyanzvi hwekuzviongorora zvine hungwaru mumamiriro akasiyana," umo takatarisa maitiro aungaita zvirevo zvako kune imwe nzvimbo muchikwata chevanoshamwaridzana. Mune mamwe mazwi, kusarudza chinzvimbo chedu pachiyero chekugona kwechikwata, mukuenzanisa nedzimwe nhengo dzechikwata. Uye takaona kuti zvakanaka kana ongororo yedu yemamiriro ezvinhu aya, pamwe nechikanganiso chidiki, ichiri kuenderana nemafungiro evazhinji. Zvikasadaro, uri kushanda pane timu isiri iyo.
Asi pane imwe chiyero chekuyera. Kuongorora kwemanejimendi kwechinzvimbo chako muchikwata. Iyo inogona kunge isingaenderane nekuongororwa kwakatsanangurwa pamusoro, sezvo iine mamwe ma paramita akakosha akananga manejimendi, ayo anogadzirisa matambudziko ayo mune yakajairika chikonzero chechikwata.
Musiyano wakakosha pakati pezviongorori zviviri izvi ndewekuti vatambi vanoongorora chinzvimbo chenyanzvi mune Mikana (ruzivo, hunyanzvi, hunyanzvi hwekutaura, nezvimwewo), uye maneja Kukosha kwakagadzirwa (mhedzisiro yekupedzwa kwebasa, maererano ne: mhando, kubereka, kubatsira mukudyidzana, pesvedzero kune dzimwe nhengo dzechikwata, nezvimwewo). Unonzwa musiyano here?
Nokudaro, kukanganisa pakuongorora nzvimbo yemunhu pachiyero che "mikana," kukanganisa pakugadzirisa nzvimbo pachiyero che "maitiro akasikwa" anogona kuwedzerwa.
Zvakanyanya kuomera mushandi kuti awane ongororo pamhando yechipiri yechikero nekuda kwekuti kazhinji ane ruzivo rudiki rwekuti kukosha kwaanogadzira kunoyerwa sei. Saizvozvo, kumubvunzo: "Sei ndichibhadharwa zvishoma pane iye murume?" Nzira iri nyore yekuwana mhinduro ndeyekudzidza zvakawanda nezve "value yakagadzirwa" chiyero.
Kuzviita sei? Muchiitiko chimwe nechimwe chakasiyana. Nzira iri nyore ndeyekubvunza maneja (kana achikurudzirwa kutaura nezvazvo). Sarudzo yacho yakanyanya kuoma - iva maneja iwe pachako uye ongorora zvese kubva mukati.
6. Gara uchiita mabasa ako nechido chikuru, zvisinei nekukurudzira
Uyo asingaite zvaanenge audzwa haambofi akasvika pamusoro.
uye uyo asingaite zvinopfuura zvaanenge audzwa.
Andrew Carnegie.
Kana iwe uri kuita basa, gara uchiita nemazvo sezvinobvira, kana kuti usaite basa racho zvachose!
Pane chinhu chakadai mubhizinesi se "Kupfuura Zvinotarisirwa." Muchidimbu, iyi inyanzvi apo mutengi anogamuchira sevhisi kana chigadzirwa chisingangogutsi zvakazara hunhu hwakaziviswa, asiwo nekuwedzera sarudzo dzisina kutaurwa mukupihwa kwekutanga. Zvisinei, mari yacho haichinji. Iyi nzira inokonzeresa kusaenzana kwemanzwiro, izvo zvinogadzira cheni yese yemaitiro akanaka anounza mamwe mabhonasi kune mutengesi. Muchimiro chemutengi akavimbika, kurudziro yakanaka inounza vatengi vatsva, kutenga kwezvimwe zvishongedzo, nezvimwe. Zvose pamwe chete, izvi zvinokonzera imwe resonance, iyo, pasina kubatanidzwa kwako, inoshanda kune purofiti yako kwenguva yakareba.
Iyi pfungwa ye resonance inobata chokwadi kune bhizinesi social engineering. Mhedzisiro yebasa remushandi, iyo nguva yega yega inodarika zvishoma zvinotarisirwa nemanejimendi, nekusazvibata kunokochekera manejimendi pahuku hwekunzwa. Asi ichi chingori chirauro pachirauro. Uye kana iwe ukasazvirova nezvikumbiro zvakananga zvezvaunofarira, zvino izvi zvinodarika zvinotarisirwa zvinogona kuve zvakajairwa uye kurega kuve zvakanyanyisa. Pane mutsara wakanaka wekunzwisisa pano. Mushure mezvose, takati "Kupfuura Zvinotarisirwa" mhedzisiro inoitika pasina kushandura mutengo wechigadzirwa / sevhisi, nekuda kwemamwe mabhonasi anotendera iwe kutungamira pakati pevamwe vakwikwidzi (munyaya yedu, nhengo dzechikwata).
Kana tikaisa parutivi kutsoropodza, tinogona kukuraira kuti ugare uchiona chero basa sedambudziko rako pachako uye riite nemazvo uye zvinobudirira sezvinobvira, zvisinei nemubairo unotarisirwa. Sezvo mutemo, nzira iyi inokonzera resonance yataurwa pamusoro apa, iyo inokanganisa kukura kwebasa.
Mukuita kwangu, pane imwe nyaya apo mugadziri ane hanya, uyo akagamuchira hupenyu hwekambani se "yake," pakupedzisira akagamuchira kupiwa kuti ave muridzi wayo.
7. Paunenge uchiita chisarudzo, zvibate zvakasununguka, pasina kuedza kufadza chero munhu
Zviri nani kuve wakanganisa zvakanyanya pane kuve wakarurama nepakati pemoyo.
Tallulah Bankhead
Takakurukura muchikamu chekutanga chechinyorwa chakadai sekutadza kuita sarudzo uye takasarudza kuti muvengi wekukura kwebasa.
Mubhuku rino, tichakurukura chimwe chete chezvikonzero zvinowanzoita kuti munhu arege kuita zvisarudzo, zvakadai sekuda kufadza mutarisiri. Kupesana nekumashure kwechishuwo ichi chembwa, kusahadzika kunomuka kuti chii chichabata mutengi zvakanyanya: ichi kana icho. Uye pachinzvimbo chekungotsvaga mhinduro yakakwana mune imwe mamiriro ezvinhu, pane kurwira mukati mekusarudza nzira inogona kukukunda iwe. Nekuda kweizvozvo, imwe mhando yenhema, cynicism uye mamwe asingafadzi shades anooneka. Kubva kunze, iyi inratiation inonyatsooneka, uye kazhinji inotaridzika inosiririsa.
Paunenge uchiita sarudzo, usatarise kuti sarudzo yacho ichataridzika sei kubva kunze. Usasiye chikafu chemapete mumusoro mako; kuabvisa gare gare kuchanetsa. Iyi isarudzo yako, haigone kuve yakaipa (zvishoma, zvisizvo). Kurukura nevamwe, ratidza kuti wakarurama, kutanga kwauri iwe pachako. Asi panguva imwe chete, zvinokosha zvikuru kuteerera vamwe uye kubvuma zvikanganiso zvako.
Maneja anotarisana nemhedzisiro anonyanya kugadzikana kushanda nevanhu vane chivimbo. Iwo akanyanya kuoma kubata, asi zvakanyanya nyore kuita sarudzo mumamiriro ezvinhu ane chokwadi chikuru.
Ndine sirogani paakaundi yangu yeSkype: "Kubudirira kunowanikwa kwete neavo vanoita sarudzo dzakakodzera, asi neavo vanoita sarudzo dzavo."
8. Ngwarira manyepo ebudiriro
Mutemo mukuru wezvokwadi hausi kuvhiringidzika mukufungidzira kwako.
firimu Kutanga (Kutanga)
Ndakambofanira kushanda nechikwata chakashandura retrospective - yeAgile methodology chishandiso chakagadzirirwa kuongorora mhedzisiro yekupedzisa nhanho yazvino yebasa, nekuvandudzwa kwakatevera kwemaitiro ebasa - kuita tsika yekuzvirumbidza kuchikwata.
Kungove maneja, ndakaverenga pane imwe nzvimbo kuti timu chimiro chesangano rakaomarara, uye rinongoda kurumbidzwa nekukosheswa, uku richiridzivirira kubva pakutsoropodzwa. Naizvozvo, panguva yekudzokororwa, timu yakauya neanosvika zvishanu zvakanaka zvechikamu chakaongororwa. Sezvo boka racho rakanga riri duku zvikuru, ndivo vakauya nekukunda kwavo, uye havana kutaura kubudirira.
Nekunze, kuita kwacho kwaiita sechikomba chiri kuenda kufurati yemwenga pamuchato kuburikidza nemutsetse wehama nevasikana, vachidzvanya vimbiso pamberi peboka idzva rega rega pamusoro peimwe nzira yaaizoita hupenyu hweaizova mudzimai wake. uye hama dzake dzakanyanya kufara. “Ndichamutakura mumaoko angu! Ndichapuruzira vamwene vangu!..” Chikwata chakanyora izvi zvakabudirira kure-kure mujenari kuitira kuti zvisazoyeukwa zvakare, uye kwete kuitira kuti purojekiti yebudiriro ibudirire zvishoma.
Kumubvunzo wangu, tichagadzirisa riini matambudziko uye kukanganisa, ndakagamuchira mhinduro yekuti timu ichiri diki uye hapana chikonzero chekuishungurudza nendangariro dzisingafadzi. Sekureva kwemaneja, iyi nzira yekukurudzira yakashanda nemazvo mumapurojekiti ake apfuura, inzira inoshanduka uye haisati yamutadza kusvika parizvino. Asi mune inotevera yakakura-chiyero purojekiti, neiyi nzira, chirongwa chese chakadonha seimba yemakadhi. Chikwata ichi, chinogara mukufara kwekunyepedzera kwavo, hachina kuterera kune matambudziko ari pachena muchigadzirwa chiri kugadzirwa uye maitiro ekusikwa kwayo kusvika nguva yasvika yekuendesa mhedzisiro yakaoma kumutengi, uye kuti abhadhare. njodzi yese iyi.
Iyi nyaya iri pamusoro pekuti iwe unogona sei kuwira mumusungo zviri nyore kana iwe ukakwanisa kubudirira kusunda nyaya yakapusa kuburikidza nemuchina wakavakirwa chete pamanzwiro ako uye fungidziro, iri kure nechirongwa chinoshanda chechokwadi. Chiitiko chekutanga chakabudirira chinokonzera kufara kubva mukubudirira, kutyaira kunzwa kwekuchenjerera mumakona ari kure kwazvo ekuziva. Asi iyo inotevera kesi yakaoma chaizvo inoisa zvese munzvimbo yayo. Kazhinji, matambudziko haaoneki pakarepo, asi ramba uri shure, zvishoma nezvishoma uchikuendesa mumusungo, uchikwevera pfungwa dzako nemafungiro anonyengera kubva pane zvakaitika munguva yapfuura. Kana huwandu hwakakomba hwezvikanganiso huchiungana kumashure kwako, chimiro chese chinotanga kudonha.
Izvo zvinodikanwa kungwarira nzira nyowani dzisina kuedzwa newe, kunyangwe dzakasungirirwa neakawanda laurels uye dzichibatwa nerukudzo. Kunyanya kana mirairo yekushandiswa kwavo ichizivisa mune zvakasikwa, pane mukana wakakura wekuti iwe unotora chete tsika kubva kumusoro, usinganzwisisi zvakadzika zvakadzika, izvo zvakanyanya munhu kune akasiyana zviitiko zvezuva nezuva.
9. Pump up manzwiro pakuchinja mabasa eunyanzvi
Handisi munhu asina tariro. Ndiri munhu anotonhora, akaneta, ane nzara ane tariro
Olga Gromyko. (Vavengi vakatendeka)
Nezera uye nehunyanzvi "kukura," kazhinji kacho kutsva kwehunyanzvi kunobuda mumaziso enyanzvi. Aiwa, haaregi hazvo kuva muvambi, asi kubva pakuona kwevadiki uye vanopisa, hutsva uhwu hunoratidzika sehuri kufamba zvishoma nezvishoma: kufinha, kusingafadzi uye kunonoka kunonoka. Nguva iri kupera, vakwikwidzi havana kurara, maminetsi ese anoverengerwa uye chero kunonoka kunongova kuregeredza kwemhosva.
Naizvozvo, kana uchichinja nzvimbo dzebasa, nzvimbo dzebasa uye mamwe mafambiro munzvimbo dzehunyanzvi, kune rumwe rutivi, zvinokurudzirwa kuti uzvisimudzire mupfungwa, semuenzaniso, nerubatsiro rwekudzidzisa kunopa simba kana mabhuku akakosha, uye kune rumwe rutivi, kutakura vaunoshanda navo vadiki asi vane ruzivo rushoma nekupa masimba kwavari. Uye ngavaite chishamiso chavanotarisira kubva kwauri. Vadzidzise kuita chishamiso, uye vachengete vakabatikana nekuita uku!
10. Usaronga ruzivo rwako mukushandiswa kwechigadzirwa pane modhi yekutonga iyi maitiro.
Mufaro womumwe munhu unogara uchiita sewakawedzeredza kwauri.
Charles de Montesquieu
Takaona muchikamu chekutanga chechinyorwa kuti kuongorora basa remaneja kubva pakuona kwevatambi vasina kutangwa muhunyanzvi hwekutungamira hakusi comme il faut. Vane seti yakasiyana yezviratidzo zvekuongorora kushanda. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti izvo zvinodiwa pakugadzirwa kwechigadzirwa uye kurongeka kwekugadzirwa kwechigadzirwa ichi mabasa maviri akasiyana zvachose anoda hunyanzvi hwakasiyana uye hunyanzvi, hunhu hwakasiyana hwemunhu, kugadzirira kwepfungwa uye tsika, nezvimwe. kushanda kunobudirira.
Chiratidzo chete chekuti mune iyi nyaya inogona kushandiswa kurova maneja uchicherekedza hunhu nehunhu "kutadza kuita mapurojekiti" aanoita zvakananga. Ichi ndicho chiratidzo chake. Ehe, ane mamirioni ezvikonzero izvo zvakamutadzisa kuita zvese "sezvazvaifanira", asi izvi, sezvavanotaura, harisi dambudziko rako.
Source: www.habr.com