Njengomuntu owaqala ukwenza umdlalo wakhe wokuqala njengento yokuzilibazisa ngaphandle kokuhlangenwe nakho kokuhlela, ngangihlala ngifunda izifundo ezihlukahlukene neziqondiso zokuthuthukiswa komdlalo. Futhi njengomuntu ovela ku-PR kanye nobuntatheli ovame ukusebenza ngombhalo, ngifuna iskripthi nezinhlamvu, hhayi nje imishini yokudlala igeyimu. Sizobheka ukuthi ngizihumushele ngokwami lesi sihloko, njengesikhumbuzo, kodwa kuhle uma omunye umuntu esithola siwusizo.
Iphinde ihlole uhlamvu lwabalingiswa isebenzisa isibonelo sabasekeli bethiyori yoMhlaba eyisicaba.
Umbhalo wefilimu ethi "Apocalypse Now" (1979) esekelwe encwadini ethi "Heart of Darkness" (1899) kaJoseph Conrad.
Isibikezelo
Ngisebenza kugeyimu enabalingisi abaningi. Kodwa ukubhala izinhlamvu akuyona isudi yami eqinile, ngakho-ke ngaqala ukuhlangana nababhali bangempela. Impendulo yabo iyigugu.
Sahlangana emigwaqweni ephithizelayo, sihlala ezindaweni zokucima ukoma phezu kwamaphayinti, sithumelelana i-imeyili futhi siphikisana. Ngike ngahlangana nabantu abanemibono ehlukene ngodaba olufanayo. Kodwa ngikwazile ukuhlonza amaphuzu ambalwa avamile ngesisekelo sabalingiswa ababhalayo.
Manje ngizobonisa amanothi ami avela emihlanganweni yombhali futhi ngiwangezelele ngemicabango evela encwadini ka-John Yorke ethi Into The Woods - amanothi anjalo azomakwa ngesifinyezo esithi ITW. Ngethemba ukuthi zizoba usizo.
Uhlamvu vs. Izimpawu
Umnyombo womlingiswa ukungqubuzana phakathi kokuthi sifuna ukubonwa kanjani kanye nendlela esizizwa ngayo ngempela [ITW]. Noma ngamanye amazwi: ukungqubuzana phakathi kokulingiswa kwethu (isithombe) nomlingiswa wethu wangempela kusenhliziyweni yakho konke (idrama).
Ngakho-ke, ukuze umlingiswa athandeke futhi ahlanganiswe kahle, kufanele angqubuzane ngandlela thize. Kumelwe abe nesithombe sezimpawu azibheka njengeziwusizo (ngokuqaphela noma cha) futhi okuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ziqale ukumphazamisa. Ukuze awine kuzomele awalahle.
Futhi ngenkathi begcina isithombe sabo, abalingiswa bakhuluma ngendlela abafuna ukubonakala ngayo emehlweni abanye [ITW].
Ukubhala izingxoxo
Uma umlingisi esho noma enza into ephambene ngokuphelele nomlingisi, idrama iba nempilo. Inkhulumomphendvulwano akufanele imane ichaze ukuziphatha, akufanele ichaze ukuthi umlingiswa ngokwakhe ucabangani - kufanele ibonise umlingiswa, hhayi umlingisi.
Ukhiye wenkhulumomphendvulwano yemvelo ukuba nomlingiswa ongamcabanga ekhanda lakho, kunokuba ucabange ngawo wonke umugqa owodwa. Shiya ukusebenza ngezintambo ukuze uthole kamuva. Ababhali abaningi bavele bahlale nekhasi elingenalutho bacabange ukuthi umlingiswa wabo uzothini. Kunalokho, dala uhlamvu oluzikhulumela lona.
Ngakho into yokuqala ukwakha umlingiswa.
Ukwakha umlingiswa, kufanele ubheke umlingiswa ngama-engeli amaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Nansi imibuzo yabalingiswa embalwa okufanele uzibuze yona (lolu akulona uhlu oluphelele noma olungcono kakhulu, kodwa indawo enhle yokuqala):
- Unjani phambi kwabantu? Unomusa, uthukuthele, uhlale ujahile?
- Lapho eyedwa endlini yangasese, kude nomuntu, yimiphi imicabango efika kuqala engqondweni yakhe?
- Uvelaphi futhi uyaphi? Ingabe uvela endaweni empofu noma ecebile? Uthule noma umatasatasa? Ingabe idabukile phakathi kwabo?
- Uthandani? Yini angayithandi? Uma efike ngosuku futhi wa-odolwa ukudla angakuthandi, uzosabela kanjani?
- Angakwazi ukushayela? Ingabe uyathanda ukushayela? Iziphatha kanjani emgwaqeni?
- Wathola isithombe sakhe esidala: kuye ngokuthi isithombe sathathwa nini futhi nobani, wayezosabela kanjani?
Njalo njalo. Uma unezimpendulo eziningi mayelana nomlingiswa, kuba yilapho ujula futhi uphoqa. Ekugcineni, umlingiswa uzocacisa kangangokuthi uzobhala eyakhe inkhulumomphendvulwano.
Owesifazane, oneminyaka ephakathi kuka-26 no-29 ubudala. Phakathi neminyaka yakhe yesikole, ukuphila kwakhe kwakunesicefe. Wayenabangane abambalwa futhi walishiya idolobha ngokushesha ngemva kokuthweswa iziqu. Endaweni entsha, uba nesibindi futhi unquma ukuyophuza. Kunezinkulungwane zabantu edolobheni elikhulu futhi amathuba okuhlangana nomuntu maningi kakhulu. Angene eshibhini. Kumele aphushe esixukwini. Ngokuphazima kweso uyaqaphela ukuthi uyena ongenamfashini kakhulu ekusungulweni. Kumthatha isikhathi ukuthola isihlalo esingenamuntu. Ekugcineni, uhlala phansi. Ngemva kwamahora amabili, kufika indoda kuye.
“Unjani?” uyabuza.
Uyaphendula: “Kulungile. Ngiyabonga".
“Konke kuhamba kahle nakimi,” kusho le ndoda.
“Eh, ngiyabona,” kusho yena. Indoda ilungisa umphimbo.
Kusobala ukuthi indoda izethemba kakhulu kunaye. Akalindanga ukubuzwa ukuthi uqhuba kanjani. "Hmm, ngiyabona",kusho intombazane. Udidekile. Okokuqala, ngenxa yokuthi wayezizwa engakhululekile, futhi okwesibili, ngoba indoda yayimphatha kabi. Wayengakayijwayeli impilo yasedolobheni ematasatasa le ndoda eyakhulela kuyo. Wayelindele ingxoxo ngendlela ayeyijwayele edolobheni. Walibona iphutha lakhe waqala walungisa umphimbo enamahloni. Okushoyo lapha ukuthi kuningi okumele bakufunde ngomunye nomunye. Ukuphila kwabo kuhamba ngesivinini esingafani, futhi uma befuna ukwenza abangane, kuzodingeka bafunde futhi bakhule.
Isibonelo esihle yisimo sokuvula ifilimu ethi "Inethiwekhi Yomphakathi" (2010), lapho abalingiswa bexhumana khona. Kunamavidiyo amaningi anokuhlaziywa oseshweni, ngakho ngeke ngiwaphinde.
I-Social Network (2010, uDavid Fincher)
Ngakho, ukuze sakhe inkhulumomphendvulwano, kufanele sakhe umlingiswa. Ngomqondo othile, inkhulumomphendvulwano yokubhala iwukulingisa umlingiswa. Labo. incazelo yalokho umlingiswa angakusho ngempela uma ebekhona.
Izinkomba zohlamvu
Ukuze udale izinto, udinga ezinye izinto. Lokhu kusebenza futhi emikhakheni yokudala. Abantu bayizinhlamvu. Ungumlingiswa. Ngakho-ke kufanele ukhulume nabantu ukuze uqoqe izinto ezibonakalayo. Abantu bagcina amakhulukhulu ezindaba zempilo ngaphakathi kwabo. Okufanele ukwenze ukubuza futhi cishe wonke umuntu uzokujabulela ukukutshela ngabo. Vele ulalele ngokucophelela.
Ngake ngisendaweni yokucima ukoma ngangena engxoxweni nomlutha wotshwala. Wake waba umthuthukisi omuhle nomthengisi. Watshela into eyodwa ethakazelisayo - umbono wakhe mayelana nokuwohloka kwamadoda. Kuzwakale kanje: ngawo-70s kanye nama-80s, amakilabhu amadoda aqala ukuvala ngobuningi. Ngenxa yalokhu, cishe babengenayo indawo yokuhlala namanye amadoda (okusho ukuthi abanabafazi nabesifazane). Ngaphandle kokukodwa - obhuki. Ngakho-ke, isidingo sokubheja sakhula kakhulu, amahhovisi amasha avulwa ngokugxumagxuma, futhi amadoda aya ngokuya ewohloka. Ngambuza ukuthi ukuvalwa kwezimayini eNyakatho (kanye nokuntuleka kwemisebenzi kwabaningi) kube nomthelela yini ekuqhamukeni kobhuki. Wavuma, ejabulile ngalokhu kwenezelwa kwethiyori yakhe. Kodwa wabe eseshaya ithempeli lakhe ngomunwe wathi: “Kodwa abantu abafana nathi abafuni - niyazi, abantu abahlakaniphile. Asichithi isikhathi kulaba bobhuki." Ngokuvuma ngekhanda okunqobayo, wagwinya okungenzeka kwakuyipayinti yakhe yesi-25 yesonto. Emini, endaweni yokucima ukoma. Udweshu lwenziwe samuntu.
U-Chuck Palahniuk, umbhali we-Fight Club, angakhuluma ngalokhu amahora amaningi. Qoqa futhi uxoxe kabusha izindaba zabantu bangempela njengoba beqala ukuphila izimpilo zabo. Qiniseka ukuthi ubheka noma yikuphi ukubonakala kuka-Chuck.
Kodwa ngaphezu kokuxhumana nabantu bangempela, udinga ukufunda abanye ababhali, amabhulogi angaziwa, ulalele ama-podcasts wokuvuma izono, funda abalingiswa be-movie, njalonjalo.
Kukhona idokhumentari enjalo ethi Behind The Curve (“Behind the Curve”, 2018) ekhuluma ngeqembu labasekeli bethiyori eyisicaba yoMhlaba. Ayingeni emininingwaneni eminingi mayelana nemibono yabo, kodwa ifilimu enhle yokuhlola abalingisi ngokwabo.
Omunye wabalingisi befilimu, u-Patricia Steer, uqhuba isiteshi se-YouTube esizinikezele ezingxoxweni ezimayelana nethiyori ethi Earth flat kanye nomphakathi uwonke. Kodwa-ke, akabukeki njengombhali wozungu nhlobo. Ukwengeza, wayengeyena njalo umsekeli wethiyori, kodwa weza kuyo ngezinye izinkolelo-mbono ezihlukahlukene zozungu. Njengoba isiteshi sakhe sithola ukuduma, imibono yetulo yaqala ukuvela eduze kwakhe.
Inkinga yamalungu emiphakathi enjalo ukuthi izinkolelo zawo zihlala zihlekwa usulu - “izwe elikhulu, elibi” lihlale limelene nawo. Esimweni esinjalo, ngokwemvelo baqala ukuba nomuzwa wokuthi wonke umuntu ongakholwa kanye naye uyisitha. Kodwa lokhu kungasebenza nakwamanye amalungu omphakathi. Ngokwesibonelo, uma izinkolelo zabo zashintsha kungazelelwe.
Kukhona isikhashana efilimini lapho esho okuthile okunjengokuthi (hhayi izwi nezwi): “Abantu bangibiza ngesibankwa, bathi ngisebenzela i-FBI noma ngiwupopayi wenhlangano ethile.”.
Kube sekufika isikhathi lapho esesonqenqemeni lokuqwashisa. Uyambona nje ukuthi uyagodola uma ecabanga ukuthi izinto abazikhuluma ngaye ziwubulima futhi azilona iqiniso. Kodwa washo okufanayo nangabanye abantu. Ingabe kwakuwubuwula? Kuthiwani uma ithiyori yomhlaba oyisicaba ingelona iqiniso? Ingabe wayeqinisile ngaso sonke isikhathi?
Khona-ke kufanele ngabe kwenzeke ukuqhuma okunengqondo ekhanda lakhe, kodwa ususa yonke imicabango ngokuphawula okuthile futhi aqhubeke ekholelwa kulokho akukholelwayo. Ukungqubuzana phakathi komlingiswa kusanda kuqubuka empini enkulu yangaphakathi futhi uhlangothi olungenangqondo lunqobile.
Imizuzwana emihlanu emangalisayo.
Abantu bangaba iqoqo lokuphazima kwemizuzwana emihlanu okungenakuvinjwa.
Ekugcineni
Ingabe usagqolozele ikhasi elingenalutho uzibuza ukuthi abalingisi bakho bazothini? Awukathuthuki isimilo sabo ngokwanele ukuthi bazikhulumele. Kuzodingeka uqale uthole zonke izici zomlingisi ukuze ube nengxoxo. Futhi ukusesha okusheshayo kwemibuzo yokwakha abalingisi kuyindawo enhle yokuqala.
Ingabe umlingiswa wakho ulungile, kodwa aphoqelelwe kakhulu futhi awakhangi? Idinga ukungqubuzana nesithombe, ukungqubuzana nokudideka.
Izinhlamvu zakha izinhlamvu ezintsha.
Bheka abalingisi abaseduze nawe empilweni yangempela.
Source: www.habr.com